= Boston Area: REALLY Patient Escorts =

[Guest Yog-Sothoth]

Hey,

 

I was a member here about 3 years ago; I just rejoined under the same user-name.

 

I had meetings with 2 different escorts around 2000. Neither went that well, but that was me.

 

I have several, well, problems I need an escort to deal with:

 

The first is I haven't had sex in a long time. I mean years. And that goes back before 2000, because not much happened then with the escorts. I enjoy sex; I want sex, but I am nervous as hell. And given the so-so experiences I had, I am even more uptight about meeting an escort again.

 

The next thing is I am on medications for depression due to stress. Okay, that is actually two things. First, the medications I am on do affect my sex drive. And I have depression, which also affects my sex drive. I can get erections and cum just fine, but I really need to get -- or be gotten -- in the mood.

 

On top of this, I'm a top. Gees, a depressed top... :-(

 

I know I am going to need a really aggressive, but nice, vanilla bottom.

 

I am not just going to be able to meet an escort and jump into bed and have sex. I need, well, to be warmed-up. I am REALLY going to need the escort's patience and help to get going.

 

And finally, I don't have a heck of a lot of spare money, so I have to take into account that I am going to need to find an escort who is willing to do more than an hour and isn't going be to a really clock-watcher. (And,yeah, I know they aren't obligate to go behind the time I paid for.)

 

It is going to have to be an in-call with the escort as well. My dog likes people and is really friendly, but he would want to "play" with us. He can get his own dates!

 

In the last few days I have send some emails to escorts in Boston, Massachusetts (where I live) with very detailed information about me (average-looking, middle-age guy, but a really *nice* guy), included a photo, and what I am looking for with an escort. From what I have read, it is best to be as upfront and honest with an escort and I am trying to do that. (I wonder if I may be giving too much information. See, I'm nervous about that too.) I haven't heard back from anyone yet, but I know it might take days.

 

As I was writing this, I was starting to wonder if it might be best to meet with an escort for an non-sex hour, maybe a lunch or coffee, before meeting a 2nd time to "do it". The problem with this is, it would like be several months before I could meet him again, because I would need the time to get enough money. Still, it might be best to know if I feel it might work, and more important, for the escort to know if it will work for him.

 

Gosh, even I think this all sounds rather pathetic.

 

Anyway, my questions are these:

 

Anyone, escorts or clients. got any general suggestions about all this? I mean, is this asking way too much of an escort and I should just give it up and playing with Mr. Hand?

 

Any suggestions for any Boston escorts who might be up to getting me up?

 

Any comments are welcomed. Thanks.

[tedbear]

I can't help you in the Boston area, but Rick Munroe in NYC (and a very frequent poster here) does come to mind. (Actually, he cums most anywhere and everywhere, but that's another story.) You could probably get to know Rick through emails and phone calls, if he was willing to do so. (Of course, you can get to know a lot about Rick just by checking out his postings here!).

 

I was in a similar situation to you a few years back when I met Rick while on a Business trip to NY. Rick was patient and grateful. And I don't think I had told him too much about my nervousness beforehand. I suspect if I had, things would have gone even better.

 

Good Luck to you!

[Guest Kenny021]

Don't know who you contacted in Boston but one name that comes to mind is Jason Rylee. He has wonderful reviews here and from all indications (I have no first hand experience) he is very understanding and a "first class escort" and could possibly be what you are looking for.

As for your honesty in going into great details about your condition on your first contact with them, perhaps just a short paragraph saying that you need "time" with an escort before you jump in the sack with them would suffice. If you give them too much specific info, you may scare them off. I'm sure escorts meet all kinds of guys and "established" escorts like Jason Rylee have probably seen it all and your honesty would not deter him from accepting your offer.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

I can't believe that you posted..... can it be coincidence that I was actually thinking about you yesterday or the day before? Your screen name made an indelible impression on me way back when and for no apparent reason you came to mind the other day and I wondered what ever happened to you.

 

As for your request, I have no recommendations to offer other than don't put off your encounter for a couple of months in favor of an initial dinner date. LIfe is short, time fleeting and money scarce -- make the best use of all of them. Best of luck.

[Guest Yog-Sothoth]

Whoops.

 

I did forget to mention I plan to ask my primary care physician for a Viagra prescription next time I see him, which will certainly be BEFORE I meet with any escort. I hope that might help a lot!

 

I just found a thread of messages I posted from about 3 years ago and found myself have posted almost the identical details. *sigh*

 

Viagra is a definite must this time around!

 

So is the Jason who is a great bottom still escorting here in Boston? (Will have to check the Escort Reviews here after I posted this.)

 

But the way, in doing comparison listings searching at various websites, I found there are some surprising, major changes in the same escort's listings. Interesting.

[JamesK840]

I'd say you are going into way too much detail. With established escorts you don't even need to send a picture with the good ones. Just mention in your email you are looking to spend 90 minutes to two hours with a somewhat agressive bottom, that you're kind of nervous and it can take you a while to get into it sometimes so you want a nice relaxing no-rush session with someone determined to please.

 

I haven't looked through the Boston reviews but I'm pretty sure this would be no problem at all with many LA escorts.

 

Better luck this time! Also, you may want to consider dating... http://www.gaydar.co.uk is supposed to be good (even over here), it may take a while to find what you are looking for, but it's free. I know, it sounds even more nerve-racking, but you start out just meeting for coffee or dinner, and it's not on the clock. Here too don't go into deep detail right as you meet (and certainly not in your profile, though here it does really help to have a pic).

[Guest DevonSFescort]

You might want to check out Rodrigo's reviews. He's a very sweet guy and an enthusiastic bottom. Also, when I met him last year I believe I remember him telling me he likes to spend a couple hours with his clients in order to get to know them. I don't know how he structures his pricing, but many escorts do offer discounted second hours to encourage longer appointments.

 

However, if I understand your post correctly it sounds like at this time you may only be able to afford one hour. If you strongly feel that you need more than one hour then you should wait to hire someone until such a time as you have been able to set aside sufficient funds for the amount of time you require. The phrase 'not a clock-watcher' is usually meant to describe escorts who give you their undivided attention rather than count the minutes till they can go -- not escorts who don't mind not being paid for the time they spent with you.

 

If you really can only afford an hour and just can't wait till you can afford two, then you might want to look into escorts who incorporate massage, especially erotic massage, into their services. This is a great way both to help you get rid of the wrong kind of tension and to build up the right kind of tension before you start fucking.

 

I'd also suggest taking that Viagra for a solo test drive before you hire so you can determine whether it is enough to counteract your anti-depressant meds and to familiarize yourself with any side effects it may have on you. It would be very frustrating to discover that it didn't work for you AFTER you'd hired rather than before.

 

Question: what is it that you like about topping? For different guys the answer is different. Is it mainly a matter of the physical sensation (i.e., that's the only thing that feels good to you), or is it more psychological -- knowing that you're driving the bottom wild? I ask because if the best laid schemes of mice and men fail to get you hard enough to top, having some toys on hand that you can use to drive your bottom boy crazy can be a good way to compensate and hopefully derive a similar enjoyment out of the experience. It's helpful not to be too rigid in how you view your sexuality, and to be willing to experiment with and enjoy alternative ways of giving and receiving pleasure. Of course, you would want to check with your escort beforehand to see if he likes other kinds of ass play, and encourage him to bring any toys he likes.

 

Hope this helps. Good luck!