'Squirt' Saving for the Next Client..

[JT Brooklyn]

I have often wondered. When it is pretty obvious, that the Escort is saving his "Cumming" for the next Appointment, Is it really worth asking why he has not cum? Especially when it is obvious he could have, but "backed off".. We all know the ways to back off! LOL I am talking about an Escort, who does cum, but not on every hookup..BUT is always Reviewed , with this being his Speciality... Of course usually, the excuse will be the "clients" fault for whatever reason. And if this happens, more than a couple of times with a Regular, do you feel it is just time to Move On to another Escort? My thinking has always been, to SHOOT means a Hot time was had by both Guys? :+ :+ :+

[orlandoguy]

I try to always communicate with the escort that I want him to shoot a big load for me. It's been the rare exception they haven't complied. I was with an escort in DC a year or two ago, and after an hour of sucking this guy's fine cock, and I just couldn't wait any longer, I shot my load but continued to suck his. He finally said, he couldn't cum....that it sometimes would take him hours before he could shoot. I had seen him once before, and he did shoot a load for me then; but this time he tells me this tale. Maybe he was just tired or had already cum a little earlier. In any event, I ended the session then. But, that was a real downer for me, and I've not called the guy again.

[+ Lucky]

Most escorts do not need to hold it! One guy I was with came too soon, so he said "don't worry, I can shoot again!" And boy did he!

Afterwards, he went back to the G to get hard for the audience there...

 

Ahh, memories!

[rocky]

I've made a decision that I enjoy being

with escorts and will compensate accordingly.

I am increasingly frustrated however that

the fee that I pay does not include full

service as one would expect; and that is

usually mutual cumming. I am specific upfront

but when I know an escort is waiting for

the next client or has been with another,

I don't think that's fair at all. I know

that this is a business and of course repeat

customers are important, but to mislead a

customer or wait for a better moment just doesn't

seem right...Rocky

[JT Brooklyn]

I guess the most "Insulting" Escort not cumming situation would be..When after an Escort I have Reviewed a couple of times very favorably,(he is known for his Cumming Skills) showed up 10 mins Late..Then when asked about why he didn't want to take the extra 10 mins to cum, gave the answer..."I didn't want to be Late for my Next Appointment". DUH? Needless to say he no longer is on my Contact List! :+ :+ :+

[OneFinger]

I hired a regular agency escort a couple times a month while doing an 18-month project in Detroit. The first time I hired the guy he was fantastic and came in gallons. The second and third times were the same.

 

On about the fourth visit it was apparent that he didn't want to cum during that session. When I asked him about it, he sheepishly told me that his girlfriend had complained because he was too tired to pleasure her after seeing me. x(

 

I got out of bed, looked in the closet, checked under the sheets and then climbed back into bed. I held him close, reached down and started stroking his cock while I sweetly whispered in his ear, "Timmy, your girlfriend's not here and she's not paying for this session. If you don't want to make me happy and earn your fee then get the hell out of here. I'll call the agency and have them provide me with a replacement who will perform."

 

He apologized, told me not to call the agency and the session went on as planned. Our regular meetings continued and never again did I hear about the girlfriend. He also seemed to go out of his way to make sure he was ready to perform and shoot at least once during every meeting.

 

If an escort isn't meeting your needs, you need to communicate what's wrong. Everyone deserves honest feedback and a chance to make things right.

[HotdadENYC]

OneFinger, GREAT answer to a tricky question.

 

IF one thinks that complete enjoyment involves an escort shooting with you, and you want him to cum, then its best to make that clear upfront.

 

I've had some pretty good times, with escorts that didn't cum, but I have to admit that the ones I enjoyed MOST are THOSE escorts that shot a load. Could have been the moment, could have been the realization that I was the only appointment that day or could have been that escort was really into me. I've kind of given up analysis and just deal with the "whatever."

 

I REALLY love it when an escort (or anyone else for that matter) tells me that its his time to cum now. So many of the escorts consider the client's orgasm to be the end of the session, no matter how long it takes, that I find it refreshing to be with someone who wants to make the hour (or whatever) really count and mean something.

 

I suppose this gets off topic, but what I find more deplorable than an escort's lack of desire or inability to come, is his inability to get hard and sustain an erection. THAT really pisses me off.

 

hd NYC

[JT Brooklyn]

Thanks for the replies guys. and your take on this type of situation. I always do ask about the "Money Shot"..with the guys I talk to.. but it has never been a "Deal Breaker" for me. It was just the "attitude" this time around, about his "concentrating" being on time "Somewhere Else" that boithered me. We have been hooking up for a couple of years, so I guess his "it's no big deal" being 10 mins late, I should really just chill out on! ALL else has always been HOT on every hangout... ADDING to what was Mentioned...An "Escort not getting or staying HARD"..I did a few years ago hangout with a very HOT NYC Top guy. <brazilian> Who usually didn't get into ORAL. He would "stay hard" for 2 hrs..He knew Oral was one of my favorite things, so he would "oblige" me. LOL BUT he would always go soft, while doing it..It "took practice" but he finally would stay hard with me, during our times together. We did hangout til he left NYC.. That is as close as I have come to the guy not "getting or staying hard. I have read in Reviews where this has happened. BUT usually with guys who have Terrible reviews anyway.. :+ :+ :+