Doe Be Doe Posted March 17, 2023 Share Posted March 17, 2023 I've met this really nice guy that I like. He's smart and fun to be with. However, his deepest desire is to be objectified, humiliated, and to experience bondage and pain. I'm interested in doing all of this but I've never done it before. Is there a beginner's guide on how to do all this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeThomas Posted March 18, 2023 Share Posted March 18, 2023 Maybe you guys should hire a BDSM top to show you different approaches. Could be fun. liubit and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas_Belgium Posted March 18, 2023 Share Posted March 18, 2023 6 hours ago, MikeThomas said: Maybe you guys should hire a BDSM top to show you different approaches. Could be fun. Indeed, very good idea, I would certainly try this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doe Be Doe Posted March 18, 2023 Author Share Posted March 18, 2023 Good idea . Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted March 18, 2023 Share Posted March 18, 2023 (edited) There's a book "BDSM 101" which is the beginners guide to BDSM ...but reading a book isn't going to give you the experience you need for optimum psychological satisfaction. I would suggest you attend a open play night at a dungeon and see the various techniques first-hand. I agree with the above comments. Hiring an experienced DOM ( or even dominatrix) can give you pointers about the scene Edited March 19, 2023 by pubic_assistance Bargara Leatherboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas_Belgium Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 21 hours ago, Doe Be Doe said: Good idea . Thanks! If you had a session, could you keep us posted how it went please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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