Watching the clock!

[+ Charlie]

RE: Watching the clock! The Client Perspective

 

I think Matt/Vancouver's advice of "Fuck first, then talk" is exactly right for me; if there is time after we have done the deed, that's when I want to have a pleasant conversation, because like Barry, if I start talking first, I'm likely to blow my first hour that way. In fact, I once did that with a real charmer, and the agency called to check that he was ready to leave for his next appointment just as we started to undress. However, there are clients who need the lubricant of conversation before they can feel comfortable enough to proceed to sex. If I were you, I would discuss this with the client before you go to the appointment, so both of you know where you stand. You should certainly suggest to someone who says he likes to converse first that it would be best to schedule for a longer appointment to accommodate that kind of interaction. If someone wants to keep on chatting after the dirty has been done and time has expired, just smile, give a peck on the check, and say that you'd love to talk but someone is waiting for you elsewhere.

[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

Oh that I hate when People do that.

You know it is like a game, and mostly regulars clients like to play it. and the worst is I know it. So when I know it I will give my best to spend 59 min and 59 seconds and nothing else. When People does hide clock and things like that to make sure we don't look at it, I have my won way to find out what time it is and I win the game everytime. Now in the other hand, when there are clocks all over the place and that they guy is not giving me a S>>> about it, then I don't mind staying over the hour because I have fun about it.

But When I get screwed staying over the hour like it just happened to you, man I would be pissed off because time is monney and monney is your bills, bills is the way you survive and this is why you work.

Good luck to all of you guys. Especially in vegas....

[Guest ChicagoHotDad]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

The best advice I could give a escort just starting out is to err on the side of giving the client more time. While I wouldn't go so far as to stay 2 hours for the price of one, I think up to a hour and a hour is fine without expecting the client to pay more. When you are just starting out, you have to go the "extra mile" to get repeat business and clients will appreciate someone who does not rush them.

 

Nothing gets my gander up more than a clock watcher, especially those who waste the first 30-45 minutes in small talk and trying to stay out of the bedroom. Whenever a escort pulls that on me, and finally says "Shall we get started"?, I smile and reply sure thing, as I am really looking forward to our hour together in bed.

 

Another type of escort I dislike is the type that immediately tries to get you off and then announces 15-20 minutes later that we are through. In cases like that I always remind the escort that I am paying for the FULL HOUR and that if he wants to leave early, I will be happy to pro-rate the hourly fee based on exactly how long he has been there.

[Guest cp8036]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

Well, sure most guys here wouldn't try to get out in 15-20 mins, soon as someone cums. Sounds more like a huslter. I made comments many days ago on other thread, but is more applicable here...

 

I've never seen an ad that states "my rates are $200.00 per orgasm". So, when I spend time with this escort, and I don't cum, I don't pay?

 

If I came in 10 minutes, and he took that to mean since the sex was over, the appointment is complete. I wouldn't let him out the door that easy. If things "happened" that quickly chances are the sex wasn't good. Therefore...

 

I'd suggest that for the balance of the time slot he can escort or model for me. Perhaps stand naked on the fireplace hearth eating a Granny Smith apple as he models (...model, Dawn, model !!!); wear festive ethnic garb while singing folks songs from the land of his ancestors; or escort me to the local pet store and help me select some new chew toys and collars for Fido.

[Guest cp8036]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

59 mins and 59 seconds is fair enough... but you understand if not the same client won't give a tip?

[Guest jeremyred18]

RE: Ya'll gave me the answer I needed!

 

Wow, ya'll feel the love in this room or what. I can't believe I actually started a topic without somebody yellin at somebody for having a different opinion and ya'll have been so helpful, you have no idea. I have actually used some of ya'lls advice like the saying that I have a friend waiting for me or I have to be somewhere. The watch idea runs into some problems because like Rod said, it snags but it was a good idea. I have thought about yelling "HEY LOOK OVER THERE!" and then running out the door but some might take offense to that. Anyway, ya'll have been great and have totally solved my delema. So FREEBIES FOR ALL!!! Just kidding but Christmas is coming around the corner............:7

"Not So Newbie"

Jeremy

[Guest cmp]

RE: Ya'll gave me the answer I needed!

 

Hey Hottie,

 

I won't be asking for a freeby (I want you to pay your rent), but I will definitely ask you to be extra affectionate and cuddly!

[BuckyXTC]

RE: Ya'll gave me the answer I needed!

 

Jeremy:

 

You're great and I love the fact that you say "y'all". I still find myself saying it every time I'm talking with friends or family in Texas, and it always makes me a bit homesick to hear it, but in a good way. Glad to hear that suggestions made here are helpful, and that you're doing well.

Bucky:-)

[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

>59 mins and 59 seconds is fair enough... but you

>understand if not the same client won't give a tip?

 

the " 59 mins and 59 seconds " is only for people who are just trying to spend more time that we were planned for. Believe me I have been through there and lost lots of monney. How ? well one, by the time, and second of all, being too nice as I am , we talk , we share expereriences, we are having a drink, and before you even know it, it is 2 hours gone. So you hurry up, because I might have had to pick up my ex somewhere, or had a meeting to my masseur or whatever I had to do ( I won't say that I might have an other client, because that Will just start a war ; oh my god he is having two clients in a row) and you need to get ready fast. Then the guy give you the monney and you don't even take the time to count how much there is and you are gone. Then you realize when you arrive in your car that there is $50 to $100 missing, what a surprise. SO I'm pissed, because I was too nice and got screwed up by putting my gard down. So what do I think at that right moment ? Fuck them, I won't give a min extra the nex time....

Yes People do that because they have nothing to be scared about. They know I won't get back to them, unless I'm furious. And you know what I won't even try to get the monney that the guy owe me, because It would be more time lost for just an asshole.

 

This does not happen all the time of course, I was in my first post, just trying to show how I would have reacted on that guy , that is all. I was not talking to every client in the world. I have clients that I do spend may be 20 min with them, and I'm gone with %50 of tips over my hourly rate. IN 20 min ? YOu know I'm not picky, and this is why I would not give a S!!! to someone who tried or did screwed me up . I just know that I would not see that guy again that is all.

 

Anyway, to finsih my post, when I think about it, when I take 100 clients of mine, hiring me for an hour each, well the amount of time that I do spend in total, exceed largly 150 hour . Mostly because I'm ok with it.

[Guest jeffOH]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

Stephan...can't resist this, but an escort should definitely know how to spell MONEY.;-)

 

Jeremy...as Phx said, after a period of time you do develop an internal clock. I usually spend a minimum of an hour to 1 1/2 hours with a client. MOST of the time it is not a problem. Most clients are aware that they are scheduled for an hour and as numerous clients have told me it's the QUALITY not the QUANTITY. The escort that I hire

quite regularly is usually out the door in less than an hour. We are

often done with the sex in around a 1/2 hour and then we talk "shop"

for a bit.

 

The only problem with the internal clock is that when I am having

"free" recreational sex, it's hard to turn off that internal clock.

I have to keep saying to myself that I can take my time.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

>Stephan...can't resist this, but an escort should definitely

>know how to spell MONEY.;-)

 

Well I really need someone to help me every day with my English. Are you willing to help me out

:7 ?

Monney , money, or Even Monnaie, or should I say, Mauney , for me they all sounds the same and the most important things is the color of it When I see it, I usually don't care of the spelling }>

 

But thanks for your comment

 

PS : I'm really not joking about me in need of help. I hate shcool and won't go for anything, unless of a cute young teacher. If someone in Las Veas would be willing to help me out, that would be great

[Guest cp8036]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

l'argent.....dinero... All the world understands the word for money !!! I've been in some remote places, and people still can speak the language of money.

 

Just as most escorts here are nice and reasonable, sure most clients here are respectful too. The bad examples of which we all refer are guys that don't visit this site. They won't know how bad they are.

[Bilbo]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

I used to tell clients that the amount was for "up to 2 hours". And yet, the darn thing would usually time itself out at about an hour and a half anyway.

 

Also seems to me that we are only stressing one side of the question. I know that over the years I had many clients who rushed me. Some of my regulars I even took to asking right in the phone call if they were going to be tightly booked or if we were going to have some time to really play. Some people just plain made me uncomfortable with how fast they were in and out of my place. Some people you are just meeting, you think that you are playing them along to everyone's pleasure and suddenly find that you pushed his pleasure threshold too fast too soon. Sure, you can ask how quickly he can reload that thing, but still ... Then there were the few clients who knew their fuses were too short and kept coming back because, knowing that, I could prolong them past where they normally got to. So, I know that no-one so far has said that it is only escorts who occaisionally rush the contact, but, please, don't anyone get tempted to claim that, either.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

My two cent worth.

 

Its not my job to watch the clock, its the clients. If he chooses to go over the hour then I assume he has the cash onhand to cover the additional hour. I dont make an issue if it goes 15 min or so after, but if it goes beyond that then yes he will be charged for the time. Pure, simple, cut and dried.

[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

I like that ;-)

[Guest married_but_using1]

Randy, the escort in Houston, I use most frequently is very charasmatic. he has this way of making you feel like you are the only person in the world. Throughout our time together I always have the sense that it is all about "me." I have yet to ever see a watch on this guy, or ever catch him looking for one in my hotel. (I once hid the alarm so he would stay longer)but without fail at about 15-20 mins after our hour session ends, he smiles broadly, leans over kisses me, followed by a deep hug and says, "Are you gonna walk me to the door?" He gets up I follow and we have one last kiss.

I tell you this because you seem charismatic like him, and I find it endearing that he asks me to walk him to the door, I know that it is over but I don't feel as though he was being rude, by placing a timed value on the experience, it has the appearance and feel of a date having ended. It's a way of being subtly direct, without insinuating to your client that he may be one of many on a "to do" list.

I finally broke down and asked him how he knew what time it was

and he told me he had looked at my watch, to verify what my body language was telling him. In other words your clients tend to watch the time and their body language will change as you approach and pass the agreed on times.

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[Guest JT]

Jeremy,

 

Have you got yourself a watch yet?

 

Seriously, if you haven't, I have a suggestion. If you're going to your client's home, bring along with you something to bake. Once you arrive, stick the stuff in the oven and set the timer for the duration of the appointment. So if your client still won't let you go when the time is up, you can make him your bitch, tie him up, and stuff him with your "baked goods" before you leave! ;-)

 

JT

 

(P.S. Now if you're going to a hotel, then you don't need to bring anything to bake cuz' there's likely a radio-alarm or TV in the room anyway).

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

lol

[Guest cp8036]

SD.

 

Can you please tell me more on your point. If you are the professional... the one being hired, why is keeping track of the time not your job? Since you do this this type of meeting more than a typical client, I would think you have a good idea of the time passed.

 

Why not just say something to effect about the hour coming to a close.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

As it has been shouted and blurted many times over about clock watching even to the point of seeing "He left promptly on the hour and seemed like he was clock watching", I let my clients know right from the begining my rule, I do know when its time to wind down and try to give at least 3 chances for them to take the cue, if not then on we go. I have never heard a complaint, more so a sigh of relief. Also doesnt distract from the moment. Exchanging rate information do you want to or not ect can kinda ruin your passionate fuck fest.

[Guest jeremyred18]

LOL Yeah JT, I gotta watch now. I like the baked goods idea, I even think it could help increase my business. With every appointment, you get a free meal afterwards. And I could wear nothing but an apron. What do ya'll think? Thanks for the idea JT!

Jeremy

[Guest JT]

RE: Watching the cock!

 

Dear viewers,

 

We have a new cook show for you this fall: Cock...oops, excuse me, I mean Cook with Jeremy .

 

Starring: Executive Chef Jeremy San Diego

 

Today's features:

 

Appetizer: Long carrot and cucumber stick salads splashed with a light balsamic vinegette

 

Entree: Mushroom-capped sausage and meatballs stuffed with a hot, white, creamy sauce

 

Wine accompaniment: The Assie (oops I mean Aussie) Shiraz

 

Desserts: Ice on the cherry

 

Dessert wine: A full-bodied ice-wined popsicles, served on two nips

 

Hope you've enjoyed the show...

 

 

>I even think it could help increase my business. With every

>appointment, you get a free meal afterwards.

 

Nah. Jeremy, you look good enough to eat! Honestly, you're so hot and cute. You don't need to offer free meals to increase business.

 

 

>And I could

>wear nothing but an apron. What do ya'll think?

 

Hmmmmmm...very yummy and delicious! :9 I always love a nice tent in the front and an easy access in the back (I luvvvvvvv the jockstraps too!).

 

Plus, you can use the apron to tie up those "insensitive" clients!

 

 

>Thanks for

>the idea JT!

 

My pleasure, always! :-)

 

JT

[BuckyXTC]

RE: Watching the cock!

 

JT:

 

I like the idea....we already have that British boy who does "The Naked Chef"...........but I've yet to see him cook anything naked.

 

And I think it would be much more entertaining to watch JeremyRed "basting and stuffing the turkey" and hearing his cute Texas "y'all" than listening to the banter about "dollops of butter" from the Brit (though he is pretty cute, too).

 

And you are correct: Jeremy would be quite the scrumptious meal all be himself!

 

Guess I'd better program my TV to the Food Channel and wait for big things to come!

[Guest PhxMasseur]

RE: Watching the clock! Another Newbie

 

>The only problem with the internal clock is that when I am

>having

>"free" recreational sex, it's hard to turn off that internal

>clock.

>I have to keep saying to myself that I can take my time.

>

>Jeff4hire@aol.com

 

 

LOL that could be a whole other topic I'm sure. When I'm having personal sex I also often find myself reverting to my professional behavior. Working too hard to make sure my partner is feeling great and sometimes I forget to let myself enjoy it too. :9