San Diego Escort Rick -- no longer with my Agency

[Guest ManToManEscorts]

Hi Guys!

 

Unfortunately I had to fire my "straight college jock" Rick for a several reasons, among them:

 

1) Asking clients to call his cell phone "directly" next time, by-passing the Agency that introduced them

 

2) Renegeing on "agreed upon" activities at the last minute

 

3) Calling me and cancelling a booking at the last minute, leaving me to deal with disappointed client who had booked well in advance

 

4) Problems "getting wood" at just about every call, and not even making much of an effort to do so

 

5) "Personal hygiene" issues which were addressed several times by me, with no effort/improvement on his part to correct this situation.

 

 

Apparently, Rick has informed clients that he is going to do all of his future escort work independently, with his own website etc...

 

All I can say is: Buyer Beware.

 

Dave

http://www.ManToManEscorts.com

[Guest IM_Moore]

>Hi Guys!

>

>Unfortunately I had to fire my "straight college jock" Rick

>for a several reasons, among them:

>

>1) Asking clients to call his cell phone "directly" next

>time, by-passing the Agency that introduced them

>

>2) Renegeing on "agreed upon" activities at the last minute

>

>3) Calling me and cancelling a booking at the last minute,

>leaving me to deal with disappointed client who had booked

>well in advance

>

>4) Problems "getting wood" at just about every call, and not

>even making much of an effort to do so

>

>5) "Personal hygiene" issues which were addressed several

>times by me, with no effort/improvement on his part to

>correct this situation.

>

>

>Apparently, Rick has informed clients that he is going to do

>all of his future escort work independently, with his own

>website etc...

>

>All I can say is: Buyer Beware.

>

 

This is the second now former escort of your firm that you have felt the need to knock down in this forum. All you needed to do was taken his pic off your site and advise callers requesting him he is no longer with the firm you own.

 

You sound more bitter than concerned to me. You are in a tough business (so I am told). If it is to hot in the kitchen get out }>

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

I have to agree. You could have limited your justification for ending your professional relationship to his asking clients to phone him directly. As for his performance, hygiene and dependability, these are features best left to reviewers to address. Whatever your motives for this post, it did read like sour grapes. :-(

[BuckyXTC]

At first when I began reading this post I thought....this is great, an agency owner warning us about an escort to be wary of. But the more I read, my internal "sour grapes buzzer" began to sound and I got the distinct feeling that you chose to share much more information than necessary. I agree with the two previous posts that a simple "this escort is no longer represented by my agency because he violated the "Prime Directive" (went around the agency to schedule clients) would have been enough. I realize you got burned by him, and I can understand your frustration, but I'm afraid too much information, as you provided, just makes you appear to be seeking revenge. If I were owner of your agency, I'd steer clear of doing this in written form. On the other hand, if someone calls your agency by phone and wants to hire this escort, you are certainly entitled to share more information, because they made a direct request for information. But to volunteer so much information, especially about matters like hygiene is a bit "over the top".

BuckyXTC :o

[Guest jc92103]

Those of you who remember a year ago...I told you so!

[Guest ManToManEscorts]

Hi Guys!

 

Yes, I admit that I was pissed off when I posted that message: If you guys were ripped off by an escort, or had a bad experience, etc...you would not hesitate to post the details. But I guess I am forbidden to say anything negative about anyone -- even if it might help a future client avoid an unpleasant experience. I thought that that was part of what these forums were about.

 

Anyhow, this is the first and last time I will post anything negative about an escort.

 

Now I know why the many Agency Owners in this country and around the world rarely participate in these forums. Which is kind of a shame, as we can provide much valuable insight.

 

Sincerely,

 

Dave

http://www.ManToManEscorts.com

[duke37]

I hope you change your mind about participating in the forums. I thought you had a valuable perspective. However like most business owners generally I dont reveal any details about my employees performance while working for me or why they left. Legalities aside there is no way to make that come off as fair-minded and agenda free. Im sure I'm telling you something your already know and practice but while you may want to warn your friends about someone you dont have a good way to do just that, at least not here.

[Guest Jocoluver]

I disagree with those who chastized your detailed posting! I might have tried to hire him outside your agency without the added info. (One of the silent majority) x( x(

[Guest Kenny]

>I disagree with those who chastized your detailed posting!

>I might have tried to hire him outside your agency without

>the added info. (One of the silent majority) x( x(

 

 

I completely agree with above. If anyone would have written the same negative things in the "Reviews", nobody would be bitching. Well I for one, appreciate what Dave said about this escort. BUYER BEWARE.

Of course, I am ALWAYS in the minority in my opinions.:-)

[Guest WorldEscrt Sean]

I've never understood why some Escorts prefer to work for an agency anyway. I can pick up my own phone just as easily and pay myself 40% of MY money to set up an appointment. And sweetie if you think that all Escorts that work for agencies don't give out their private numbers to clients you're deluded.

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

Dave,

 

Let me elaborate a bit on this. The problem is not so much that you are criticizing an escort. We all potentially do that when we review them here. The problem is that you are trashing (justifiably or not) an employee you have just fired. I think most people who have lost a job would consider it unfair for their ex-employer to pursue them vindictively on the web and with potential employers or business partners. This is termination with extreme prejudice and, in Canada at least, Rick could sue you for big (albeit Canadian) bucks for doing this.

 

It's only human for us to rationalize our more questionable actions. But let me ask you this: it would seem that you had received a number of complaints concerning Rick about "wood" and hygiene. Did you invite any of the complaining clients to submit a negative review on this site. I am not going to check Rick's reviews, but I somehow doubt it as it would have been against your business interests to do so. If you really wanted to warn the public, that would have been more timely and appropriate action.

 

If you think things over carefully, I am sure you will come to the conclusion that your real motive for posting negative hearsay (unless you have personally experienced wood and hygiene problems with Rick) about your ex employee was bitterness and not a sense civic responsibility. Does this make you a bad person? No, it just means that you were ticked off and acted inappropriately. We all do sometimes. And though Rick may have grounds for considering you a jerk, I hope you will not interpret our criticism as an invitation to take your posts elsewhere. We ARE interested in your views as an agency owner. So keep posting, and don't take our occasional catcalls so personally. None of us are perfect, and no one expects you to be.

 

;-)

[Guest LATINLUVR]

as we all seem to agree or disagree whatever has been said in this thread..onething remains constant and that is we are all entitled to our opinions..as for dave..i think he has been the target of alot of unnecessary anger for the readers and posters..i applaud his honesty and am always thankful and interested in everything he has to say..he has always apologized when he felt he was wrong and that just makes him human like all the rest of us..dave..keep up your good work..

[Guest ManToManEscorts]

Hello Gents!

 

First of all: Thank you to those of you who have continued to support me. And for those of you who offered criticism (at least those of you who offered "constructive" criticism), it has been taken to heart.

 

 

PS: IM Moore: I recall trashing no other escort on this forum -- please refresh my memory. The only other former escort I recall mentioning was Ryan, for whom I only had nice things to say. Please check your facts before accusing me of such things.

 

Thanks. :-)

 

 

Dave

http://www.ManToManEscorts.com

[mmk]

Dave

I do not see anything wrong with what you have posted here. I do think that is a shame because if I was in the San Diego area, he would have been an escort I would have considered hiring. (The hygiene issue would have been enough of a turnoff for me) I do remember at one point in our society (and I am only 36) when an employer was able to give a favorable or unfavorable reference about a former employee to a prospective new employer. Is this what Dave was doing with Rick, giving an unfavorable reference. How different is that from one of us posting a positive or negative review about an escort? Now, unfortunately in this lawsuit happy society we live in, one cannot tell the truth about someone without risking appearing in court.

[Guest Easy]

As Dave very well knows, I am a big fan of Rick. I've had the absoulute pleasure of being with Rick on several occassions. He was always great to me. I am also a big fan of Dave. He has totally changed my attitude towards agencies. Dave has always been honest and up front with me. I never thought I would be defending an agency, but let me just say a few pluses for me and the escort. First of all, I don't have to explain over and over to every new escort what I like. Dave already knows, informs the escort and they deliver 100%. It has eliminated the nervous wondering and the disapoointments for me. For the escort, if he is even half way good, he is spending a multitude of time on the phone and returning e-mails. Time he often doesn't have. With an agency taking care of this, plus screening clients, he has more hassle free time to work. I don't know who is right and who isn't, and frankly my dear, I don't give a damn. What I want to do is totally support two guys I really care about and the right for everyone to express his or her opinion, even if reacting rather than responding sometimes. Hello humanity!! My hat off to both men...and sometimes more!! ;-)