FFFFucking or MMMMaking Love..oh Yeah!!

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

>RM-

>I thought everybody already had your number!;-)

 

Oh yeah...I was wondering why my phone keeps ringing all the time. Even so, GIVE IT TO THE STRAIGHT GUY WHO WANTS A BLOW JOB. Thank you.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Fucking Love...

 

You know I was thinking he would make a man out of you....

Have fun on your trip, as I am sure you will.

[+ Axiom2001]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

After scrolling the screen and reading all replies to this strange question, I just had to respond. Ben Dover's response was quite eloquent; I also liked the manner in which Steph responded; there is definitely a distinction between "fucking" and "love making." Fucking is principally the act (verb) physical intertwinement, and loving making involves both the physical and the mental. "I'm in love" implies the emotional without the physical. (I liked Rick Munroe's serious comment to this question: love those buns which I'd really like to "fuck" heavily and deeply. ...no lovemaking involved here--just two individuals feeling really, really good while it is happening as well as after it has ceased. (I think I've made some semblance of an answer to this question which I find to be odd! I am not a naive individual either.):9

[Guest atr322]

sweet&lowdown I always find sex with anyone--escort or date--to be the best when i can feel, for the moment, that i am indeed "making" love...even if it's just for the moment...and this can happen for me when the other guy is totally into what he is doing and is responsive...i always like to feel swept away in the moment..and if a guy can make me feel that way...then i am "in love" at least for the moment

 

the trick is to find someone that makes you feel that way all the time...it's too bad that we can't find the same passion and being swept away with our longer term lover that we often find in the stimulation and excitement and feeling of abandon that we find with strangers so many times

 

if u wonder what your lover is like when he cheats on you, remember what it was like with him in the beginning:9 :9

[thgbmi]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

Fucking requires but one "connection"---making love requires other forms of "connection" which develop other places than in bed--it is not impossible by any means to develop some "connections" beyond the pole in the hole with an escort--clients and escorts sometimes become friends and develop "connections" that can contribute to their sex being something more than just fucking do they not?

[Godiva]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

Are there any escorts who make love to their clients?? or is it merely just fucking..How hard is it for you to stay this side of the emotional line?

 

G

[nate_sf]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

Yes, having the opportunity to "make love" to a guy who is looking for that kind of experience is the best kind of encounter, for me at least. Guys will sometimes contact me wanting a very sensual experience, with lots of touching and kissing among other things, and when things are going pretty reciprocal it can come close to making love, or at least as close as you can come with someone you've just met. Maybe it's just passion and getting caught up in the heat of the moment, but often there's just the right connection, so that there is an emotional aspect that goes beyond just fucking. I think they are two different kinds of experiences -- sometimes you want to get down and make love passionately, other times you just want to be an animal and fuck.

 

Nate

[Guest oralbtm4top]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

I'm fortunate at this stage in my life to be able to afford some of the best things life has to offer. This is especially true with escorts. While I don't kid myself that escorts are making love to me, I do believe that a truly gifted escort can make a passionate, emotional connection while fucking me silly. When an escort can kiss, touch, fondle, carress, and fuck with enthusiasm - I'm in love at the moment. That's what I'm looking for. An escort/client realtionship has more to do with connecting than anything else. My experience with Mick in New York is an example of how good it can get. And I'm always on the prowl for my next love affair.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

>Are there any escorts who make love to their clients?? or is

>it merely just fucking..How hard is it for you to stay this

>side of the emotional line?

 

There's a lyric in a Tricky song that goes "overcome in sixty seconds with the strength we have together / but for now, emotional ties, they stay severed / and when there's trust there'll be treats / and when we funk we'll hear beats." For me this captures the feeling of a lot of the casual sex I have, including with clients. It's that feeling of being overcome, of losing oneself in the moment. That, rather than an affinity for a certain position or technique, is what I feel I'm being paid both to generate and to experience myself. That type of intensity manifests itself in different ways with different people. I go through a whole gamut of emotions, including, sometimes, some dark ones, depending on the scene. Is that feeling of being in love or of love making one of them sometimes? Absolutely. I remember one time I left an appointment shaking because my client and I had SO made love it was frightening.

 

It didn't seem to affect how I felt about my other clients, though. Part of what we do, I think, as escorts is, or can be, to be in love for an hour -- to NOT "stay on this side of the line" but to go there, wherever "there" is -- and then leave our lover at his door, rather than carry him with us. This may sound a bit cold but actually I think it just means being present wherever we are.

 

As the second half of the lyric implies, there is a tenderness and sense of trust that develops over time with regular clients which yields its own particular sweetness, which can also be a feeling akin to love making.

[Guest atr322]

RE: Fucking or Making Love...

 

...hey, slimmuscly...you are so right...what you describe is exactly what i was trying to express but not so well in my previous comments the other day...

 

when we are in the moment, as you say, we are actually "making", ie creating that feeling of love..manufacturing it out of our senses and our bodies and our emotional commitment to the other guy and to our involvement with him...

 

i take it, you are in SF...and boy, would it be worth a trip out there to meet you...which i hope to do in the not too distant future..how do i connect?...

 

i have one escort i see with whom i have the same mindblowing, total "swept away" dates which leave both of us breathless..we might only see each other once a month because we are afraid that it might wear out...