Why Lie About Age?

[Guest Bitchboy]

I almost always want a guy who

>LOOKS like he's between 18 and 25 or so regardless of his true

>age (as long as that's at least 18), but the personality I'm

>looking for varies from time to time depending on my mood (as

>does the body type I'm interested in).

 

Really? Is that true for most people who post here? I'm not criticizing it at all, but I will admit I am somewhat amazed by it. Admittedly, I haven't hired an escort in a couple of years, but when I did they were decidedly over 25, more past 30 than not. Am I a rarity? My boyfriend is two years younger than me and that causes me concern from time to time. I like a particular body type and that's pretty far away from the twink types that seem to inhabit the 18-25 year old bodies. I work out a good deal and prefer my partners to do the same. Not many 20 year olds can attain the muscular maturity I enjoy. I hope none of this sounds offensive, because I don't mean it to be. I'm just surprised that a good amount of people here prefer very young guys. Color me naive I guess. :7

[ad rian]

>I'm trying to picture what you mean -- what about their

>behavior gives the pretenders away? -- and the only examples I

>can think of are silly ones. ("He didn't say 'ohmigod' or

>smack his gum once! I told you to get me someone YOUNG,

>dammit!") :+

 

It's hard to be precise about all of this. I think the Freshmen tend to be just a little more innocent about the novelty of escorting, and a little less professional. Now that cuts both ways. What you gain in innocence, you sometimes lose in cleanliness for bottomsin and timeliness in my experience. As for the rest, there just is a different speech, slang and attitude patterns between the two categories. (And there is something that turns me off about a guy 25 year old or older trying to effect the image, style and imturity of someone younger.) I am not so sure why this is hard to conceptualize. I was clearly a very different person at 18 and 25 or at 30.

 

>What's a real-life example of the jadedness of

>the Varsity players you've run across?

 

For me, the jadedness is in the eyes and in the routinization of the process. That does not mean that the experience is bad, just different. I would say that with the Varsity guys, for the most part, (there are exceptions that prove the rule also) I feel I am more like I am with a talented and trained experienced actor than with the Freshmen where it seems to more of a mutual adventure. Of course, it could be that the Freshmen find me to be more jaded too. It's a tricky area.

[ad rian]

>I work out a good deal and prefer my partners to do

>the same. Not many 20 year olds can attain the muscular

>maturity I enjoy. I hope none of this sounds offensive,

>because I don't mean it to be. I'm just surprised that a good

>amount of people here prefer very young guys. Color me naive

>I guess. :7

 

I just had an amazing session with a visiting LA escort that might shed light here. He is advertised as 25, but in person seemed younger, maybe 21, but was really 29 when I asked. Upon reflection, I could see the real age because of the lack of muscle tone. Don't get me wrong. He was cute, had a great ody, but none of the firmness that I expect in younger escorts. So while he had a baby face that suggested 21. his skin tone suggested 29, hence, I guess he and/or the agency arrived at 25. In terms of attitude, he was great, but still there was that distance, that wall of professionalism that disclosed a greater maturity. It was fun nonetheless and I would rent him again so age is not always a predictor. I probably would have missed this gem if he advertised 29, but I probably would have been disapointed had he advertised 21, but at 21, I am pleased as punch and ready to make peace with all of my on-line adversaries!

[Uncle Bill]

There are pretty much two separate groups that visit this site -- or so it seems to me. One prefers the younger guys while the other prefers guys more their age. I have a theory that the first group TENDS to be closeted (as I am) and the second is LARGELY out. I'm sure that others will dispute this, and they are welcome to since it's only my unscientific classification/generalization.

 

I started seeing guys (only escorts so far) when I turned 40 even though I always had desires in that direction (along with those for women), and I guess that I'm just trying to make up for lost time by starting with the cute young guys that I missed out on when I was young. Alternatively, I could just be a tramp who is attracted to younger guys just like many men my age are attracted to younger women -- whatever that cause is. My real guess is that it's a bit of both, and in any case, I'm sure enjoying myself.

 

Just as a point of reference, I believe that the oldest guy I've ever been with was in his early thirties (but he looked young enough for me), and he was really hot (Corey in San Diego). The youngest guy was 18 by just a few months, but actually looked older to me (but not by more than a year or two), and he was equally hot (Scott Adler in L.A.). Two very different guys, one very satisfied client. My current "regulars" (Justin #2 in L.A. and Richard in Vegas) are both in their early twenties (somewhere under 25) and are absolute sweethearts, but one is a more mature-acting jock type and the other is a more youthful-acting twink type. I like them young, but I like variety as well. I'm currently trying to book a younger escort (20) who isn't very good at returning calls or emails, but such is life -- he's so cute and comes so highly recommended that I just can't give up on him. I guess that I AM just a tramp after all.

[Guest Bitchboy]

Uncle Bill, I surmise we're all tramps at heart. Interesting history you have there. Do you ever date guys, other than those in the escort field? I guess that's a stupid question at a site devoted to male escorts, but I wonder about things like that. If you do date on a non-commercial basis, do you also insist it be with men in that age group? I predict that gets harder as we get older.

 

As an aside, I took my boyfriend to the Gaiety last night for the first time. I have been there before but he hadn't. He hated it ... lol. But one thing we did agree on is that the younger, skinnier guys seem to garner the most reaction, they also seemed to be the friendliest in the lounge.

[jimmer]

Hey,

 

Just wondering.

 

Saw a Boston escort this weekend who shaved at least a year off his age in posting to the "Escort Travels" forum.

 

What's the point? How can an escort claim to be 19 when his reviews on this site show him to be at least a few years older?

 

Is there something special about being "19" instead of "20" or "21"?

 

JImmer

[jimmer]

Hey,

 

Just wondering.

 

Saw a Boston escort this weekend who shaved at least a year off his age in posting to the "Escort Travels" forum.

 

What's the point? How can an escort claim to be 19 when his reviews on this site show him to be at least a few years older?

 

Is there something special about being "19" instead of "20" or "21"?

 

JImmer