My Very Expensive Hobby.....or All MY Overnites.....

[Okliehomo]

I was sitting in my hotel room last Sunday nite, waiting to go pick up Kristian at the airport. I was thinking about a response that I had received from another SF escort that because of a bad experience with a client the week before in which he was stiffed (his word) and not in a good way. Left with no fee for 4 days and the hotel bill on top of that...anyway, so now, he doesn't trust me and wants me to pay half upfront. That kind of insulted me and I was planning a reply along the lines of "I have hired more than....guys " but then I got to thinking, how many is that exactly? So, I sat down in the hotel room and made a list. So, here it is...if you are interested and if you are not, just don't read it and please don't feel the need to post something snide, hurtful, shitty or in your mind, clever..

 

1. Clint Cooper/LA

2. Ridge/Chicago

3. Trent Fosters/Dallas at the time

4. Marco Ferreti (6 times at least)also Dallas, but now Mexico City

5. Ken/Austin

6. Kyle Cannon/Denver

7. Ricky Price/Denver

8. Alec Martinez/Orlando

9. Trey Rexx/SD

10.Dan/Nashville

11.Mark/Long Beach

12.Steve James/LA

13.Tony Zerega/NYC

14.Marco Rochelle/Paris

15.Bill/Portland (twice)

16.Steven/Portland

17.Phillip/Seattle

18.Richard/Baltimore

19.Mike Rutter/La

20.Aaron Kurt/NYC

21.Aiden Shaw/SF

22.Rick and Derek/NYC

23.Jason Branch/SF

24.Brad Stephens/SF

25.Matt Majors/SF

26.Scott Stanton/SF

27.Arpad Miklos/NYC (twice)

28.Cole Davis/NYC

29.Joe #2/Chicago

30.Jim Slade/Dallas at the time (at least 6 times)

31.Kent Larson/Dallas now LA(twice and #3 in Aug)

32.Rafael Carreras/NYC

33.Rafael Alencar/NYC

34.Dave Angelo/Montreal

35.Damien Ford/LA

36.Colby Worth/Cleveland

37.AbigJuan/SF

38.Pierce Daniels/Indy

39.JD Kolin/Indy

40.Nate Pierce/Dallas

41.Jake Mitchell/SD

42.Parker Williams/SD(twice)

43.Marcel Deon/NYC

44.Brad Adams/Philly

45.Tony Cunmmings/ATL

46.Ty/Portland (twice and back for 2 days on Sept)

47.Jason Markus

48.Alex/Portland

49.Kristian/LA

50.Fernando/NYC (next Friday)

 

That's 18 cities and 11 countries represented. I have rimmed the UN, boys.

 

Guys that I have bought tickets for and fate intervened:

 

David Christian/NYC

Will Hart/Phoenix

Mark/Central Illinois

Mike#3/Dallas

 

Guys that I regret not geeting to meet....

 

Steve Jordan (no overnites)

Reece Rothmeier (retired)

Juan/Vanvoucer (limited US travel as yet..or at least, not to Oklahoma

Jax Thorne (no response to email)

Miguel Leonn (doesn't kiss)

Ivan Andros (no email response as yet)

 

If this is self indulgent and I bored you, I apologize. This is not

a dramatic retirement thing. Just a little self assessment and a

bit of a wake up call for me. No regrets at all. Ok, maybe Aiden

Shaw, but I had to do him. And I will never get too old to want to

see Carreras again or if Marco Ferreti is ever allowed in the

US, I will sell the house...

 

It's been a great three years. Have enjoyed this site and most of

your posts in the Deli. Will keep reading. Thanks.

 

Okie

[skins1]

My God Man. You Hoar! LOL

[Guest 2004]

Did you know that 5 guys on your list (that I know of) regularly bareback with clients?

 

---/

I hope time is long.

[Guest Conway]

5- a nice round number.

[Okliehomo]

Well, not even one of them did with me. No way.

 

Okie

[SexualAlchemist]

>Did you know that 5 guys on your list (that I know of)

>regularly bareback with clients?

 

Really?

 

Perhaps you can back this statement up with a list of names and detailed proof of knowledge?

 

Perhaps you can also furnish us with a solution to pickups in a bar, given that about 40% engage in barebacking?

 

Perhaps you can then let us know how this is medically/epidemiologically relevant for those who insist on condoms, always, rather than just being an excuse to pillory certain escorts?

[SexualAlchemist]

Nice list!

 

It's my fantasy to hire about 50 such hotties all a once for an overnight, invade an unsuspecting bath-house with all their magnificence, and enjoy the resultant orgy (of which I would be the centre, much to the dismay and shock of the regular buffed clientele).

[bigguyinpasadena]

OklieHomo-WOW!

All I can think of are all of the frequent flyer miles and hotel loyalty points that you might have earned if YOU had flown to THEM-not to mention getting out of "lovely" Oklahoma-Man how can you stand it there?

[JT Brooklyn]

Oklie..My "Best to You" in the Future..Because you Definitely have had the "Best in the Past" Hopefully you will be sticking around for the Chit-Chat..The "Interesting" ones at least! LOL :+

[BobbyThompson]

>Nice list!

>

>It's my fantasy to hire about 50 such hotties all a once for

>an overnight, invade an unsuspecting bath-house with all their

>magnificence, and enjoy the resultant orgy (of which I would

>be the centre, much to the dismay and shock of the regular

>buffed clientele).

 

Okie: Any guesses as to what the list will be in five more years?

 

My fantasies always include super-strength and agility. Usually I'm killing zombies or vampires, but I wouldn't mind it if our fantasies collided. There are a few escorts whose asses I would kick :-)

[+ Charlie]

Your taste in men is exquisite. Unfortunately, I have only managed to hire 4% of the escorts on your list, and I'm never likely to reach the double digits.

[Guest alanm]

Great list. When it comes it spending money, everyone has different priorities. In my case, I am doing less escort hiring and more traveling

to see cities and countries that I have never been to -- most recntly St. Petersburg, Russia last month during the "White Night." Who know a year from now, I may be hiring many escorts again. Seems like you are enjoying yourself and that is what counts.

[Holden]

just out of curiosity, do you have an estimate of just how much money you spent in hiring the guys on this list.....I can only imagine that it has to be in the THOUSANDS.

[JT Brooklyn]

Oklie..BUT Your Memories are "PRICELESS"...:+

[Okliehomo]

To answer some of your questions....I am certain there will not be many more additions to this list. So, in five years, I bet it won't be that much different. There is, of course, always room for Juan/Vancouver, Ivan Andros, or Jax Thorne.... Yes, I could have spent the money travelling and yes, I wish I got the FF miles. I do get the Marriott points, but as luck would have it, they are only good for reg rooms and I like suites. so I probably won't even use them. And as for Oklahoma. Well, I've never lived anywhere else and I am pretty happy here despite the fact that this was the first state that declared for George W. I think that I am fairly insulated from all that ignorance, but time will undoubtedly tell for us all. And yes, I did add up the total cost of my mid life crisis and like I said before, I was shocked at how many and how much. My whole life has been either feast or famine, and obviously, I have not been able to push myself away from the table (or Men4rennt or this site).

 

Have to say, that the experience has changed my ability to express my sexuality. I have lost alot of my inhibitions and my own homophobia. Still can't do watersports, but did have an unexpected and pretty hot lesson in swallowing. Shut up. I just didn't think that I could do it....

 

Anyway, that's about it. Didn't mean to get all deep, but that's kind of how I feel about it. No, it was not a spiritual journey, but it will have a lasting effect on more than just my meager bank account.

 

Okie

[KY_TOP]

Happiness is a Journey...not a Destination. Glad you are enjoying your Journey. I am sure that list has brought many a smiles to your face, not just when you were with them, but also as you think back upon them.

[woodlawn]

>Perhaps you can back this statement up with a list of names

>and detailed proof of knowledge?

 

I assume he found their names on one or more bb sites. It's amazing how many escorts use the same names on such sites as they do in their regular ads, isn't it?

 

>Perhaps you can also furnish us with a solution to pickups in

>a bar, given that about 40% engage in barebacking?

 

Yes. The solution is, don't do it. That was an easy question.

 

>Perhaps you can then let us know how this is

>medically/epidemiologically relevant for those who insist on

>condoms, always, rather than just being an excuse to pillory

>certain escorts?

 

For some reason that I have never understood, some people on this board like to pretend that condoms do not have a failure rate. The fact is, however, that they do. And the relevance of an escort's bb habits is, of course, that those who do are more likely to be infected than those who don't.

 

Look, if you don't care about the HIV status of the people you hire, that is fine. But I see no reason why you and several others keep pretending that there is NO reason why anyone should care about that issue. You know quite well it isn't true, so why pretend? If no clients care about that issue, why do so many escorts take the trouble to advertise that they are negative?

[taylorky]

There are a few escorts whose

>asses I would kick :-)

 

 

LMAO..what are ya gonna do.....smack em with yer purse.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

The Slipper Falls Not To Far From The Feet

 

It is a pretty interesting and, more interesting to me, diverse list of men. You really cannot find anything much in common with them as an overarching theme (i.e. not all are tops, not all are bottoms, not all are versatile; not all are smooth, not all are hairy, not all are twinks, not all are "mature"), so I would definitely compliment you on your willingness to "follow your bliss" and, having hired all these men, some on multiple occassions, and given that, by and large, most had to come to you to Oklahoma, I would say your betting average is extremely good.

 

May you have many more fortunate and memorable names to add.

 

 

 

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

 

http://hometown.aol.com/francodisantis/myhomepage/profile.html

[OceanTraveller]

RE: The Slipper Falls Not To Far From The Feet

 

Congratulations Oklie !!!:-)

[Bilbo]

RE: The Slipper Falls Not To Far From The Feet

 

Oklie, I'm not sure I agree with one detail in your post. You say that this wasn't a spriritual journey but that it changed you for the better. It sounds to me like it actually was a spiritual journey. And I, too, congratulate you for having taken it.

[Like2Hire]

Who were you favorites?

 

Of that long list, who were your five most favorite and least favorite....and why??

[Okliehomo]

RE: Who were you favorites?

 

Hmmmm....I think my favorites are the guys that I hired multiple times....

 

1. Marco Ferreti....Argentine/Italian with a beautiful face and a hot, hot ass. Very dominant and very aggressive. He was the third escort that I ever hired and he is still the one that I compare everyone to. We just "fit"

 

2. Jim Slade....the most masculine/assertive guy that I have met. Total bottom in porn, but total top with me. Only guy that I have ever kept for 2 nites..and HE was the one that just kept wanting to have sex. He made me service him anytime that he said and until he got off. Very, very hot. Sort of had that Jon Vincent nasty boy sneer and attitude and told you exactly what to do...

 

3. Bill/Portland....perfect little ass and just the right size cock. Just really clicked with him.

 

4. Ty/Portland...amazing body and very into the sex. Awesome ass. He is visiting for 2 days over Labor Day. Ty is the one that set my personal best of 7 times....

 

5. The Rafaels (Carreras and Alencar)...Latin and hung and nasty as Hell. Alencar really took control and tied Ty and said, "Less go for ten..."..Carreras is charming as Hell with a sweet little butt and an enormous dick. Gorgeous model looks and a killer smile.

 

What all of these guys had in common is that they made me feel like they wanted the sex as much as I did or more, that they weren't just trying to make me get off but wanted me to get them off as well because they were that into it. An act? Maybe, but still damn effective and it has certainly set them apart from the rest in my memories...also, they all have perfect rock hard and edible butts and beautiful teeth. Teeth and ass, boys.

 

Want to also include Kent Larson, my current obsession. Probably the best overall body that I have ever seen...(OK...tied with Arpad) Mouthwatering ass...you guys should watch Michael Lucas' Dangerous Liasions....his bonus scenes with KL are the best porn I have ever seen.

 

Think I will skip my least faves...Let's just say that there were 3 that I felt ripped off by and a couple more that I just didn't click with and only a couple that I wanted to just drive on by at the airport..

 

Okie

[+ Cock Eyed Optimist]

RE: Who were you favorites?

 

Oklie,

I've reallly enjoyed this thread you started! This is what the MB is all about. It brought back some memories for me, especially Jim Slade. I will never forget him....one of the best. I know he is not escorting anymore, but do you know what he is doing?

[Okliehomo]

RE: Who were you favorites?

 

No, I really don't. I have emailed him on his birthday the last couple of years, but have never heard back from him. His ad is still running on Meetlocalmen and he hasn't posted on this site that he has stopped escorting like he did when he quit before. The last time I talked to him, he was moving to LA because he was moving in with a former client. He had every intention of continuing his porn/escort work at that time. Funny, that you should bring him up, because I almost started a thread to ask if anyone knew what he was doing these days. Jim definatley wanted a relationship more than anything. So, maybe he got it and left all this behind.

 

Okie