Repeat escorts ?

[Spida]

I was just wondering if any of you used repeat escorts? I tried a few times but it seemed as though the 2nd time was never as good as the first! Maybe it is the excitment, or the unknown, now I have also used escorts for the first time that are not nearly as good as the 2nd's of others.

 

I know one escort that I saw twice the 2nd wasn't as good, I am debating a third to see if it is better or worse just wondering your experiences.

 

Thanks

S.

[DelawareGuy]

I see a couple of escorts on a regular basis. Primarily because we can have a great conversation before and after, as well as steamy sex. And the sex actually gets better, because we're learning what really turns each other on.

[scudman]

I've got to give the old noncommittal "it depends." I've seen a few escorts on numerous occasions and each time seems to get hotter as we learn how to connect with each other. On the other hand, repeat tries with some other escorts for me have been more of a disappointment, as a lot of the thrill of the first time encounter is lost.

 

The key for me seems to depend on the escort's ability to keep things new. If they are good at adding new elements to our time together (new positions, locations, toys, etc.) it seems to work out better than those that just replay the first date. In practice for me, though, even in the best cases, I've always ended up phasing things out after a while. I saw one guy on a monthly basis for about a year, but found near the end that I just wasn't looking forward to it anymore. He is a great guy, but it just wasn't clicking for me.

 

I have to admit that I'm big on the thrill of the unknown, so it takes a lot for me to find a regular escort that I see over and over. I think a lot of the fun of hiring is that anticipation just before you open the door. Hearing that soft knock on the door is a major turn on for me. Sometimes you're thrilled when you see them the first time, sometimes you're not--but the excitement is always there.

 

My general rule of not seeing someone over and over is my flaw, though, because I know of people who hire the same guy on a regular basis (as often as weekly) for years on end. That works great for them, it just wouldn't for me in most cases.

[mmk]

where I live there are very few quality escorts so the ones that I do hire locally are repeat ones. The two that have been repeated have been hired 4 times and some sessions are better than others but I have never been so dissapointed that I would not hire again. How much time elapsed between the first and 2nd meeting? Maybe that was the problem

[Massguy]

I may be out of the norm here but I have only hired one escort and have seen him 5 times with a long weekend planned in August and a trip to Vegas planned for December. I enjoy this young man's company and our relationship has developed over our past meetings. Sex is not just what I see this person for, but his companionship, our lengthy discussions over gay issues and general life topics, and someone to share my free time with. I am a closeted gay man experiencing a midlife crisis. This young man has helped me to work out some issues. A bond has formed, which I know is something that you should not allow to happen in this escort world, but it has.

At this time in my life, he fills a void. If I were just looking for sex then my answer may have been very different.

[parks00003]

I hire a lot of new escorts in LA. I never see them more than once, but last week I did set up a 2nd meeting with one of them, only because we hit it off during the first meeting. We where to meet last Wednesday but he emailed me at the last min. and changed the meeting to Saturday night, then he no showed on me. Never repled

to email or phone calls. I will not be doing any more repeats with young escorts with no reviews anymore.

 

I did have a grate 2nd, 3rd & 4th time with a porn star }(

[ted]

For me once I find something I like, I keep going back for more. One guy I've been seeing about 7 or 8 times a year for 7 years. Not to say that guys don't drop in or out of "regular status" now and then but I am definitely the repeat customer type of guy. There are just as many that aren't. For the newbies on the board, quite a while back there was a discussion which classed hirers as whammers or charmers I think the terms were. I think charmers tend to be repeat customers and whammers don't. Charmers are interested in more than sex-conversation, a night on the town, travel, etc.

[ready182]

True story - I did something kinda fun. I met ~12 different escorts from an agency w/o repeating any of them. Then I compiled a short list of the six that I liked the best. I then asked the agency to send me two of the six for a three hour meeting, but insisted that the agency not tell me in advance which two were coming.

 

It was fun!

 

Another fun idea I did: Book one "guest" for three hours, and book a second "guest" for three hours, but have the second arrive 1 hour later than the first.

 

Ready

[Guest Jawnny]

Have hired two of Premier's boys 4 times and one of Fratboys Harrisburg 3 times simply because the necessity of small talk

before the action is no longer necessary. Each one a better

session than the previous one because the escort already knows

how to push my buttons and vice versa. Repeat sessions seem

more like friendly get togethers:-)

[Funseeker 22]

This is something I was thinking about today after a recent ($500)one hour meeting with a couple of travelling `scorts. It was nice but like others I have been with, it was fun for a one time fling.

I have rehired twice and the only one I would hire again consistently, if I had the $$, would be Kristian from LA. He is the most sexual guy that I have ever been with and really gets into the whole meeting.He loves sex without strings attached. Who do you know who`s cum record is 5 times in 1 hour?. Doesn`t need to talk, hear your bio, problems etc. Let`s get down and dirty and have some fun. You can`t ask for more much than that. :9 :9

 

P.S. And if the anti K members want to respond -we don`t care. :+

I`m not one of those K worshipers who thinks that he can do no wrong.

He is a little absent minded. Just commenting from an objective standpoint and value for $$ spent.

[VaHawk]

I have hired some escorts twice, but never more than that, as despite Jacqueline's pov "sometimes once is ENOUGH".

 

Some second encounters were not as good as the first, and most were basically a repeat of the first, and none was better than the first.

 

Although part of the lesser of a second encounter, can be attributed to the escort, imo, most of the the lesser is attributable to the client. Hiring of escorts is a reflection of a client's non-hire activities. If a client had/has engaged in one time encounters with a variety of partners outside the escort scene, then that pattern will be reflected in his escort hiring policies.

[Massguy]

Then I must be a charmer. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the sex. But our visits are more than just sex. At this point in time in my life, my visits with not only a great escort, but an all around great guy, is all I need right now.

[+ nycman]

Wham-Charm Redo

 

>I think charmers tend to be repeat customers and whammers don't.

 

I was just thinking to myself..

it's about time we rekindled the "Wham-Charm Wars"....lol

 

And of course, as a self proclaimed Wham-addict,

I once again disagree with the broad brushed portrait

a Charmer has made of the Wham-clan.

 

I admit I enjoy the excitement of hiring someone new...

like most guys do.

 

Nonetheless, I have a small cadre of men with whom I

immensely enjoy repeat encounters. Although they can

be quite charming, they too tend to be whammers at heart.

And they are also guys with whom I share that "natural

chemistry" that you just can't fake.

 

Making the flames of desire burn intensely on the 10th Wham

encounter is no easy feat...but it certainly can be done. In

fact, as several people have pointed out...it can get even

hotter once you know each other's triggers well.

 

So there you go...Whammers are in fact repeat customers given

the Wham encounter was worth repeating in the first place.

 

Now I can't wait for the Charmers to start telling me the errors

of my Whammer-ways. Charm away boys!

[tedbear]

Once I've found a guy, I've really enjoyed, I'll usually go back for more. Many times, the second times better than the first, and the third's better than the second, and so on and so on. Why would I give that up? Of course, sometimes, the second times not as much fun. Those are the guys I don't see again.

[+ Axiom2001]

There are at least three escorts in San Francisco whom I have seen more than twice. One in particular I've seen approximately six times. Sex between us is enhanced each time that we meet; everything that happens just comes very naturally for us. So, it depends on the parties as to whether or not the 2nd/3rd, etc. will be as good as the first. If chemistry is there; then expect a successful time to occur!

 

Last Sunday I had a date with a new escort whom I'd been wanting for a long time. Finally we were able to get together, and man, I can say that we had one hell of a hot session. After he and I had blown a powerful load on each other, I tweaked his nips and said that I hope he'd be amenable to see me again-- his response to me warmed my ears.

His email the next day indicated that I must have pleased him just as equally as he did me; a second date will be forthcoming; I expect to do more exploring and probing! :9

[marc anthony]

For me, it depends. I have hired ... ummm... "lots" of escorts. Maybe about 10 - 15 of them I have then hired again. About 5 of them I have hired multiple times.

 

Fantastic sex and opportunity get the escort the second hire, but it is good company, great chemistry, AND fantastic sex that get him into the "multiple" category.

[+ Axiom2001]

Kristian (LA) has been on my list since I read his reviews when he was in Houston and for a short stint in Philadelphia; he and I emailed each other on two occasions, but the date did not materialize. Since he's been in LA, everything that I've read at this site has been sparkling, thus tickling my libido immensely.

 

Kristian and I must get together before he decides to quit the 'scorting business. I've missed out on that 11 incher porn star in NYC (name escapes me) as well as Eddie Moreno who retired earlier than I would have liked. I don't want this to happen to Kristian! :9 :9

I am definitely one of his proponents! OUCH! :9

[Guest skrubber]

I have hired CODYNYCSTAR about ten times and always look forward to the next time we can meet. He is such a sweetheart. It's not necessarily the sex but the chemistry and knowing what to expect - although a few times he has suprised me.

 

Also, you can't go wrong with a repeat engagement with the phenomenon known as Benjamin Nicholas. Another supersweet guy - fits in any situation and is genuinely concerned that you are having a good time

 

I have also hired Ricky from Premier escorts quite a few times - though hourlies are not my thing, it is more like meeting and old friend with him.

 

That's my take on repeats - when I find someone I like I stick with them

[Mouth]

When I connect with an escort, I like to see them over and over again. There have been five guys I've seen over the years again and again. One friendship has just passed the ten year mark. He's retired, but we still get together. Another is with a married bi-sexual man. There are often months between visits, but when he calls, we usually set something up. Right now I often get together with a regular escort whom I've been seeing for about two years now. There are several men I've connected with from out of town and whenever they are passing through, we try to get together.

 

All these guys are good company, great sex, and their very familiarity makes our time together very relaxing and comfortable. These guys keep the sessions hot and mix it up. Most importantly, they are as skillful socially as they are sexually.

 

There are other men I've hired several times and have not engaged more than five or six times. And usually when I travel, I try to find someone new just for the fun of it. The problem is that my regulars are often so available that I can't pass up the opportunity, even when somebody new enters the picture. No reflection on them. The tried and true guys just remain a priority.

[guptasa1]

>I was just wondering if any of you used repeat escorts? I

>tried a few times but it seemed as though the 2nd time was

>never as good as the first! Maybe it is the excitment, or the

>unknown, now I have also used escorts for the first time that

>are not nearly as good as the 2nd's of others.

 

Keep in mind I go for longer appointments usually (overnights, and with this guy, weekends), but the only repeat escort I do see I've seen 4 times at this point, and I plan to keep seeing him as long as we both are happy with that.

 

I'm a very shy person, so it's a benefit to already know someone (and in his case also trust him) as I can get comfortable much faster, and things have gotten easier and better each time I'm with him. That's not to say there aren't ups and down sometimes, but overall, things tend to get better over time seeing the same person for me. I've especially noticed benefits sexually (learning more about his likes and dislikes both sexually and otherwise, improved skills on my part, more of a tendency to go a bit further with kinks, etc.).

 

>I know one escort that I saw twice the 2nd wasn't as good, I

>am debating a third to see if it is better or worse just

>wondering your experiences.

 

It depends on your personality, etc. It CAN go up and down, so you might want to try that 3rd time. But maybe excitement of seeing someone new is a key thing for ya.

[Traveler North]

I have been seeing the same escort for 5 years. He is a beautiful guy in bed and out. Sex with him is always great. But he is more than a sex partner, he is a friend. Have become very attached to him, have him down to my place, go to his and travel together. He is very much part of my life. :D

[vabballfan]

I have to go with the non-committal "it depends".

 

Kristian from LA (originally Houston) is one that I have hired multiple times and I'm seeing him Saturday in Philadelphia for a third time. It's been hot with him both times and I can't imagine it wouldn't be a third time - he's got it all - personality, huge cock, incredible oral, total versatility and a sweetheart. There have been several escorts at Premier that I have hired multiple times (Steve, Jonathan (on his own now), Josh, Brent, Reed and Drew) and with most of them it has been better the second time. My time with Drew was much hotter the second time since he was a total top when I first hired him and he bottomed for both me and Steve the second time I saw him. He was an awesome top both times but topping him took it to a completely higher level. There were several escorts in DC (all retired now) that I have seen multiple times.

 

There was one escort that I saw every month for about a year and a half (until he dissapeared) who got better and better. He advertised as a bottom and he was an incredible bottom (had amazing muscle control) but he had a nice hairy chest, and 8 inch cock and ending up topping me almost every time we were together - he said I brought out the top in him. He bottomed for me every time we were together but got so turned on that he usually flipped and became a very agressive top. One time he arrived, we sat on the couch and kissed, sucked one another and then he whispered in my ear that he hoped I would bottom for him since he hadn't been a top since we last met. I told him that unless there was a physical reason why I couldn't bottom for him that I'd bottom for him anytime he wanted. He led me to the bedroom, sat on my cock, rode me for about 15 minutes and had a roaring hardon. He rolled a condom onto his cock, lifted his ass off of my cock, lifted my legs onto his shoulders and proceeded to fuck me for the next two hours (almost non-stop). He came, went to the bathroom, came out with a hardon, fucked me a second time and came, went to the bathroom, came out again with a hardon and then fucked me a third time and came. We went to sleep, he woke me up a couple of hours later, fucked me again and then in the morning I woke him up by topping him. He got so turned on that he literally flipped me over and pounded my ass for about 30 minutes straight. He refused to take any money for the call - he said he had too much fun to take money. The client/escort relationship ended at that point even though we saw one another a half dozen times after that. It continued to be horny sex with no money exchanged and he was always top and bottom with me on all of those meetings.

 

So it depends.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Wham Bam

 

Some of my repeat customers just want an hour's worth of hot sex. I have to admit, as I do this longer and get older, I tend to find these types of session more of a chore. I do not at all say this because I am asking or wanting clients to hire me for longer sessions at more money, in fact, I am spending more time with those clients in social interactions at far lesser rates than before.

 

The predominantly sex-only clients I am seeing are these repeats, primarly because in at least three cases, I know for them it is a good release, they are very easy going and not clients I see frequently. We are talking two to three times a year.