Length of First-time appointments

[Guest Viewmaster]

Never say never, but I have to say NEVER in a zillion years would I do a 1st time for more than an hour with an escort. I may know in advance what he looks like, sounds like, writes like, and it may be pretty well spelled out what will happen physically, but I still look at the 1st time more as an interview than a date. I've gone as far as to pay the full fee to just meet for a drink to check things out.

[ready182]

Great point 'bout the "other costs"

 

Reed,

 

You make a great point about the other costs associated with an appointment. If I could have a different escort at my door 5 nights a week, I would tend to book shorter appointments in order to evaluate whom I like. On the other hand, if you have to book expensive hotels, travel costs, etc, you want/need to make it worth your while, hence longer appointments.

[Guest jeffOH]

Amen, Veiwmaster and I don't know if I want to see a client for more than an hour either. I also look at it as an "interview",

especially if a client is thinking of hiring me for a few hours

or overnight. I have made exceptions to this upon occasion, based

upon my instincts and the longer appt. worked out quite well.

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[ready182]

1st time more than an hour with an escort.

 

1. What are the investments required in addition to the escort (hotel; airfare; etc) -- plz see Reed's post.

 

2. If applicable, do you trust the agency, the reviews (from any source), or referrals that you have?

 

3. Do you really want to wait for your second date for your first "kiss"???

[Guest cp8036]

Wow, you seem more cynical than I. While many escorts have ages/lifestyles/looks much different than mine, most are pretty intelligent guys. You have to be pretty smart to be able to smile through an evening, and make the time seem fun, when you find someone unattractive.

 

I wouldn't think a 19yo twink surfer boy is likely to compare and contrast Austrian and Keynsian economics as we linger in bed after a good fuck, but I don't hire that type.

[Guest Viewmaster]

RE: 1st time more than an hour with an escort.

 

>3. Do you really want

>to wait for your second

>date for your first "kiss"???

 

Maybe yes, maybe no. But it won't kill me. I love sex, but at my age it is no great mystery to me, and if I don't have it now, I will later. No big deal. What has been a big deal at times has been trying to figure out how to get it over with quickly and get the guy out the door so I can just rack it up to a bad experience and move on. Hate those times.

[Guest PAPI]

RE: 1st time more than an hour with an escort.

 

I think a 2 hour first appointment is ideal, because you not only will have time for the original interview and acquaintance chat, but also have the time for some good hot sex if you so decide. Also you can terminate the date short if you decide you are incompatible after a mutually agreed upon remuneration. I have always found myself too rushed and/or dissatisfied by the shortness of a 1 hr. appointment in the past.

 

Papi.