Repeat Escorts

[rocky]

I've asked this before in a different way but

hoping I bring a bit more clarity. Are there

colleagues of mine elsewhere who have established

a relationship with an escort over a number of

years but suddenly get the impression that the

escort as nice as he may be is taking advantage

of you. Not money wise but attentive and affection?

I might be a bit crazy but I still say when you

spend $10k plus a year on an escort there should

be some special attention, am I wrong? Thanks,

Rocky

[Epigonos]

Before some of us feel able to address your question we need to know exactly what you mean by "special attention"

[rocky]

Well not looking for price discounts, but again

maybe if you are a close to weekly customer that

might come in to play, but attention as to planning

dates to get together, when together attention to

each other and a feeling that you are the special

one of the evening; not sure if I'm expressing my

self well..

[Epigonos]

Please keep in mind that I am expressing my opinion and my opinion only. So here goes.

The price discount issue is one that, as far as I'm concerned, you need to discuss with the escort. If you are talking about single hour get togethers or overnights I'm not sure I think discounts are warranted. If you are talking about traveling together for extended periods of time that is a different issue and a discount might be appropriate.

I'm not sure I consider get togethers with escorts "dates". The word date carries a lot of implications some of which are not valid when one is in a business arrangement with an escort. We must NEVER forget that when dealing with escorts we clients are ALWAYS in a business situation.

Exactly how much time do you want to spend planning your get togethers? Is the amount of time excessive to the point that it interferes with the escort's dealing with his other clients and his personal/private life?

I do agree that when you are with the escort, paying for his time, you SHOULD be his center of his attention. That is, however, in my opinion, valid whenever one is with any esscort even for the first time.

Well for whatever it is worth, NOT very much I'm sure that is my opinion. Hope things work out to your satisfaction.

 

P.S.

Have you considered diversifying?

[rocky]

I thank you for your time and kind comments. This hasn't been easy but knowing that I've been generous and spent a great deal of money I just wonder what the ground rules are. Sometimes it feels as if you are being used, I'm a simple person who feels I should be able to spend my money as I like and if I like spending it on things that make me feel good, that's my business. It's difficult to diversify where I'm from (upstate NY) so there are some who have a command performance. Anyhow, thanks..best, Rocky

[+ deej]

The ground rules are easy. There are none.

 

The escort business is as individual as the number of escorts and clients. What works between one escort/client may not work between others.

[Guest alanm]

>Sometimes it feels as if you are being used.

>

Anyhow, thanks..best, Rocky

 

Deej is right, there are no rules. But feelings are very important, especially when you have known an escort this long.

 

Whatever you decide -- there is no right or wrong answer -- good luck.

[BigD]

>Sometimes it feels as if you are being used...

Rocky

We are being used, but we are also using the escort.

This does not mean there can't be tender and genuine

moments of sentiment, but we are paying for a service

and the escort is receiving payment for the service.

Don't let your mind stray too far from the business

aspect of escorting. If you are seeking intamacy or

a relationship outside of sex for pay, you are not

going to be happy with this arrangement. I for one

get a great deal of enjoyment for the price.

BigD

[Lookin]

Rocky, I'm not sure if you're saying that he's taking you for granted and treating you less well than he used to, or if you think he should start treating you better and better because you're such a good customer.

 

If he's taking you for granted, that's wrong, and he should get a good spanking. I'd confront him on it, unless you're willing to put up with it.

 

On the other hand, if you think he owes you extra special treatment because you see him so often, that could be a problem. He may already be treating you as well as he's capable of, and you may be asking him for something he can't give, or only wants to give to a lover.

 

As deej said, there are a lot of different ways for this relationship to work. It might be good to talk with him, and see if there's a way that works for both of you.

 

Your feelings are important, and you deserve to be treated well; if not by this guy, then by some other guy. Maybe you could set aside one week a month for "interviews". There are lots of college guys and professors in upstate New York!

 

Best wishes.