TO THE ESCORTS!

[Jason Renyolds]

I am sure you saw that I asked the clients about what makes a good escort. Well, here is your chance to give the ideas back to them.

I want to make another page on my website about "What Makes A Good Client".

 

Please be nice and considerate to others here and let me know your thoughts.

 

If you do not wish to post here in the main room, feel free to e-mail me directly.

[Charlus]

OK, no one going to reply to this? As a client, I would find the responses very interesting. Come on, working guys.

[raulgmanzo]

Honest and horny.

[Jason Renyolds]

How in depth.

[+ Ace]

Hey Guys;

A few things right off the top of my head....

Please bathe (unless a "raunch" scenario was what was discussed prior to our meeting), have the money out in plain sight...(makes for a more relaxed experience...ESPECIALLY for a first time meeting!), no talk WHATSOEVER of money..., treat the escort as YOU want to be treated,...we are NOT machines....(or mind readers for that matter)...It helps to have as much information as possible as to what you 're looking for the experience to be...my biggest regret would be walking out the door & having you unsatisfied in some way...

Hope that helps a bit!

 

Ace

http://www.rentboy.com/ACEROCKSTARFANT

http://www.daddysreviews.com/review.php?who=ace_vegas

http://www.maleescortreview.com/index.php?file=escort_review_view&escort_id=106100760

http://www.escort.sexcia.com/escorts/post_20965.html

[Charlus]

Thanks, Ace. When you say you want the money in plain sight, do you mean you want to see the cash on the table? My practice has been to put the money in an envelop with the escort's name on it in plain sight on a table.

[Guest O solo mio]

>How in depth.

 

Very nice, Jason. You want other people to write the text for your website, and then when Raul contributes, you mock his post. How funny that you began this thread by saying "Please be nice and considerate to others here" and then you proceed to ridicule Raul's post. Why don't you just use your brain and write your own website on your own if you don't like the help you receive here?

[Jason Renyolds]

Thanks Guys.

 

I don't know if having the money in plain sight is the best. At least in my experience, it makes for a more business minded experience.

 

Of course, depending on the type of hire. If it is only for an hour or so, a short session then that is ok. BUt to me, it is just a little awkward to have the money laying somewhere for an entire weekend.

 

I look at it as a type of security for both parties.

 

The escort will not want to leave without getting paid, and the client wants to pay so they get what they want.

 

Ace, again, thank you so much.

 

I know it is, or could be rough replying to this post and I THANK YOU for doing so.

 

 

Honesty, as mentioned earlier is yes the utmost important from not just the client.

 

I think it is about the person to person connection you get. If it is purely sexual then being horny would play a huge part in it, but ya know.

 

 

Thanks again guys for your help.

[SAdler]

I know we addressed in the other thread that this topic has been discussed. Here's just a starting off point if it helps since there were a lot of good answers in here before the attacks started .

 

http://m4m.m4m-forum.org/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=5&topic_id=11318&mesg_id=11318&listing_type=search

[+ newatthis]

>Honest and horny.

 

Short, succinct, and right on the money!

[Rick Munroe]

>Honest and horny.

 

I'd add good hygiene and tooth-free blow jobs. :o

[raulgmanzo]

As to qualities that make a good client I said:

>>Honest and horny.

And Rick added:

>I'd add good hygiene and tooth-free blow jobs.

 

Well if hygiene is lacking I suggest we both take a shower, anyway I really like water. As for the teeth, are we allowed to ask the client to remove them? All this time I just figured the scratches and nicks were part of the job, at least until I got the tough calluses that you veterans surely have developed!

 

But if we are going to start getting demanding I'll add kind and witty to honest and horny.

My client requirements are simple. Some of my favorite clients do everything right, communicate clearly, leaving no doubt that they are serious; paying me after we're done, being clean, honest, healthy, witty, and wise.

 

Other clients did almost everything "wrong" and somehow we got over our respective nervousness or miscommunications and managed to have a fun time. And a couple actually just didn't work out, hopefully I've learned something. And hopefully I'll get a chance to make it up to the client, or vice versa.

 

So I don't sweat the details and try not to badger the client/potential client with lots of rules

 

Raul

[Rick Munroe]

>As for the teeth, are we allowed

>to ask the client to remove them?

 

Yes, that was covered in the handbook...Chapter Three, "Denture Removal Request: It's Your Right!"

 

>All this time I just figured

>the scratches and nicks were part of the job

 

Seriously, the way to avoid getting nicked and scratched is to verbalize how you want to get sucked (or any other activity) and not just suffer through the pain or discomfort. I think most guys appreciate some instruction or guidance in that area...if they're sucking you, they want you to actually feel good, not just pretend you're not in pain. As has been said here many times, communication is the key.

[AdamSmith]

>most guys appreciate some instruction or guidance in that

>area...if they're sucking you, they want you to actually feel

>good, not just pretend you're not in pain. As has been said

>here many times, communication is the key.

 

Absolutely. Beyond that, it's a turn-on if I know I'm doing something my partner enjoys. The other night I was sucking an escort, changed technique with the tongue a little bit, and suddenly heard, "Wow, that's it!" Much better than fumbling around blindly, wondering.

[Jason Renyolds]

I have to agree Raul.

 

Badgering any client is not the way to get started, in my opinion.

 

After all, the meeting is all about them. On that same note, this post was more easily answered then most would think.

 

It is not as in depth as my other post is about what makes a good escort.

 

This is like asking what makes a good rodeo bull.

1.)ATTITUDE

2.)SIZE/STRENGTH

 

AND

 

3.)STAMINA

 

As far as a client is concerned.

 

I feel the only, "rules" needed are

 

RESPECT

TRUSTWORTHYNESS

RELIABILITY

AND OF COURSE

BEING ABLE TO KEEP UP THE FINANCIAL SIDE OF THE ARRANGEMENTS.

 

With me, there are a lot of details come should all come together to make an outstanding and memorable experience.

 

 

Thanks again guys for sharing your thoughts.

[Guest novabear22031]

I have done only two hires. The first was a four night cruise, we agreed to the "fee" being paid once we onboard the ship and in the cabin. The second never mentioned the "exact" timing of of the "fee". So I had an envelope ready with the "fee" ready at any point.

 

It was on my way to take a shower, that I left the envelope on a table (where we left our clothes). It was only after my shower, and we were saying our good-byes that he asked (he had missed my placement of the envelope) - to his credit he blushed a bit.

 

Since it was it was in the later companions room I met in - I was less worried about leaving things in the open. It was he that was taking the risk as I realize now. But then again with both we spent much time (weeks) in getting to know each other. So both sides had ample time to discuss the financial side of things.

 

For that reason I like companions that are willing to take the time to chat. Just so that we both are feeling comfortable with each other. Case in point, there is a companion that Is very vocal here in the MC, that I will try to move heaven and earth to meet up with - solely based on our YIM chats... he would be just my third....

 

The first two were great. and I only hope for great things on my third....

[Jason Renyolds]

Well, I certainly hope that works out for you. Wish you the best.

 

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

 

[Rick Munroe]

>Beyond that, it's a turn-on if I know I'm doing

>something my partner enjoys.

 

Exactly; that's one of the reasons I got into this line of work play. It really turns me on to know that I'm turning the other guy on! :9

[Rick Munroe]

>Badgering any client is not the way to get started

 

Unless, of course, the client has requested the "Badgering Roleplay" scene. In that case, you'd be doing a bad job if you didn't badger him!

 

>This is like asking what makes a good rodeo bull.

 

I think the best rodeo bull is one who enjoys cruelty and torture for the purpose of "entertainment." http://www.peta.org/factsheet/files/FactsheetDisplay.asp?ID=69

[+ purplekow]

>

>I think the best rodeo bull is one who enjoys cruelty and

>torture for the purpose of "entertainment."

 

I guess that I, like many of the posters here, would be great rodeo bull, considering how entertaining cruelty and torture can be. Of course, I leave animals out of it.

 

 

I have never seen a purplekow;

I never hope to see one;

I can tell you anyhow;

I'd rather see than be one

 

Help there is a purplekow in my mirror

[AdamSmith]

>Unless, of course, the client has requested the "Badgering

>Roleplay" scene.

 

To be kept, in this community, strictly distinct from the "Beavering Roleplay" scene. :o

 

...those stoats again!

[Guest PWIT]

or maybe you could take the corncob out of your ass.

[Guest O solo mio]

>or maybe you could take the corncob out of your ass.

 

Ah, that must be that "niceness and civility" we keep hearing about.

[mark]

The guys who are my favorites are the ones who:

1. Advertise with good pics (including face).

2. Answer their phone promptly or call back quickly.

3. Can do in-calls at their place.

 

My peeves about some escorts:

1. Ad doesn't give defining pictures.

2. Client (me) has to jump thru hoops to get in touch.

3. Doesn't respond at all...why advertise, then not be available?

4. The escort wants a pic of ME!?? (Clients don't send pics).

 

I have never been able to understand why, in a city like Dallas or Washington,DC, there will be around 100 M4RN ads (maybe 60 active ads)and I'm only able to reach one or two without some extreme effort and 'wait time.' Why advertise if they're not going to be responsive? The e-mail only ads are also an irritant, because usually while travelling, I'm only able to check emails a couple of times a day til I get back to the privacy of my hotel room...

 

But, all that said, I've had a very good, enjoyable "run" with a bunch of hottie boy-toys.

[Guest novabear22031]

>4. The escort wants a pic of ME!?? (Clients don't send pics).

>

 

I never have had an escort request pics of me. Though if they have a web site that has their pictures on it, I do send them some of me in the second or third email. If there is a "trust" that is there that we are on the same "page'. Why waste time or have a "bad' experience if the clients looks don't mesh well with the escort?

 

Just look at this thread: http://m4m.m4m-forum.org/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=7&topic_id=69506&mesg_id=69506&page=

 

There are those of us that want escorts to feel comfortable with us, as we are with them. We are looking for more than just a tumble in the hay perhaps.

 

>I have never been able to understand why, in a city like

>Dallas or Washington,DC, there will be around 100 M4RN ads

>(maybe 60 active ads)and I'm only able to reach one or two

>without some extreme effort and 'wait time.' Why advertise if

>they're not going to be responsive? The e-mail only ads are

>also an irritant, because usually while travelling, I'm only

>able to check emails a couple of times a day til I get back to

>the privacy of my hotel room...

 

Never understood why so many don't reply back to emails (my preferred method). And even if I do call, I get a voice mail with no call back...