Escort with a crush?

[+ purplekow]

It is fairly common for a client to fall into crush with an escort but I wonder how often it happens the other way. I know we frequently refer to escorts as muscle gods or sex gods but they have human foibles and weaknesses too. So, have any of the escorts reading here fallen in crush or lust or pray tell love with a client and how did you handle it?

 

In a similiar vein, has any escort ever had sex with a client that was so good that he would consider paying the client if the client became an escort?

[Guest countryboywny]

I think you hit a nerve here, purplekow

 

I've been monitoring this post and I'm not surprised that there are no responses. My guess is that this subject is taboo in the "biz" because no escort would want a client to know that he is emotionally "vulnerable" to some of his clients. I think intimacy brings a connection on some level, stronger for some than others. If clients hired escorts because they're looking for "real love" or escorts let themselves become emotionally involved it would open the door for all kinds of shit. Could you imagine the jealousy issues alone? When I hire an escort, I'm looking for a session of intimacy, a connection and great sex. When the session is over, I hope to part each other's company as friends, not lovers. Alot of the escorts that I have hired email me occasionally just to keep contact, not because we're lovers, just friends!

[Guest novabear22031]

Glad to hear that I am not the only one that sometimes ends up finding some form of friendship with a companion.

[+ purplekow]

Was a bit disappointed not to get any response but not surprised.

I have also developed some type of ongoing relationship with escorts after I stopped availing myself of their services. In fact, I still get the three times a month phone call from the first escort I ever hired.

I was also privledged to be asked to speak at the funeral of a man I met as an escort but came to think of as a friend. Though I thought this a gracious offer by his mother, I decline but I do speak to her now and again some three years later. RIP John

[Vincent_Michael]

I have fallen for two clients...One was about 10yr older than me and happend to know my mother out of all things!!! But I knew the min I met him I would be in troubble. We became freinds and nothing came of it because he wanted more than I could give at the time. (We have seince lost touch)

 

I fell for anouther client who is 65 and in my openion very handsom...His Life was more complicated than I could even think about getting involved in but we do remain the closest freinds and share our thoughts and frustrations on life.

 

Thouse are two situations that happend to me however they were not recent. So I hope this helps.

[Vincent_Michael]

Though I have fallen for two clients in the past I must admit that I prefer someone who is not looking for anything serious and hopfully we can become the best of freinds in the end. As for jellosy I hope any partner I have would be beyond that silly behavor.