Hiring an Escort

[VaHawk]

>I'd start out with a couple hours, stating the possibility

>for a third hour. If it goes well, suggest an overnight right

>then and there. If that isn't possible, arrange for the next

>night as an overnight.

 

IMO, this is an excellent suggestion for a first time rendezvous.

 

>One dozen used condoms on the floor in the morning means a bonus tip!

 

This is a fantasy right or tongue in cheek remark? No, then PLEASE let me know who you've been hiring overnight! If this ever happened to me, I guess my bonus would be to make the escort the beneficiary of my life insurance policy, as that amount of action in an overnighter would certainly kill me! I love it! :7

[TightBodyTouch]

Indecisive Joe,

 

First of all, I'm very happy to see that you enjoyed my first response and suggestions for how to handle your date. I think all the others had some nice things to point out as well so maybe our collective input will help you decide what to with your coverboy. I think in any instance, whether it be your high school crush, escort, or boyfriend-to-be, a first date can bring about anxiety so overwhelming that it's hard to think straight. So I guess it's a fortunate thing that we're thinking gay!

 

To further answer your question on tipping my personal opinion is that a tip in any form is a reward for a job well done and neither the client nor the escort should take the gift for granted. If during your appointment and towards the end of your time together you feel that he's displayed all the traits he claimed to posess and affectively delivered what you know to be a good time based on what you requested from him then you'll probably be happy to send him away with something slightly more than agreed upon. But we aren't in a food service profession and there is no 15% rule to rely on. I would hope that anyone who cares about the job they are performing, sexual or not, will carry out the job without depending completely on what extras they might get. Now I know some guys might be groaning at my words at this point, but I've waited tables, I've danced in bars, I've even worked in small galleries where a substantial commission depended on my sales and I still feel that a bonus of any kind is an incredible reward. You should feel comfortable providing whatever amount is affordable for your pocket and only if you feel your date has committed himself to his best.

 

Since you suggest that you have budgeted upwards of $2,500 for your encounter I wonder just how that amount is dispersed. If that full amount is the escort's quoted fee for the length of time you'll be with him then he's obviously decided for himself what his time is worth. If the escort lives outside of Atlanta and $2,500 includes the price of his flight to you, plus his fee then it sounds like you've decided how much you want to pay for this encounter. I have had clients who inform me of their plans for our date beforehand and how much they expect to spend outside of my fee. They have let me know the specifics so I would understand their reasons behind the amount I was payed. I don't require anyone to itemize their date with me and how much they spent on our vacation together, sometimes it even turns me off to know. However I know they have only told me the plain facts because a good time costs a good penny and if I don't receive a large tip along with my fee it may only be because they have already enriched the experience with the dining, shopping, and extra activites we filled the time with. You've already said that you probably don't plan for dinner and theatre or that sort of thing so maybe you can budget for the price of this escort's one hour's standard fee as a special extra.

 

One other option that I am familiar with came quite unexpected when it first happened. After a great time with a gentleman he surprised me with a wonderful gift! I was so happy that he seemed to know what I might like and after several more meetings with him he got to know me even more. It isn't always the size or the monetary amount of a gift that makes it valuable to a person. Rather, it is a powerful symbol that we wish to pamper, relish, or thank a person for sharing part of themselves with us. Extra dollars can always help a guy pay for his living and no one can argue with that. But if a healthy rapport develops between you and this boy then at some point it may feel appropriate to show him, not more money, but a message that you know him well, care for his company, and appreciate what he does for you. And if he doesn't feel tickled that you've afforded him small gifts for his efforts, well heck... send them to me! hehehe

 

I hope that proves helpful in some way. They are, of course, my thoughts alone and no one need agree on my personal idea of tipping. In fact, I would hope that I always show my dates a good enough time that they will want to thank me for the fun but I'm sure that lots of escorts would agree that possibly the best tip is a repeat appointment. The fact that a man would enjoy me so much as to want to see me again not only helps my business but it helps my confidence grow and makes for a better experience together each time we meet.

 

I bet we'll all be anxious to hear how this turns out, I know I will love to find out all about it. You're entirely welcome to keep us posted!

 

XOXOXO

[TightBodyTouch]

Indecisive Joe,

 

First of all, I'm very happy to see that you enjoyed my first response and suggestions for how to handle your date. I think all the others had some nice things to point out as well so maybe our collective input will help you decide what to with your coverboy. I think in any instance, whether it be your high school crush, escort, or boyfriend-to-be, a first date can bring about anxiety so overwhelming that it's hard to think straight. So I guess it's a fortunate thing that we're thinking gay!

 

To further answer your question on tipping my personal opinion is that a tip in any form is a reward for a job well done and neither the client nor the escort should take the gift for granted. If during your appointment and towards the end of your time together you feel that he's displayed all the traits he claimed to posess and affectively delivered what you know to be a good time based on what you requested from him then you'll probably be happy to send him away with something slightly more than agreed upon. But we aren't in a food service profession and there is no 15% rule to rely on. I would hope that anyone who cares about the job they are performing, sexual or not, will carry out the job without depending completely on what extras they might get. Now I know some guys might be groaning at my words at this point, but I've waited tables, I've danced in bars, I've even worked in small galleries where a substantial commission depended on my sales and I still feel that a bonus of any kind is an incredible reward. You should feel comfortable providing whatever amount is affordable for your pocket and only if you feel your date has committed himself to his best.

 

Since you suggest that you have budgeted upwards of $2,500 for your encounter I wonder just how that amount is dispersed. If that full amount is the escort's quoted fee for the length of time you'll be with him then he's obviously decided for himself what his time is worth. If the escort lives outside of Atlanta and $2,500 includes the price of his flight to you, plus his fee then it sounds like you've decided how much you want to pay for this encounter. I have had clients who inform me of their plans for our date beforehand and how much they expect to spend outside of my fee. They have let me know the specifics so I would understand their reasons behind the amount I was payed. I don't require anyone to itemize their date with me and how much they spent on our vacation together, sometimes it even turns me off to know. However I know they have only told me the plain facts because a good time costs a good penny and if I don't receive a large tip along with my fee it may only be because they have already enriched the experience with the dining, shopping, and extra activites we filled the time with. You've already said that you probably don't plan for dinner and theatre or that sort of thing so maybe you can budget for the price of this escort's one hour's standard fee as a special extra.

 

One other option that I am familiar with came quite unexpected when it first happened. After a great time with a gentleman he surprised me with a wonderful gift! I was so happy that he seemed to know what I might like and after several more meetings with him he got to know me even more. It isn't always the size or the monetary amount of a gift that makes it valuable to a person. Rather, it is a powerful symbol that we wish to pamper, relish, or thank a person for sharing part of themselves with us. Extra dollars can always help a guy pay for his living and no one can argue with that. But if a healthy rapport develops between you and this boy then at some point it may feel appropriate to show him, not more money, but a message that you know him well, care for his company, and appreciate what he does for you. And if he doesn't feel tickled that you've afforded him small gifts for his efforts, well heck... send them to me! hehehe

 

I hope that proves helpful in some way. They are, of course, my thoughts alone and no one need agree on my personal idea of tipping. In fact, I would hope that I always show my dates a good enough time that they will want to thank me for the fun but I'm sure that lots of escorts would agree that possibly the best tip is a repeat appointment. The fact that a man would enjoy me so much as to want to see me again not only helps my business but it helps my confidence grow and makes for a better experience together each time we meet.

 

I bet we'll all be anxious to hear how this turns out, I know I will love to find out all about it. You're entirely welcome to keep us posted!

 

XOXOXO

[Guest indecisive joe]

a BIG thanks to everyone who offered words of wisdom and advice. I have decided to go for a 24 hr date, gonna try 1pm until 1pm, spend the afternoon doing some type of outdoor activity, supper, and then to the good stuff, sleep in and then brunch or something like that. I will keep you guys posted on how things go. Thanks Again.