Why do clients exagerate

[Guest Ant415]

When I return enough pop bottles for the deposit, and then able to hire an escort, I never over-state my wealth. Why lie, the escort would find out the truth, if he really was interested. I usually apologize that my average lifestyle does not allow for extended-time dates, as evidenced by my humble chateau.

[Casteran]

I find myself posing this question after seeing an escort last night. We spent some time discussing this site, the business itself, clients and escorts. During the course of this conversation and many others with other escorts, I find a common trend that clients offer the world or promise the world and never truly mean it. Trips, cars, apartments, etc are offered but never appear. Why do clients do this, who are you trying to impress?

 

To me this entire part of my life is for recreation and relaxation. I want or need nothing more than that and do not make any promises or offer anything that I know is not realistic.

 

Does this offer those that do this some type of personal satisfaction? Does it offer those that do this a power trip?

I suppose my European heritage has kept me a little more grounded and not full of hot air.

 

Have others found this or talked about this to escorts? OK, now I can sleep knowing this is off my chest.

 

"Don't be humble, you aren't that great":+

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

I suspect its just an example of clients being carried away in th eglow of the moment and then coming to their senses when they get their hormones back under control. They probably mean it *when* they make the promises.

[+ deej]

I've never understood it myself, but it happens.

 

Some clients get off on "impressing people" and they try to do that with escorts as well. Surely you've worked with the guy who constantly brags about how big his house is or how he's having a pool built. It's the same thing. They're desperate to impress someone.

 

My pal the shrink-to-be says they're desperate for approval, which strikes me as pretty sad no matter where they look for that approval.

 

With me, I am what I am. That's all that I am. And that's pretty much the end of the story. If you wanna be impressed, go find someone else.

 

<shrug>

[marc anthony]

>

>Some clients get off on "impressing people" and they try to

>do that with escorts as well. Surely you've worked with the

>guy who constantly brags about how big his house is or how

>he's having a pool built. It's the same thing. They're

>desperate to impress someone.

 

 

I agree, deej. I've always felt, if you're desperate to impress someone, try being nice to them. That works for most of the people who matter anyway.

 

Because of my kind, generous spirit (and maybe my money), I've gotten along very well with just about every escort I've ever hired!

;-)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Luck of the draw

 

It possibly may also be related to the escort. Even when I was younger, in my mid-twenties, no one ever promised anything that they did not deliver upon. Generally this was theater tickets, once it was a brand new tire for my bicycle, or reservations at a nice restaurant I wanted to visit.

 

Only my overnight guests make any offers at present and these are promptly carried out, often to both our enjoyments. However, the Twink Hos have had automobiles, rings, watches and the like dangled before their eyes and only one has received even a percentage of these gifts. He is a total charmer, however, and could probably get Bernard Cardinal Law to admit his complicit guilt in return for a smile.

[Rod Hagen]

>Because of my kind, generous spirit (and maybe my money)

 

HMMMMM, cooooould be....

 

Actually, I find people who mention all their money to be the least interesting. But that's just me. I'm sure there are plenty of people who like to hear about Scrooge McDuck's daily swims in his Money Vault.

[marc anthony]

>>Because of my kind, generous spirit (and maybe my money)

>

>HMMMMM, cooooould be....

>

>Actually, I find people who mention all their money to be

>the least interesting. But that's just me. I'm sure there

>are plenty of people who like to hear about Scrooge McDuck's

>daily swims in his Money Vault.

 

I am actually sure that there are plenty of people who realized that I had my tongue firmly in my cheek when I made that statement. I think you are working too hard, Rod... or not enough... or something.

 

Your usually chipper sense of humor is failing you.

[CT Dick]

> my humble chateau.

 

Better a humble chateau than a fabulous trailer. ;-)

 

Dick

[Guest DCeBOY]

RE: Luck of the draw

 

my experience has been that people who PROMISE rarely deliver, but those who make offers almost always follow through.

[+ Lucky]

What usual chipper sense of humor? The man's a self-described asshole.

[Rod Hagen]

>What usual chipper sense of humor? The man's a

>self-described asshole.

 

I think he was, once again, speaking with his tongue deeply wedged in some waif's cheeks.

[DaninWA]

RE: Luck of the draw

 

>However, the Twink Hos have had automobiles,

>rings, watches and the like dangled before their eyes and

>only one has received even a percentage of these gifts. He

>is a total charmer, however, and could probably get Bernard

>Cardinal Law to admit his complicit guilt in return for a

>smile.

 

 

Somebody get that boy to Boston!

[+ Unicorn]

>Trips, cars, apartments, etc

>are offered but never appear. Why do clients do this, who

>are you trying to impress?

 

I agree with the poster who said that the person making the offer most likely meant it at the time he made the offer. Sometimes when a guy's testicles are screaming, his mind plays tricks on him. One has to think of why a guy would make such an offer? Was he offering to be your sugar-daddy?

[Casteran]

Unicorn thanks for asking if he wanted to be my sugar daddy, but I don't know of any sugar daddys that are looking for a 40ish bear, who considers himself a daddy. Thanks to all that responded, if you promise something stick to it, if you offer something make sure it happens.

[+ Unicorn]

Well, I think the context of the offer being made is an important one. As an example, one of the reasons I go to the gym, as opposed to having home exercise equipment, is that the experience is a total sexual turn-on for me. I often see guys who are so hot, that I feel I would do anything for just one night with them. It's a very strong biological urge.

To use a crude analogy, maybe you've had diarrhea, and have gone around looking for a toilet you could use, thinking "I'd pay $100 to use someone's toilet!" After you've found a toilet you can use and taken your dump, you don't go around thinking you'd pay $100 to go to the bathroom.

There are guys out there that I feel confident that if they would let me be their sugar-daddy, I really would take care of them, buy a car for their use (with my name in the car's title), and so on. This is different from a romp in the hay with a gym stud, though. Of course, one difficulty with the sugar-daddy scene is that you have to find a guy you can trust and who wouldn't steal from you. Another is that someone who take you up on a sugar-daddy offer has a high likelihood of being lazy, narcissistic, or both (although there have been a number of successful relationships as such).

In summary, if someone offers you a car, you need to ask yourself why he's doing it. If you're offering something substantial in return, such as living with him, you have reason to believe the offer is genuine. If all you're offering is an occasional romp in the hay, you should be wondering if it isn't just the guy's hormones talking. After all, I think most people would say that the first or second sexual experience with someone is the best, unless there's some kind of deeper emotional bond involved (i.e. love).

[marc anthony]

Insightful post, Unicorn. That "deeper" emotional connection that the client feels is probably the difference between hiring an escort once or twice (and, as you put it, using up the sexual magic for the romp in the hay) and the hiring someone repeatedly over a long period of time. If you can't connect on some other level, it's hard to become a long term repeat client.

[Guest DCeBOY]

work out or cruise?

 

your gym comments go to the heart of why i refuse to go to Results on the rare blue moon that i actually go to the gym. i go to work out, not to cruise, not to be cruised, and certainly not to see fucking in the showers.

[+ Unicorn]

RE: work out or cruise?

 

Gaaack! For me the gym is the best thing about being gay! }> Whenever I find myself in the showers with these gorgeous muscle hunks I think "God, thank you, thank you, thank you for making me gay!". Can you imagine what most heterosexual guys would give for the opportunity to be able to shower with the hot babes on the women's side? What an incredible gift! But what's with the weirdos who leave their swimsuits on when they shower?? x(