Age of men who hire escorts

[Guest wallstreetkindofguy]

I am 34 years old and have hired an escort (from Campus Escorts). I'm wondering if usually only elderly or unattractive men hire escorts. I know I am handsome enough not to have to pay for sex, but I do not go to gay bars, and it is so convenient for me to find the person I want through an escort agency. I don't mind the price, but I guess it's a little embarrassing considering I could get someone to be with me for free if I made the effort. How old are most people who hire escorts?

 

John

[+ Charlie]

Age of Clients

 

Most of the escorts with whom I have spoken about their clients tell me that they have more young/middle aged clients (20's-50's) than elderly men, and they range from the extremely unattractive to gorgeous hunks. Get over the trite ideas that (1)only gnomes have to pay to get what they want, and (2)people who aren't stereoptypically beautiful can't get what they want for free. Lots of goodlooking people are insecure about their looks, or are too inept socially to get the people who will satisfy them, and "unattractive" men (and women) often learn how to get what they want without paying. The fact that you pay for sex says nothing about your desirability except that you can afford the good things.

[Guest dandday]

I think 100% of the men who hire escorts are 1)either busy professional men who do not have the time to go out and search for sex, 2) married men who need the convience and discression an excort can provide 3) men wanting to experience sex with a man for the first time or only occasionally and would not like to be seen in a gay bar or cruisey area, 4) shy men who have a hard time going up and starting a conversation, 5) men who see a hot man and want to have sex with him even if he has to pay. (How many of us have seen guys on the street, bars, on the internet, etc and have not been willing to pay if that was the only or easiest way of sleeping with them?)or 6) men like you.

Having been blessed with a wide assortment of friends, I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT YOU ARE WRONG IF YOU THINK ANY MAN IS TOO OLD OR UGLY TO FIND SEX FOR FREE! There are clubs for every type and men into every type. Young, old, short, fat, skinny, harry, so on and so on.

As for age, I am 45 AND STILL TURN HEADS ANYWHERE I GO. Five years ago I "married" the hottest escort at the time in Portland, and I never paid him a penny. He chased me down, not the other way around.

If you would read the reviews posted you could tell what "types and ages" hire escorts. But seeing how you are so lazy that you are unable to get off your "goodlooking" ass long enough to find sex, why would you put forth the necessay energy to read a review?

Candied ass people with judgements and remarks like yours give all gay people a bad name. The truth may be that with your attitude, THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN GET SOMEONE TO PUT UP WITH YOU LONG ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX IS IF YOU PAY FOR IT. Seeing how lazy you are why dont you just rent you a room at the Wall Street Sauna, lay on you stomach and let them come to you, darlin.....

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE:Dandday for a Drive

 

dandday,

 

After hearing your self description I'm ready to come to the Pacific Northwest and drive you personally to see Matt_In_Vancouver...

 

Oh well, I guess I'll have to file this one under fantasies.

[Guest dandday]

RE:Dandday for a Drive

 

Thanks Tampa,

For some reason that "ex-escort" of mine does not let me out of his sight for very long at a time! Thats why I'm having such a hard time getting to see Matt in Vancouver. If either one of you were in town..., that might present an interesting complication (or at least a good excuse for a financial meeting as he hates those MORE than sex!)

 

Dan

[Guest Midnight Cowboy]

Hi Dan. I think you're being a little hard on wallstreet.../John. Not to put words in his mouth, but his post reminded me of similar thoughts I had when I first hired an escort at the tender age of 27. You have a point that simply reading through the reviews provides a good indication of the wide range of ages and types of men who hire escorts. The first time I hired at escort it was at a hustler bar called Rounds. I went there a handful of times before screwing up the courage to hire one, and on some occassions was mistaken for an escort myself. It was pretty easy to get the impression that most customers were in their 50s and 60s. And I did feel a little awkward.

 

Perhaps what you left off your list is something like men intrigued or excited by the experience of hiring a professional. For me, I think the first time was as much about hanging out in that bar, watching how it all worked, weighing the choices, imagining how one escort would compare to another, etc. - as much as it was about having sex. (BTW, the guy I hired was incredibly mediocre!)

 

Also, even when I was 27, and especially now that I'm 38, 45 would turn my head faster than 25. :-)

 

Michael

[Bilbo]

Dear Michael,

And to think that some guys wonder why a 45 year old daddy can be still popular as an escort. Not as easy to find as youngsters, eh?

[Guest Jayinla]

Hey Michael, as an escort,I think you should not feel embarrased; I am sure that even the finest chef, orders in sometimes.

I have had experiences with clients ranging from 19 on to somewhere in their 50s, perhaps older, i am not sure. Some have been so incredibly hot that you would be amazed, but like i said, It has nothing to do with having to pay for our services, it is about the convenience of it.

Hope you enjoy much deserved fun time with the escorts you hire.

jay

[Guest davos3]

Hello Wall Street:

 

As a fellow who deals with numbers day in and day out, you must indeed have your reasons for inquiring into the "popular" ages of esort's clients.

 

Will it help you in your behaviour in some fashion? Is there a fear that you are too old? To young? Too atrractive? Too clever? Too insecure?

 

You need not make excuses to anyone if you choose the Canneloni instead of the chicken or if you sleep with a guy for free or because of the profits from insider trading.

 

It is time to act on your own and let other folk think what they damn will.

 

Enjoy your luxury without shame!

[Guest dandday]

Michael, if you have read any of my postings you know that I am man enough to admit when I am wrong and will offer an apology, BUT NOT THIS TIME! To be fair I went back and re-read the original posting from "wallstreet/John". It upset me again. I tried to be nice when I wrote my first post, but the more I wrote the more I felt the need to speak my mind. This man plainly insulted everyone who has ever hired an escort by his aragonce (I can't even spell today) and "better than the rest of you" attitude. And how about the name at the bottom? "John" Am I the only one who caught this? This guy probably never even hired an escort, nor could afford to. It hit me as nothing more than some lazy slob who has way too much time on his hands and wanted to see who he could make fun of today. So much for my preaching and all, but I do not sit idly by and not try to correct an injustice.

BTW, I would love to find a hot older daddy type for a couple hours of fun. Know of any in my area?

 

Dan

[Guest regulation]

Age of Men

 

Wall, I don't see anything wrong with your question or with your attitude. I am someone in your age group who has been able to get dates but who has also hired escorts. I hire escorts because I'm a busy man and I find the process of dating extremely time-consuming and draining. Everyone needs sexual activity from time to time, and for those of us who have very demanding jobs that leave little time or energy for other things hiring an escort can be a solution. Everyone (everyone normal, that is) also has emotional needs, and escorts can't really satisfy those.

[Guest armorial]

John,

I do erotic massage, and only escort when I know the client and I will have good chemistry. True you are younger than average age, but it is a relief to read you don't mind paying the price. My client age is 20% ages 30-40, 30% ages 40-50, 30% ages 50-60 and the rest usually 60-70, but as men are living longer, they will be sexually active longer and since a lot of gay men excercise, that keeps them in shape too for good sex. Do not worry about your age please. As long as you are satisfied is all that counts. It is your dollar and repeat business is what keeps bread on my table.

[Guest LITTLEANTNEE]

I'm 34, too. I go to Gaiety on a regular basis to watch the show. Rude comments abound. Why am I there? Where is my lover? No one would think to say this to a 60 year old at Gaiety - It would seem rude. Perhaps this is the cause of your questioning. I say, "Let the dogs bark, your caravan marches on." And I'd be truly dangerous with a bank account to match my appetites. Enjoy!

[Guest armorial]

I am astounded by the rudeness they display. They must be complimenting you since they ask where your lover is or they are hitting on you. True they wouldn't say this to a 60 year old.

[Guest SFJEFF]

who hires escorts

 

I'm 36 and for me, I travel almost 75% of the year. It is convenient for me to have my favorite escorts in NYC, SF, LA, and London when I travel. It makes those boring business trips a little more interesting (that is when I can get away from those boring straight business men late at night).

[Guest red]

RE: a great welcome for new posters!

 

Gee, what a wonderful welcome this board has given to Wallstreetkindofguy! On what I believe to be only his second day of posting, he is savaged for asking a perfectly natural newbie's question. I'm sure he looks forward to posting another query, and getting an equally warm response.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: a great welcome for new posters!

 

LAST EDITED ON Aug-02-00 AT 00:54AM (EST)[p]Red,

 

I think Wallstreetkindofguy has done OK on his first outing if you count up the score. Granted it was a little more spirited than an afternoon tea, but I've seen far worse here.

 

I must admit that I found the original question, as put, to be a little insulting but I assumed it was not intentional. Must be my thin skin, I guess but there were really three types of 'johns', if I may be so crass, identified: the elderly, the ugly, and the 'handsome enough not to have to pay for sex, but ... For those of us who don't identify with the 'handsome enough' crowd, that leaves a pretty unpleasant alternative to identify with. Thus you draw a conclusion about his personality or assume it was unintentional until you get a second reading.

 

Those who think it was unintentional I think would agree that the question could have been better put -- for us sensitive types.

[Guest dandday]

RE: a great welcome for new posters!

 

Tampa,

At least YOU are honest enough to admit that the tone of the remarks made people unconfortable. Horay for your honesty! I too felt the same and if the rest of the "Johns" (how I hate that word), would admit it, they probably cringed at the posting too.

 

I have been in the hospitality business for over twenty years. I have heard every story there is and seen every thing there is to see. To keep from becoming jaded and jumping to conclusions, over the years one developes into almost a detective and looks for clues when you see a red flag. One also must go with their First GUT instinct. The only mistakes I've made in my business have been when I ignored that first gut feeling.

 

This posting raised a red flag to me, my gut feeling was that he was an asshole trying to insult Johns, (that word again!), I re-read it and looked around for clues to support my gut. There they were, the most blantant was that he had just hired an escort from "Campus" and the titles on the two post below were about Campus Escorts. I believe this was posted as a dileberate insult. I stand by my posts.

 

Another question: why has mr "wallstreet/John" not posted his views again?

 

As for Red, the first time I posted a message on Fox News Boards, I was hit by 100 times more than anyone has hit this idiot with, and I still post to that board. Thats part of the chance one takes if ones posts to message boards. People who post usually enjoy different viewpoints and some heated discussions. I had not posted for a while here because there did not seem to be anything worthwhile to discuss.

 

Now I am bored with this discussion.

[Guest Jake]

RE: a great welcome for new posters!

 

>Now I am bored with this

>discussion.

 

 

Well, I'm not. You obviously were insulted by this guy's post. I wasn't. I think there are many miles between words that strike an individual as insulting and the intention of the person saying the words. There are real idiots on this board - just look around. This guy, as naive as he may have been, doesn't strike me as one of them.

[Matt_Vancouver]

RE:Dandday for a Drive

 

HUH? I'm not sure if I'm being attacked here or not? why was my name brought into this? I'm a bit onthe slow side of stoopid today, so if this is meant to be malicious....eat my shorts, if not, well then maybe a trip to Portland is in order: )

oh and as far as eating ones shorts, maybe what's in them is more appetizing: )

matt

 

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest dandday]

RE:Dandday for a Drive

 

Matt, I had complained of the lack of good escorts in Seattle and Portland where I live, on another message board here (why don't escorts go to DC or something like that). I had stated that I planed to come to Vancouver to see you when I had the time as you seemed to be the best near me (plus I think your very hotttttt!) Tampa had stated it was not that far and I should make an attempt to make a standing date and get up there once a week. Something I would love to do, but I was explaining to Tampa that my "ex-escort" did not give me much of an opportunity.

[Guest LITTLEANTNEE]

amorial - You're right, sometimes they are hitting on me. And I know when and how to take a complement. But many times it's just plain hostility. As if I have no right to be there -- or that I should be out prowling the bars as they would be if they could. But the bar scene can be ugly in NYC - it chewed me up and spit me out. I prefer Gaiety. It has an honesty all of its own. I identify with what "wallstreet" had to say. I know from experience how difficult being gay can be (don't we all!!!) and think those here, and whoever else tries to make him feel uncomfortable with his choices, should recognize that fact. A little more tolerence please guys.

[Guest AIM]

What is the problem?

 

People! Get a grip! No wonder the poor guy hasn't responded to all these attacks. He's probably still smarting trying to figure out what has gotten into all these obviusly thin-skinned, insecure, obnoxious queens!

 

I have read his posting 5 times and can't for the life of me understand what was so wrong with what he asked.

 

Obviously there are too many people with an awful lot of time on their hands.

 

And WallstreetJohn, you didn't ask anything wrong. Chalk it up as another lesson as to how the majority of gay men act. Sad, isn't?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: What is the problem?

 

AIM

 

Im confused--

 

> Chalk it up

>as another lesson as to

>how the majority of gay

>men act. Sad, isn't?

>

 

It seemed to me that the majority were supportive of wallstreetkindofguy's message.

[Matt_Vancouver]

RE:Dandday for a Drive

 

Well thank you for clarifying that. I guess I've not been paying as much attention to this board as I used to, been busy, and hey summer is FINALLY here in Vancouver!!

I would love to hook up with you, if you'll still have me, that is after showing how slow I can be: )

the easiest way to get away from the 'other' is to arrange for a hotel. or come here!

why not send me an email, would love to chat more in um... private.

later

matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com