Escorts Who Don't Mnd Big Guys.......

[Guest TexasTaurus]

I myself am too large (5'11" - 310 pounds). I am always up front with the escort and tell him how much I weigh and how old I am (53). (None of this bear or cub talk.) The same thing when I get a massage.

 

I have been turned down a couple of times, which was OK, but I gave them the opportunity to do it up front and not have to wait until we are face to face.

 

Honesty means a lot. I expect escorts to be honest, why shouldn't I?

[Traveller]

> I take OFFENSE

>to your posting about what

>happened to me. Yes I

>will admit, my feeling of

>"self-worth" is not as high

>as Mount Olympus", but it

>seems that you have just

>about called me a out

>& out liar. When I

>saw you over a year

>ago, things did not well,

>but that was my fault

>and problem - not yours!

>So why the attack on

>me, and my person?

>

 

 

Norman, I hear your mother calling.

 

Later.

[Guest Zach DC]

Hey PoloJoe. Really sorry when hearing your story. No one should ever be treated like that. There are ways to politely decline and ways to rudely reject someone. However, this more than rude rejection. This was verbal assault. Total belligerence. This man used fighting words and quickly closed the door before you could fight back.

 

I assume this escort is a professional; you found him in an ad. It's hard to imagine any professional in any service industry treating a potential customer like this. Not just because it's bad for immediate and future business, but it's also potentially harmful to his immediate well being. It's absurd that anyone would treat a stranger this way. How did he know you wouldn't put a rock through his window or a rock through his head? You have key information on this man to plan a counter attack. You know who he is, his address and phone number.

 

You were verbally attacked. This man's action requires action from you -- not passivity. I offer two choices. Both are acts of strength. Either forgive your attacker or sensibly fight him. However, now it's more difficult to forgive this man. You've stirred up public hostility towards him. So forgive him privately, or publicly fight back.

 

I wish you strength. It's a difficult choice; to fight or forgive. This escort sounds troubled, and perhaps, deserves our sympathy. But at the same time, he does not sound like someone who truly belongs in this public service. It seems this escort has more than just "size issues," he has some major "people issues." Imagine how he might treat clients who do get in his door or in his bed.

 

You've come to this forum of clients and escorts seeking support. Many here have suggested you write a review. But this is more than just advice they've given. Essentially, these potential clients are asking your support, as well. They want to know -- who is this angry, belligerent man posing as an escort offering companionship?

 

So I admire you if you wish to fight back. Yell at him. Get it out of your system. Write a review declaring you are angry and hurt by his behavior. At the same time, you'd be helping others. You could very well prevent other clients from being treated as badly as you or even worse. (You might even force this escort to learn some much needed people skills.) I wish you strength in reaching your decision.

 

And once again, I'm sorry someone treated you so badly. Act out.

My deepest regards. Zach

[Guest Steve]

I say name the S.O.B.

 

As clients, we owe it to each other to point out who is worth hiring and who isn't. There is no excuse for anyone to make that comment, especially when he is an escort. People who live in glass houses should not throw stones. This prick doesn't deserve a red cent from anyone who comes to this board. Even if he is a favorite of mine, I would never patronize him again and I'd be damn sure to let him know what I think of him for it. If he isn't compassionate enough to treat you with respect, then he doesn't deserve your protection either. I don't care if he apologized or not. Unless he was offering a freebie session, you owe him nothing.

[Will]

I've been following this thread since the day it appeared, and every time I read the new posts I find myself getting angrier than I already was.

 

Because my parents were eager to turn me into a "real" boy, and because I responded by eating, at the age of eleven a doctor put me on a diet of 1,200 calories a day. That is far too little, even for an average adult male, let alone a kid who has just gone into puberty.

 

I lost the weight -- which I would probably have lost anyway, once puberty had really set in. But even though fifty years have passed since then, I have never been able to lose the shame. Being on the diet meant that I had to ride my bike (exercise!) home for a quick lunch every day. This of course reminded every other kid in my class, every day, that I was medically defined as a fatso. They never tired of reminding me.

 

Ten years ago I had a serious clinical depression and lost a lot of weight. I am 5'8" and the day before I went to the hospital I weighed 149 pounds and still considered myself hideously obese. Even though I am now truly portly but not morbidly obese, I THINK of myself as grotesque.

 

A few weeks ago I met JeffOH. He is the perfect gentleman that his contributions here would indicate. I wrote an honest but extremely positive review, which I think should be posted as soon as HooBoy recovers from the virus.

 

With the memory of that experience, as well as others with consummate professionals like Rick Munroe and Gino Mancuso, there is no conceivable reason why the escort in question should be in their company on this board. We absolutely should know his name. Indeed, compassion alone might demand that anyone who has been treated that way would want to assure himself that he would be the last.

 

Telling us the name is the only way. Believe me, if it happened to me, I might rent the moving newsband on Times Square!

[Guest sam]

I know from talking with Jon Ramsey that he does see a number of clients who are very overweight. And, when talking to me about a couple of them he talked with great sensitivity and the kindness that those of us who see Jon regularly become accustomed to. I am confident that you would have a terrific time with Jon, although there is no facial or body hair. He has so many other wonderful attributes, I have a feeling you won't even realize it.

 

I should also add that Jake Gianelli (Big Jake) is another escort who doesn't mind heavy set guys.