Fin Fang Foom Has A Question For The Johns

[Fin Fang Foom]

This morning, Arpad Miklos had a new review and in it we read:

 

"we wer (sic) looking forward to his large load but he could'nt (sic) make it happen."

 

I see this sort of thing all the time in reviews. If I'm paying some guy $250 "for his time" not only does he have to cum, he'd better cum so hard it's as though he's turned a water cannon on me and it knocks me across the room, leaving an indentation of my body in the plaster wall.

 

Why do you guys put up with that nonsense? Do you really not care that they don't cum? Why don't you insist on it?

 

Curiously yours,

 

FFF

[camshaft9]

My motto is : No Load, No Dough.:9

[JT Brooklyn]

FFF..You do ask a Great Question..But personally I think there are different reasons why "Shooting" does not always happen. Timing-Chemistry-Medications... Actually at one time I would not have believed this, but there are the guys who "don't care" whether or not the "Escort" Shoots. As long as "They" get off..Which works well for an Escort with a Long Day ahead of him! LOL "I" definitely don't happen to be one of the "I don't care" Guys.. I feel it definitely showed the Escort "also" enjoyed himself to some extent. This is one reason why "BKLYN" only does "Afternoons"..Puts the ODDS more on "MY" side, as to whether or not he is walking around with a Load to Shoot! LOL BUT also some of the "Mr Popularity" Guys do 2-3 guys a day..So after all is said and "DONE".<w> IMHO..There is No "ONE" answer, to your question..:+

[Guest GUY]

FFF -

 

I always negotiate a "load" in my escort sessions. Also, I do a lot of nooners to facilitate the event. I learned after a couple of "no shooters".

 

I've always requested it as part of the service because it really turns me on to watch and hear an escort cum after a couple of hours of intense sex play.

 

I understand some escorts need to see more than 1 client a day, but I don't do less than 2 hour sessions and I feel that should be enough money to ensure a "good load".

[Donnie]

>it knocks me across the room, leaving

>an indentation of my body in the plaster wall.

 

I'd pay to see that. Does it have to be a plaster wall or can we substitute a plate glass window?

[Txpaytoplay]

If I am paying the "money" I want to see the "shot".:o :o

[raife]

[blockquote]I see this sort of thing all the time in reviews. If I'm paying some guy $250 "for his time" not only does he have to cum, he'd better cum so hard it's as though he's turned a water cannon on me and it knocks me across the room, leaving an indentation of my body in the plaster wall.

 

Why do you guys put up with that nonsense? Do you really not care that they don't cum? Why don't you insist on it?[/blockquote]and in response to this as well:[blockquote]FFF..You do ask a Great Question..But personally I think there are different reasons why "Shooting" does not always happen. Timing-Chemistry-Medications... Actually at one time I would not have believed this, but there are the guys who "don't care" whether or not the "Escort" Shoots. As long as "They" get off..Which works well for an Escort with a Long Day ahead of him! LOL "I" definitely don't happen to be one of the "I don't care" Guys.. I feel it definitely showed the Escort "also" enjoyed himself to some extent. This is one reason why "BKLYN" only does "Afternoons"..Puts the ODDS more on "MY" side, as to whether or not he is walking around with a Load to Shoot! LOL BUT also some of the "Mr Popularity" Guys do 2-3 guys a day..So after all is said and "DONE".<w> IMHO..There is No "ONE" answer, to your question.[/blockquote] Speaking as a "don't care" guy, I for one look on the experience as a whole and maybe I'm a selfish punter but when I'm paying it's more about my cumming than his, and my 'scorts seem to appreciate this as it alleviates their performance anxiety and makes for a more relaxed and more real sex session. One thing I ask 'em "If you don't think you can cum, don't fake it!" just give me a little more hands on, kiss a little deeper, dive into my [a href=http://babydb.male4malescorts.com/m4mdc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=25&topic_id=157&mesg_id=157&listing_type=search]fetish[/a] a little more, or cuddle a little tighter and I'll be one very happy camper.

 

I feel their pleasure in a good session by the tenderness of their afterplay, and a long, sweet goodbye kiss. Human nature being what it is, I assume they usually cum anyway by closing their eyes and picturing a prior "hot" hookup, or some male model sexybeast. Kudos to those few guys (awesome actors or the highly spiritually evolved) that can cum with our eyes locked on each other in a intense moment of deep shared reality. Bowing (a la Wayne and Garth): "I'm not worthy"!

 

Just my nickel... don't spend it all at once

[DelawareGuy]

When I hire a guy as a top, then the focus for me is getting fucked. I don't care if he cums or not; it's the sensation that I'm after. But if my plans are just to blow him, then I expect a load.

[pierrot]

Actually, there is no new review for Arpad today, just a new photo. The review you refer to is about a month old. Not that that changes your point.

I join the camp of those who aren't too troubled by an escort not coming, as long as he gets hard and stays that way if he's going to top me. Of course, it's great if he comes, but it doesn't destroy the experience for me if he doesn't. What does kill it all is if he can't get it up and keep it up -- and that's an experience I've had a few times that made me want a refund.

[JT Brooklyn]

"Thank the Gods" When the Guys hit the Boro of Bklyn, They are always "UP and Shooting" all over the Place..Otherwise as far as I am concerned why make the trip across the "Famous Bridge"! LOL :+

[Donnie]

>What does

>kill it all is if he can't get it up and keep it up -- and

>that's an experience I've had a few times

 

Dude, try some listerine, mitchum and a fleet's and maybe the cycle will be broken.

[Guest GUY]

So the Great Arpad saved his load one more time and took off with 500 bucks, LOL. Even 2 guys working on him couldn't get that load out. WHAT A MAN!!!

 

Actually, all kidding aside, some escorts will tell you straight up during negotiations that they charge extra to climax, and I prefer that upfront approach.

[oralbro]

This is my first post and some of these comments are very interesting. I have not used an escort off of these escorts sites, but have been considering it. As far as I'm concerned, if I pay an escort $200 or more they had better cum. Most of these guys seem to be in their 20's and they should be able to cum 3 or 4 times a day. Anybody who is making that kind of loot/hr just for a nut should get out of the escorting business if they can't cum and anybody who accepts that kind of behavior must be really desperate. You could probably get a street hustler who looks just as good for a $100 and get nuts all night. To the fellas who think they have to accept that behavior, get some self respect. I think as soon as some of these guys start to lose business they would be willing to cum and more.

[JT Brooklyn]

Unfortunately alot of the Escorts who Rarely "Cum" Usually have an excuse why they didn't..Why a guy would Repeat with them, I really don't understand? IF they could get "Hard", why would Cumming be a Problem? It should not be, really... My own thinking has always been.. they are Saving it for a Later Time or cannot Recharge from the Last Client! And paying $250 to have some guy, "Hold your Hand" while you Jerk Yourself off is "Beyond Easy Money"! Sadly there are alot of guys in NYC making that "Easy Money" off Nice Guys! :+

[sman]

>This morning, Arpad Miklos had a new review and in it we

 

 

 

who the hell gives you the right to critisize people??

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

>read:

>

>"we wer (sic) looking forward to his large load but he

>could'nt (sic) make it happen."

>

>I see this sort of thing all the time in reviews. If I'm

>paying some guy $250 "for his time" not only does he have to

>cum, he'd better cum so hard it's as though he's turned a

>water cannon on me and it knocks me across the room, leaving

>an indentation of my body in the plaster wall.

>

>Why do you guys put up with that nonsense? Do you really not

>care that they don't cum? Why don't you insist on it?

>

>Curiously yours,

>

>FFF

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO. Unless I am reading the Reviews Wrong..Some Reviews Unfortunately are "one long Sentence", NO Spacing whatsoever.... A.Miklos seems to "Cum" when the Rate was $400 and not $300? I have heard some "Porno Guys"do have Menus?.. I am wondering if he is one of them? LOL:+

[oralbro]

WOW, I see that this guy Arpad is getting a lot of response for not cumming on his dates. I noticed in the last 4 reviews on this site, he only came twice. That's, if I'm not miscalculating, $1,600 for only two nuts. This guy is getting over like a "fat rat". His "Johns" or should I say "TRICKS" must love it. They continue to pay just to look at and rub his body. I'll be satisfied by just paying $49.95 for the video.:7

[augustman]

Given Arpad is a Porn Star some like just paying for time with a celeb. This discussion sounds like one of communication up front with escort. I am part of the does not matter group. I even mention this up front and I am almost always a multi-hour (2-3). Almost all have said they prefer to cum at least once. I prefer the 10-20 min at various activities and keep switching it up. I am more likely to get more than one shot, my fav guy (6 times) always gives me three.

 

What would tick me off is the guy cuming in the first 40 min., says he is only good for one and thinking it is time to clean up and head out, even if he only charges me for an hour instead of two. Happened only once. From that point on I make it clear up front before agreeing to meeting I expect multiple sessions.

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO..The Guys who are into Arpad..Most Definitely are his Fans. Who do find His Star "Personality and "Hot Body Contact" the Total "Experience". It is definitely Important Apparently with Him, that you ask about 'Him' Shooting a Nice Load! IF the "Rate" is different, at least you knew going in! The Guy was definitely into SEX in the K.Bjorn Movie I own! Of course his "Money Shot" WAS GREAT ON SCREEN! LOL :+

[happyguy2]

Of course, when we read an ad, it says the rate is "for their time".

 

When we talk, and establish that we are not a flake, I expect the "for their time" curtain to come down. If it doesn't ... I move on, with class.

 

For what we pay, I believe we have every right to expect that we both cum, if that is important, and it is important for me. I have also learned, as said elsewhere, that early afternoon is the absulute best time. I have rarely been disappointed, because, I learned early, in the Miami market, about ten years ago, that you have to get that commitment out front, on the phone, asap.

 

Often, when I have said that the cumming is important, guys have said, I can't .... and I say thank you so much ... and move on. No hard feelings, so to speak!

 

hg

[JT Brooklyn]

Totally Agree Mr. Happy..I personally like the "email" route, due to the fact I usually set something up well in Advance. "Call Me" is for the "Gotta Have it Real Soon Situation"...Also I "Graduated" from the "Get it in Writing School" with a "Degree" in You "better Cum alot Guy"! Amazing how much of the "Particulars" some people can forget in a CELL Phone Conversation, Whether about Sex or anything else!.. IF the guys want to "Raise their Rates", that's up to them. BUT they should not think, that the "Clients Expectations" should not also be "Raised"! The Old saying of course is "MO' MONEY=MO' HONEY!"

[Guest GUY]

I agree with you JT that the email route is the best, but I need to make that phone call first to hear their so called "masculine" voice. On three different occasions I've passed on some very well known escorts because their voice didn't sound very masculine and I was totally turned off.

[JT Brooklyn]

Hey GUY..Buddy I know what you are saying! IF it "sounds" like a "Girl". It "usually" is a "Girl"..I am all for being True to Yourself. BUT when the "Self" is charging $200 or more. EH-EH!.. No Ladies Please!...There definitely is a "Couple" of Well Reviewed (probably because they asked for the Reviews!) Guys who are "Gay'er than Xmas" ..and Of Course these are the Guys who think they look Great in Leather Photos. Leather does nothing for me, BUT I am sure they have disappointed many a "Leather Liker"..I too am a "Sucker" for a Nice Masculine Voice! The guy doesn't have to Live in a Gym, but he does have to sound like a guy....LOL :+