Finally hired an escort again

[Guest jstlooknthx]

I don't know. Perhaps it's me. The fact is I don't really have sex very often. Over the years I've attempted all the things a healthy gay man of my generation(45)was supposed to be enjoying. I'm just not into most of it. I'm a pleasant enough looking guy that still gets approached now and then. I just don't really want to follow through most of the time. I know it's going to lead to that whole "You a top or a bottom" thing. zzzzzzzz. Just not interested.

 

So what do I enjoy and why am I here wasting your time?x( The idea of a beautiful guy letting me pay to be with him seems to turn me on more than anything. I love sexy, cocky guys that enjoy being admired. I also enjoy a good face fucking from time to time. Like something you'd get from a hot cholo in an adult bookstore booth(unfortunately I've never been with a hot cholo or do I go to bookstores nowadays). Who knew this would be so hard to find.

 

Last night I decided to go to Numbers and see what might happen. For the first time in well over a year I actually left with someone. It was this handsome latin man I've seen there from time to time. Beautiful, muscular body and a passionate look. He was very sexy and I actually felt some sexual chemistry. So what the hell, I went for it. Boy was it boring. He couldn't even get it up. If he was drunk then he sure holds his liquor well. Not much happened. He kind of humped me with his flaccid member. I was so disappointed. I just wanted it to be over. No kissing. No excitement. Nothing.

 

I think I'm writing this just to get it off my chest, since you are the only guys I would tell all this to. Perhaps I don't know how to pick them. Perhaps my escort experiences have been so bad because I've yet to run into a truly talented guy. Right now I feel like a kid with a hang over saying he will never drink again!

 

I think I really need a great experience. I deserve one.

[Guest 2004]

One of the great things about this site is the wealth of resources. From posters to the reviews. Hiring an escort off the 'street' (these days) usually is risky in the sense you really no little about what you're going to get.

 

Before you hire again take advantage of the reviews and the experience of those who post here. There are several hot Latino guys in Los Angeles that probably would have satisfied you needs had your done your homework.

 

Better luck on your next venture.

[+ Italiano]

I think the experience you had yesterday should teach you something instead of having you quit the idea of hiring again.

 

We are SOOO lucky to have this website, we can interchange opinions and read, write reviews that most of the time can really give you an idea of what to expect when hiring.

 

Don't give up. Try again someone in your area who has good reviews and who fulfills your fantasies from pics and reviewer's story. This doesn't mean that you can meet someone hot, sexy and passionate also in a situation different from escort/client, but at least it will take away the bitter feeling from yesterday! And yes, nowadays hiring some hustler you know nothing about from a bar is much more risky than hiring an escort you read good things of.

 

Good luck, let us know!

[JamesK840]

>And yes, nowadays hiring some hustler

>you know nothing about from a bar is much more risky than

>hiring an escort you read good things of.

 

Especially at Number's prices! They're usually similar to a reviewed escort. You probably could have had Kristian (assuming you could have gotten a hold of him) or any number hot Latinos from here for about the same price...

 

Just saying, if you're going to try out new guys they should be priced according to the risk, such as (the working guys) on Craig's List... ;o) I know, the in-person selection and instant satisfaction of Numbers (or even Spotlight, once in a while) is nice, but when it doesn't pan out because they're on drugs or have been sitting at the bar drinking for hours, or are just a hustler, it ends up being not really worth even the time, let alone the money.

 

What your looking for shouldn't be hard to find, even for free, post what you're looking for on CL or if you ever actually join a get-together , one or two of the regulars may have some advice on local bathhouses.

[Guest jstlooknthx]

So the prices are higher than elsewhere at Numbers? I guess the only good news in my story is I only spent $150. Is that reasonable nowadays?

 

Thanks for the encouraging replies guys. Yes, this is a wonderful site. I'm not really finding what I'm looking for, but I got my eyes open.

[JamesK840]

I thought most were in the $200+ range, though there does seem to be a variety...

[quiet storm]

Don't feel bad. It even happens when you do go by the reviews. Chemistry ... full moon. It happens. We're talking human connection here. Sometimes there is none, or it is less than desired. I had an experience with someone last Friday from MeetLocalMen who has gotten nothing but rave reviews. He was very nice, the reviews sounded like just my speed, but when he walked in, it wasn't working for me. Then, he proceeded to give me a very vocal soundtrack to the sex that sounded like a male voice doing all those sounds that girls do in the straight videos. He was very nice, and for that reason, I won't review him because I think it was my taste, not him. I, too, like the idea of meeting someone in person, but I will say that for the most part, if I called someone with good reviews on this site that appear to match my taste, I had pretty good success. If I were you, I would go for someone mentioned on the site! Good luck.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Numbers

 

The going rate in Los Angeles appears to be 200 among the reviewed escorts, with a top number of $350 - $400 for some of the body builder and porn "star" types. The lowest rate I have seen for a well reviewed escort is $150, which is very far and in between.

 

Someone I know, a 30 year old body builder type, usually will go as low as $100 for clients he sees at Numbers. He only has two reviews on here, for example, one good, one bad. I know that other escorts who might frequent Numbers who can be had for less than $200. It definitely is the place for guys to go when they need to score some quick money.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Chemistry

 

I think most of the well reviewed escorts would be willing to call it a day if, upon meeting, the client decided to pass. I think the question is timing.

 

Such a decision needs to be made promptly at meeting, not once a session starts. If the session is not going well, you should certainly not feel like you are obligated to finish, much less do anything you would prefer not to take to completion, you obligation to some fee payment, either all or substantially all, is still there.

 

This is a reason why I think escorts should have recent and/or realistic photographs.

[Guest flibbits]

RE: Chemistry

 

The big problem I have with selecting from this web site, even with reviews, is look. I'm afraid that even the ones who in photos have the look I want won't turn out to be that good looking in person.

[JamesK840]

RE: Numbers

 

Great, thanks for the info!

[JamesK840]

RE: Chemistry

 

I have a similar but different problem, many pics don't do much for me (even when they actually show something) but seeing that escort in person usually changes my mind real fast!

 

If you see this the edit worked...

[JamesK840]

RE: Chemistry

 

>If you see this the edit worked...

 

Cool!

[Trixie]

Don't despair, Justlookn. You do deserve a great time, and eventually, you will get it.

Unfortunately, it may require spending money on a few "unsatisfactory" experiences more than once before you strike gold. I have, as an example, probably been with at the very least 40 different escorts. Less than ten of those experiences have been "rocket to the moon" good. Mostly they've been adequate (simple sex is always a way to salvage an hour when the escort turns out to be not so ticklish after all), a few have been truly awful.

If you have a fantasy, you can always suggest that to the escort. If you want a vato loco, contact a latin escort, tell him the storyline. I'll bet he'll be happy to comply, and come dressed and acting to the hilt. Don't be embarrassed to tell them exactly what you want... no matter how unusual you might think it is, they've already heard stranger requests.

It's only money, my dear. Don't think it's the end of the world just because you spent $150 on a scene that didn't work out. Keep trying (as you can) until you succeed. Then you will know what exactly it is you are looking for, and have a better idea of how to get it.

Trix