All Nighter Ettiquette

[Guest cleverock]

LAST EDITED ON Jun-25-00 AT 08:22PM (EST)[p]I'd like some tips for my first all nighter with an escort and because the other thread on this topic moved off into other directions, I thought I'd try again.

 

What's the norm for when the appointment starts (time of day)?

 

What's the usual schedule? Is it something like sex---dinner---sex---sleep (sometimes interrupted with groping, cuddling, etc)---wake-up--sex?

 

Should dinner reservations be made or is room service (more flexible) a better alternative. What about liquor--for a one-hour appt this wouldn't be cool, but for an all nighter?

 

Thanks in advance.

[Guest craigrc]

Overnights

 

What time an overnight appointment starts depends on the escort and on you. Starting earlier (8:00 or 9:00 pm) may be more convenient for you, but unless the escort is to leave very early in the morning he may feel that he is giving you more time than his overnight rate should cover. Starting later (10:00 or 11:00) may be more convenient for the escort, but unless you are accustomed to staying up quite late you may have only a short time with him before you begin to feel too tired to enjoy yourself. Some escorts have a specific time that they start and leave in return for their standard overnight rate, but will vary it in your favor in return for an extra payment. It is best to discuss the matter with the escort rather than make assumptions.

 

I won't comment on the dinner issue, since it isn't something I usually do.

 

I think that giving an escort alcohol (or drinking yourself while you are with him) is a foolish thing to do, since alcohol often causes people to forget things that they should remember in such situations.

[Guest Rich]

RE: Overnights

 

Like Craigrc said, it's up to you to set up an agenda for what you want to get out of the evening. For an all nighter I usually like to go out to eat first. I helps to break the the ice between the two of you, especially if it's your first time with the guy. If I'm in a city I'm unfamiliar with I ask my escort to recommend a place to eat.

 

As far as drinking goes, I see nothing wrong with having a drink or two. Usually, a drink will loosen me up if I'm a little nervous. Most of the escorts I've been with either don't drink or have declined to drink while on the job.

 

Whatever you do, make sure you come to an agreement with the escort about what "overnight" means. I've had wonderful guys who stay the entire night and who are quite playful in the morning; and I've had guys who decided they had to leave at 2 or 3 in the morning. There was also the guy who decided he had to be at his office early in the morning, so he had to go to sleep early. I tried to gently massage him as he fell asleep and he rudely suggested that I was going to rub his skin off if I kept rubbing his back. Just make sure the guy knows what you want, and make sure you have an idea of what he is willing to do.

[Guest Nice Guy]

RE: Overnights

 

Well, i have a little expertise in this area as i only DO overnights. And it is a good idea to discuss in advance arrival and departure times. I have usually had pretty good luck. I sometimes do dinner, either in or out, but i tend to start early, none of this 10-11PM stuff. its more like 7 which gives you time for a little "get to know sex" and then food and conversation and then some serious after dinner fun. I always ask if he is a morning person. And if he is not... i stay away, get him coffee and a bagel and OJ. By then he is awake and it's your call if you like to play in the AM.

I can not think of a time when the guy was rude or rushing to get out the door, especially is you have discussed the time frame first. They usually like to have something to eat and chat.

AND of course,, it may just be YOUR charm and wit that keeps them there. So don't underestmate the fact that just maybe they had a great time with you. So don't forget guy they are real people and not just a "trick".... it does wonders and you might just meet a really nice guy!!!