PDXguy Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 https://app.rent.men/andrewtattum Met up with this guy in San Diego today. VERY hot and nice guy but agreed to meet for a certain price and services and then after a 10 minute massage was told anything else is extra and that he doesn't even do (ever) some of the things he said he would because he is "straight"; basically he will only be serviced. Of course he collects the initial part up front so you are pretty much in the middle of the session and it's either pay more or leave. He kindly takes CashApp or Venmo for your convenience for the additional funds. I would definitely stay away unless you re fine with a 15 min massage. Very bummed about this whole experience and has me questioning if I will ever meet up with someone off RM again Danny-Darko and CaliMuscle 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazarus Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 Did you see him without a cap? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PDXguy Posted March 29, 2023 Author Share Posted March 29, 2023 3 minutes ago, Lazarus said: Did you see him without a cap? Nope. Saw a pic of him online without it; he’s bald, smart to leave it on tbh. Danny-Darko 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaxRock Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 So sorry for your experience 😠 Danny-Darko 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 1 hour ago, PDXguy said: agreed to meet for a certain price and services and then after a 10 minute massage was told anything else is extra and that he doesn't even do (ever) some of the things he said he would because he is "straight" That’s really messed up. I’m sorry he took advantage of you. It’s commonplace the whole bait-and-switch, then try to extort you in person routine. Many don’t give a massage for the whole time, say 10, 15, 30 mins tops, much less a quality massage. Or even a massage at all! Thank you for reporting him here. He won’t last long if he’s treating people this way. For every one of you, there are probably a handful of others who give in to the extortion tactics, sadly. Otherwise there wouldn’t be a motive or market for this kind of provider behavior. Eventually it will catch up to him, it always does. He’s not a masseur. From his RM profile: “Fitness Model & Content Creator” Be wary of ads like this. They are MODELS, not masseurs. That’s the service, not massage. You’re paying to be in close proximity to someone pretty and/or an influencer somewhat “famous” (not really). He’s similar to a stripper in that sense, except these guys don’t dance or even create a fun atmosphere. He’s used to being put on a pedestal online for his content creation which he curates no doubt together with other hotties. It’s a narcissistic echo chamber. Nothing wrong with creating content and getting paid for it. But there’s a great deal wrong with marketing yourself as a masseur and offering nothing resembling that service, and extortion for promised but not provided services to boot. Seems a stretch to say he doesn’t do xyz. His profile has hole flexing videos for crying out loud! Apparently everything is on offer, but probably only for outrageous prices, I’m sure. Any idea what he was charging for typical escort services? If you’re in San Diego again, come see me. I will give you a high quality massage, be upfront about everything, and follow through on it. No games, no guesswork, no pressured upselling nonsense. FYI I’m moving back there in a few months, in August 2023. + Pensant, Pd1_jap and SoFlGuy 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pd1_jap Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 (edited) This happened to me years ago as well. It bears repeating, never pay upfront. Edited March 29, 2023 by Pd1_jap + ButchAtl and + glutes 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 As an experienced hobbyist, I can “usually” spot the flakes from their ads. This one fits that intuitively. Of course, he’s totally not my type, so I’d never engage anyway. Sorry for your experience. What a turn-off. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 14 hours ago, PDXguy said: https://app.rent.men/andrewtattum Met up with this guy in San Diego today. VERY hot and nice guy but agreed to meet for a certain price and services and then after a 10 minute massage was told anything else is extra and that he doesn't even do (ever) some of the things he said he would because he is "straight"; basically he will only be serviced. Of course he collects the initial part up front so you are pretty much in the middle of the session and it's either pay more or leave. He kindly takes CashApp or Venmo for your convenience for the additional funds. I would definitely stay away unless you re fine with a 15 min massage. Very bummed about this whole experience and has me questioning if I will ever meet up with someone off RM again I hope that you will write a review and post it on rentmen, if you are a rentmen "(premium member)". Deceptive advertisements, like this guy has, should be disclosed via a review and posted to the providers' advertisement regardless if the client is paying rentmen a fee to have a so-called premium acccount. By requiring clients to pay a fee to post a review (most rentmen clients are not paying users), rentmen actually contributes to these scam-type advertisements. Clients are receiving a major disservice from rentmen because of rentmen's restriction of not allowing provider reviews except from paying rentmen clients. Simon Suraci 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PDXguy Posted March 29, 2023 Author Share Posted March 29, 2023 31 minutes ago, coriolis888 said: I hope that you will write a review and post it on rentmen, if you are a rentmen "(premium member)". Deceptive advertisements, like this guy has, should be disclosed via a review and posted to the providers' advertisement regardless if the client is paying rentmen a fee to have a so-called premium acccount. By requiring clients to pay a fee to post a review (most rentmen clients are not paying users), rentmen actually contributes to these scam-type advertisements. Clients are receiving a major disservice from rentmen because of rentmen's restriction of not allowing provider reviews except from paying rentmen clients. I know I should post a review; just not that comfortable having my personal and billing information on a site like that :(. Would def be worth the $19.95 though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted March 29, 2023 Share Posted March 29, 2023 1 hour ago, PDXguy said: :(. Would def be worth the $19.95 though! That monthly amount equals almost $240.00 a year from clients who hire providers advertising on rentmen. Without the above mentioned payment to rentmen, a client review is rejected by rentmen and not posted. Shame on rentmen. Their new policy encourages providers to not perform as advertised on their rentmen ad. Too bad the U.S. has so many bizarre laws that encourage rentmen to take advantage of both providers and clients. Pd1_jap 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Snbrd Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 There's another post on this but it is frustrating. I posted some reviews for the benefit of other potential clients. I think it enhanced Rentmen's value. I was willing to spend $10 a month but not $20. It reminds of that graph in Economics 101 at which consumers will change behavior. As a result I dropped premium. + azdr0710, coriolis888, CaliMuscle and 2 others 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DBWEHO Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 On 3/28/2023 at 6:57 PM, PDXguy said: https://app.rent.men/andrewtattum Met up with this guy in San Diego today. VERY hot and nice guy but agreed to meet for a certain price and services and then after a 10 minute massage was told anything else is extra and that he doesn't even do (ever) some of the things he said he would because he is "straight"; basically he will only be serviced. Of course he collects the initial part up front so you are pretty much in the middle of the session and it's either pay more or leave. He kindly takes CashApp or Venmo for your convenience for the additional funds. I would definitely stay away unless you re fine with a 15 min massage. Very bummed about this whole experience and has me questioning if I will ever meet up with someone off RM again Thank you! I'm in LA and had my eye on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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