Cutting a scene short.

[Trixie]

Well, here's another topic that may not win me many friends (I can hear the chorus going up now... "You'll never hire an escort in this town again, you bitch!). But honestly, this is a situation i've faced a blessedly small handful of times, and have never quite known how to deal with it. I hire 'scorts for a very specific reason, and am quite up front about what I'm looking for, what my expectations are,

and what the escort can expect. I feel I'm pretty plain-spoken when contacting a guy to see if he'll be willng and able to accomodate me.

Nevertheless, there have been a few occasions where an escort simply doesn't live up to what's asked of him. Frequently it's a situation where the escort just didn't know if he'd be right for my needs or not. That's understandable. More than once I felt like I'd been downright lied to, and that's annoying. One time it was a case where the 'scort just didn't speak enough english to grasp what I was looking for. Boy, you should seen the look on his face when it finally dawned on him what I wanted!

Anyway, once you're ten or twenty minutes into an appointment, and you're realizing with a sinking feeling that it's not gonna go anywhere, what do you do? I've always (with one exception) just stretched it out as long as I could bare, politely paid the guy, and chalked it up to experience. But I guess, given that this is a business, that's not a smart way to approach it.

I'd like to know what your feelings are, both clients and escorts, about cutting a scene short if it's not what the client was wanting.

How much is a reasonable compensation?

[Guest Ant415]

<I hire 'scorts for a very specific reason, and am quite up front about what I'm looking for, what my expectations are>

 

What didn't the escort do? Your complaint is a bit unclear. Was his dick not hard and not able to fuck you? Did he say he is oral -- give and get -- but doesn't do that when the date rolls around? Is there any physical or hygienic reason that would cause a guy (paid or not) to recant a certain sexual act?

 

Was your request reasonable? Hopefully you didn't ask him to get fisted while you peed over his back, with Nina Hagen playing on the phonogragh.

 

Or is the shortcoming something vague and unmeasurable, like he didn't kiss with hot passion, or didn't fuck like a wild man?

[Trixie]

Oh Ant, you are a NOSY one, aren't you. And for your information, it would be Nina Hagen being played BACKWARDS on the phonograph (an effect that sounds eerily like Barbra Streisand). No, nothing that dramatic. Actually, it's nothing even that sexual. If you poke around this message board a bit, you could easily find out what I look for in an escort. Failing that, you could cumon over ta my place, and I'd gladly demonstrate it on you! In the meantime, I'd prefer to remain a john of mystery. Suffice it to say, I have specific requirements, which on occasion, despite the reassurance of the escort, are not met. You silly goose, you.

[Guest Dan]

><I hire 'scorts for a very specific reason, and am quite up

>front about what I'm looking for, what my expectations are>

>

>What didn't the escort do? Your complaint is a bit

>unclear. Was his dick not hard and not able to fuck you?

>Did he say he is oral -- give and get -- but doesn't do that

>when the date rolls around? Is there any physical or

>hygienic reason that would cause a guy (paid or not) to

>recant a certain sexual act?

>

>Was your request reasonable? Hopefully you didn't ask him

>to get fisted while you peed over his back, with Nina Hagen

>playing on the phonogragh.

>

you mean the nina hagen record(?) would have been the deal breaker?

[Guest JH]

This is a good question, Trixie

 

I've had one guy who turned up either drunk or high a not at all with it. He needed a shower and couldn't stand up straight. I gave him his cab fare and pushed him through the door - fortunately he was too far gone to argue!

 

On another occasion, I just didn't like the escort and I don't think that he liked me. He settled for payment pro rata to the time we were together (about 15 minutes).

 

The key issue seems to be communication and honesty. Try saying "this isn't really working for me" and see what happens. If the escort has seen other clients and is tired, then he knows he has to make an effort - or be trashed on the review site }>

[Trixie]

Ok..Ok, I guess it's time for me to divulge my little secret. I don't hire escorts for their penises...though I do check them out for their beauty. I hire my escorts to indulge a tickling fetish... I tie them up and tickle them. Those of you out there who don't have a fetish (besides the 99%- Universal penis-fetish) wouldn't understand. Yes... I'm turned on by tickling guys.

And actually, alot of escorts I've met have been turned on by being tickled. Sometimes they didn't know it, but it's true (I love being an iconoclast!).

So now you know... certainly there are escorts who won't be tickled... and that's fine, I stand by their decision. And certainly, there are escorts who don't know if they are ticklish or not. This I'll accept as a case by case challenge. But then again, there are some escorts who're are not at all ticklish, yet they will accept an appointment with me anyway. In other words, they'll lie to me. Now, I'm a pretty savvy tickler...I can tell, whether an escort is pretending or not.(An sometimes I'll even give him Kudos for his acting ability).

But still... what I want is the genuine thing. It may not be as easy as getting a blow job, but it's what I ask of an escort.

And I'm never dishonest about it.

Now... for those of you who are purely dickhounds, this might be incomprihensible.

Nevertheless, this is the ONLY reason I hire escorts...to tickle them. And I am grateful to those who put up with it.

Then again, there are those who don't deliver...perhaps now you get the meaning of my post.

(Thanks to Devon, who gave me the courage to admit this!)

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>(Thanks to Devon, who gave me the courage to admit this!)

 

Aw, you already had it in ya, Trix -- I was just trying to help bring it out. :*

 

I can definitely see why you're frustrated with the escort pool if you're getting fakers. Escorts need to be honest enough to distinguish between things they really like doing and things they merely don't mind doing, especially for a specialty fetish like this. Of course, in some ways there's a Catch-22 going on. Escorts who are taking the job are confident they can endure being tickled for an hour because they're NOT ticklish, and escorts who are ticklish are afraid to take the job. It kinda scares me; I'm ticklish, and I honestly don't know how much I can take. Would you be let down if the escort turned out to be too "wimpy-ticklish" -- like he got panicky and hysterical too quickly, or had to keep making you stop and start over, or something like that? Or would that be a positive reinforcement of some kind?

[Guest Tim_TX]

When I send out one of my guys....if he is drunk, high or not properly dressed for the occasion, I dont expect them to get paid at all. Thier compensation for screwing up a job shouldnt be the problem of the client.

 

I have only had that happen twice in 10 years of running an agency, and both times I bought the client dinnet the next night and sent over another scort at no charge to them.

 

The escort??? Both times I ended our working relationship.

 

Just my personal way to take care of it.

[Donnie]

>I don't hire escorts for their penises...though I

>do check them out for their beauty. I hire my escorts to

>indulge a tickling fetish... I tie them up and tickle them.

>...this is the ONLY reason I hire escorts...to

>tickle them.

 

Then why, "Trixie", did you post on Feb. 19:

 

>And furthermore, the next escort who says to me "oh, do you mind if

>I don't cum? I've already done it twice today." and then charges me

>$200 is gonna get his butt kicked from the Presidio to the

>Embarcadero!

 

Something's very fishy here...

[Rick Munroe]

RE: fetishes

 

I'm very ticklish and have been hired a few times for tickling scenes. It's excrutiatingly torturous but that makes it exciting for me; also, Derek loved seeing me squirm (two of the clients wanted to tie me up and I will only allow someone to do that to me if Derek is present; I'm a dumb whore but I'm not that dumb!). Anyway, I was as spent afterwards as if I had been fucking someone for 3 hours.

 

I love when a client comes to me with a specific fetish or roleplay...it really appeals to the actor in me. I had a blast on my last roleplay job but I didn't give myself enough time to memorize my lines (yes, I was given a script!) so I ended up improvising a deep throat blow job into the scene. I have a foot slave who worships & makes love to my feet (and, if I let him, shoots a huge load on my toes), and a client/friend whom Derek and I spank regularly (love that!) Tickle scenes are fun but they can be dangeous, too. One ticklee got so out of control in his thrashing about that I almost got a tooth knocked loose.

 

Here's a twist Trixie might find amusing: one of our clients asked Derek and me to tie him up and tickle him mercilessly. We tied his arms & legs to the bed, and proceeded to use every possible technique & touch on every part of his body. After about 45 minutes of this, we were exhausted, and he hadn't laughed once. He said afterwards, "Oh, I forgot to mention...I'm not really ticklish at all." :+

[CT Dick]

Info on tickling

 

So, Trixie, do you or the ticklee cum?

 

Curious minds want to know.

 

Dick (where is the icon scratching his head?)

[Guest jeffOH]

So, it's Trixie the Tickler, huh? Pretty tame compared to some of thing scary things I had imagined you were into.

 

I've had a few ticklers over the years and even among them there are

sub-categories. One guy just wanted to tickle my feet and loved to hear me laugh/giggle. Another client wanted to find the ticklish spots on me and focus on each one for a while. Ticklers don't seem to get into much actual sex. I find all fetishist quite interesting. I always want to know how they got into it in the first place. It's nice to learn new things.;-)

 

JEFF

jeff4hire@aol.com

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Trixie]

"Would you be let down if the escort turned out to be too 'wimpy-ticklish?'"

Oh no...not at all. If a guy is truly, exceptionally, EXQUISITELY ticklish, and just can't hack it, I do give him credit for giving it a try. (And cases like this are truly torture for me; to have the mother lode there before me, inches from my fingers, yet unable to get at it). Mostly, scorts who're this ticklish just won't do it, unless perhaps they really need the money. Then again, there are those with a sense of adventure and curiosity, or who maybe want to test their endurance, who'll agree to the scene. These are the guys I like best, because they come with an open and curious mind. And they usually understand that the glorious range of human sexuality/sensuality doesn't end with "stick point A in slot B". They're willing to use a little imagination.

I would never, ever push an escort past his limits (well, I did once, but that's another story), simply because I am a respectful person. I treat people decently and hope for the same. And frankly, I would like to hope that the escort has as fun a time with me as I with him. I'd say about 90% of the escorts I've hired have freely volunteered to do it again. Some even were surprised to find themselves aroused by it. And One, bless his heart, who thought he'd be too ticklish and hesitated to do it the first time I called him, actually now includes it as a specialty in his print ads!

Just as there are degrees of being ticklish, there are degrees of ticklers, and I am no meanie about it. (although there are those out there who are, and scare even me). I hope to achieve a certain intensity in a scene, but also blend the tickling with a fair amount of more traditional erotic behaviour. In the end I hope that a good time is had by all. Or at the very least, no one dies.

[Trixie]

Goodness...so you ARE listening to me! Actually that whole li'l passage there was more or less word-for-word quote e-mailed to me by a friend, who was responsible for introducing me to this sight. I threw it in as a private little joke, figuring he'd get a kick out of it.

[Trixie]

RE: fetishes

 

Yes...I'm not sure what to think about that.

Mystifyin'.

[Trixie]

RE: Info on tickling

 

"Where is the icon scratching it's head?"

I ate it.

I've always been rather fluid around cumming in this sort of scene (does that qualify as a pun?). Usually, my hot little hands are busy doing other things. And a lot of the time the poor escort is just too distracted to maintain an erection. But there are times when a tickle scene will lead to that apparently inevitable result of human physical contact: the orgasm. Personally it's not important to me whether I get off there and then. If the 'scort-ticklee is so in the mood, I'm certainly willing to help. Especially since most men are hyper-ticklish after they cum. For me, it's a go with the flow situation. If it happens, great. If not, that's fine too.

[Trixie]

"Pretty tame compared to some of the things I was imagining you were into."

I know! Sorry to be a let-down, Jeff. It's neato that you've taken on ticklers as clients. And your observations are quite correct, fetishes, like any other form of sex, vary as much as the people involved.

It is fun to learn new things, isn't it? Today, I learned what haggis is:-( .

[Guest JH]

OK, so now I've gotta ask. My BF is Scottish, so if haggis is anything other than a huge oatmeal sausage, eaten with mashed potato and swede, please tell me. I'll get a lot of fun seeing his face if it's something else :-)

[Guest seraph250]

>>I don't hire escorts for their penises...though I

>>do check them out for their beauty. I hire my escorts to

>>indulge a tickling fetish... I tie them up and tickle them.

>>...this is the ONLY reason I hire escorts...to

>>tickle them.

>

>Then why, "Trixie", did you post on Feb. 19:

>

>>And furthermore, the next escort who says to me "oh, do you mind if

>>I don't cum? I've already done it twice today." and then charges me

>>$200 is gonna get his butt kicked from the Presidio to the

>>Embarcadero!

>

>Something's very fishy here...

 

Good catch, Donnie. But I don't think "fishy" is a strong enough word.

[Guest alanm]

You are both on to something. I think this whole thread is a put on by Trixie. Thanks to Donnie for catching the contradictions in Trixie's postings.

[Trixie]

A put on? Oh really, sweetie. How very tiresome. Why would I lie about having a tickling fetish? I wouldn't want to invade their privacy by listing their names here, but if you care to contact me personally, I would gladly provide you with a list of escorts, all reviewed on this site, who could verify that Trixie knows ticklin'!

[Trixie]

Haggis...well, I was TOLD that it is the intestine of sheep, stuffed with it's own digested offal mixed with veggies. :-(

Maybe I was being taken, but then again, Scotland has had a rather harsh history, and one can learn to eat most anything when one is starving.

[Guest Ant415]

If he is high or drunk, why send him out? You are setting him up for a bad date, and will disappoint a client and waste his time.

 

I would think one benefit of an agency is to pre-screen the guys, stand behind what you are offering.

[Guest JH]

Yep that's more or less correct. It's a sheep's stomach stuffed with oatmeal mixed with offal (not digested) and spices - quite tasty too. Then again, I guess I'm developing a taste for things Scottish