Regulars vs. One-Timers...

[Boston Guy]

Hi all -

 

When responding below to a comment by RO, I mentioned that I prefer to find regular escorts in those cities I visit and hook up with them in preference to constantly seeking new guys. (Sometimes, for the fun of it, I'll look for new experiences as well).

 

For me, the pleasure of seeing someone on a regular basis -- getting to know each other and each other's likes -- is usually greater than the excitement that comes from having yet another new face walk through the door.

 

I suspect I'm not alone in this; but I also suspect many others prefer the opposite tack.

 

So I wondering: if you are a client, which do you prefer -- regulars or new guys each time? And, if you're an escort, which do you prefer in a client?

[Guest REGINA]

When I find someone good I stick with them! There is one in NYC I've been with five times in six months. I was thinking of calling someone else one time but I almost felt like I was cheating! Besides, this guy is such a wonderful kisser, I just can't give him up. However, if I ever make it to CA I'm looking up Rod Hagen and Eric Daven; I've heard and read they're both great lovers and TERRIFIC kissers! YUM YUM

[Guest WetDream]

Interesting question. I'm a combination of ingredients guy, myself. Have been seeing on guy for a period of 2 1/2 years and have a couple of regular escorts (5-8 times per each one). But from time to time, I like to audition new talent.

 

Almost anyone (except a real dud) can be exciting the first time. The really good ones improve from visit to visit.

[Guest leandream1]

LAST EDITED ON Feb-09-00 AT 04:30PM (CST)[p]Great question. Both types are wonderful. And in my experience many of the "visitors" have become "regulars". :-)

 

I encourage clients to shop around, especially if they are new to man on man stuff. Experiment before you settle or you may feel unfulfilled. you might really like the lamb chops at Spagos, but eat them often enough and they'll start to taste like pork chops from Mels Diner.

 

Regina, I am excited to see you next time you make it to LA LA land, and you are going to LOVE Eric Daven, he's a doll.

[Guest brianrj]

Haven't had much experience since most of the time my escort hiring is while I'm out of town - and I haven't been back to the same place twice. Hypothetically, 1/2 of me would definitely not mind a repeat engagement (what fun that could be building on the previous time) - but the other 1/2 is like a kid in a candy store - "I want that, no I want that...". Hmmm, maybe these whoopie dollars (borrowing the term from assmaster I believe) need to be spent on psychological treatment for that obvious split personality. On second thought, I should have double the fun this way?

[Paul Revere]

Good question, Boston Guy.

 

When at home, I like to have a regular or two who I can count on. At home, they come to my house, so I have to know and trust them. That has not been a problem for me, but both of my local favorites have retired or moved in the last year.

 

When traveling to New York or Montreal, I am like the kid in the candy store - I want to sample all of them. The Gaiety lets you at least see and talk to guys first. Then I have to decide between the five or six that I absolutely have to be with. And in Montreal, the private dances allow you to really sample the goods. My problem is that I now have three absolute favorites in Montreal, so when I go, I don't know if I can fit them all in or afford them all. Plus there are still many more at Campus that need to be sampled up close and personal. What a dilemna.

[Guest REGINA]

OH MY GOD! A response from Rod himself! Someone just walked by my office and asked why my cheeks were so red! Leandream, I'm pucking up as I type this! As Ricky and Lucy and Fred and Ethal sang, "California here I come, right back where...":*

[Guest leandream1]

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[Guest Ted]

I too enjoy seeing someone on a regular basis, saves the hassle of shopping around and some unpleasant surprises. I'm pretty shy until I know someone, so I find I get more adventurous as our meetings progress. I have an old regular in NYC and new one in LA/SoCal; previous one retired from the business although we still see each other for dinner occasionally. And it is fun to comparison shop. This site has been a big help in that respect Leandream was next on my list to replace LA guy, may still give him a try

[Guest leandream1]

Ted, kick my tires, take me for a spin. your station wagon will still be there when we get back! Just kidding :-)

[Guest Jake]

One from column A, one from column B and a couple from column C. God, I love diversity! And have gone a little wild at times, wanting everyone I see. But, then again, there is nothing like the comfort and familiarity of a steady guy, learning the "ins" and "outs" of our secret desires, often unknown even to ourselves. I've learned so much about myself from a particular escort. He has made me a kinder, nicer and happier person. From what I learned about myself with him, I have been able to make non-escort relationships better also. So, while I love the candy, give me the salmon steak too.

[Guest jeejer]

I'd be interested to hear who your favorites are in Montreal. I hope to be going there this summer.

[Guest torjon]

Regulars versus Onetimers

 

As a late 50s bi-guy who just entered the world of

the escort last Summer,my first instinct was to do

some sampling. I was so new at this that I was

just happy to BE with a man, and frankly wasn't

much of a challenge to them. That all changed

when I met an escort who recognized that I WAS shy,and led me into the real pleasures of being

with a man. This guy I consider my first, and I am

more than content to stick with him.It's a natural

high for a week before I know I'll be seeing him,

and a natural glow for a week after. Mike is

perfection, as far as I'm concerned, and makes me

a happy man. As well as just great sex, it seems

we are friends when we're together. It's a great

arrangement, and I'm thrilled to be a regular.

 

The one potential problem is that I and a couple

other guys gave him a rave review here awhile ago

and his business has increased so much that it

gets harder and harder to book the times one would

prefer. Eventually, I suspect this area will lose him, but until we do I'll be returning every chance I get.

[Guest Monopolizer]

Regina,

 

You have to see Rod. He is so totally awesome, I want to cry, because I cannot afford an all-nighter. He kisses so fantastically that I sometimes dream about him... Also, he is very nice about recommending other escorts. He rocked my world for two hours and I will never forget it.

[Guest REGINA]

Rod-I've just read my e-mail and saw a HUGE typo; I wasn't puking, I was PUCKERING, as in puckering up for a big smooch! All I can say is I just got so excited in reading your e-mail to me I lost track of my home row keys! If I read that someone was puking in anticipation of meeting me I would certainly think the worst of them. Sorry if it came out like that. You really sound like a total stud muffin...yum!

[Guest REGINA]

I swear, this man just gets better and better! I hope you wrote a review so all of us on the east coast can live vicariously through your experience. Mr. Monopolozer, we need to get on the ball for next year's "Escort of the Year". Maybe if you start a Christmas club account now, you can treat yourself with an all nighter in December; if you give up snacks and porno you might be able to afford a whole week! :o

[Guest Monopolizer]

LAST EDITED ON Feb-10-00 AT 06:28PM (CST)[p]LAST EDITED ON Feb-10-00 AT 05:35 PM (CST)

 

I did write a review, the biggest one under his name... I need an escort as good as Rod who is a bottom, though... I have to have it all! If anyone has any recommendations...

 

Either a christmas club, or, how about a web ipo that grows by 1000%?

 

Hooboy? Have you contacted the boys over at Goldman Sachs? You could be next...

[Guest REGINA]

Being a bottom, and having received many compliments, if I were in CA I would most certainly offer my services but...I was going to suggest Chad Connors because he has a hot little body, but if you have to ask a bottom to wash up, THREE TIMES IN ONE SESSION, well, unless your name is scat@aol.com, forget it. How about Dean Coulter? He looks gorgeous, his reviews have been great, and he's supposed to be a terrific kisser (very important to me). I received a mailer that had a picture of him with someone's face buried in his ass. It looked hot; that could be you!

[+ Charlie]

Maybe it's just my personal psychology, but if I see someone more than a couple of times, it begins to seem like an emotional relationship, which doesn't seem appropriate in a commercial transaction. I know, I know--marriage is often the ultimate commercial relationship, but I'm probably a romantic deep down. The only escort I ever saw more than three times was someone who was pretty cold and distant emotionally, who happened to be very convenient and excellent sex in a mechanical sense. Unless an escort (or any casual sex partner) has some specialty that is hard to find elsewhere, I prefer to try something new the next time.

[Michael]

This has definitely changed for me over time.

 

10 years ago I was mainly looking for variety - I wanted something new and different every time, and I rarely saw an escort more than once or twice.

 

Today I'm still interested in things that are "new and different", but after 10 years or so of hiring escorts I have covered quite a lot of ground and there aren't many things left that I really want to do that I haven't done already ... so, for the last couple of years I have tended to stick to just a few escorts that I know really well.

 

(The one exception to this is my trips to Amsterdam where I will probably get through at least 6 boys in a long weekend - most of whom I probably haven't seen before)

[Guest Davos3]

Davos3

 

 

If you are forunate in Life to find the good things, then you should rejoice and enjoy them fully!

 

After many years of meeting many men here in New York, I found that out of all the crowd, certain people were special to me, and I continued to pursue them.

 

For almost three years I have seen the same two guys exclusively. It is more special to me and I have been able to enjoy other aspects of their frienship other than the obvious physical attractions. These guys genuinely enjoy giving me pleasue and sharing their love of sex with me as a fervent admirer of them.

 

Whne I am out of town, I truly enjoy the surprises that can happen only when you ae not at home and those second before the doors opens allows for the greatest of fears and pleasures!

 

I think that if you find someone you like, then you should enjoy that special relationship with that person with the greatest of pleasure (on both parts)!

[Guest pj]

How is Amsterdam? i'm going there next summer. What are some hot-spots? what were your guys like? just curious. Thanks.