newdad Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 (edited) In this day and age (USA specifically), would you recommend those who are hiring a sensual/erotic masseur for the first-time to tell their sensual/erotic masseurs that it'd be their first time? Why or why not? (Couldn't fit the entire sentence in the title.) EDIT: words Edited February 10, 2023 by newdad Dr.Daddy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 Telling “first time” is a must if referring to sexual activity with another man. Disclosing first hire, what’s the downside? newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
questbear Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 44 minutes ago, newdad said: In this day and age (USA specifically), would you recommend first-timers to tell their masseurs hired from MF or RM that it'd be their first time? Why or why not? (Couldn't fit the entire sentence in the title.) I was brand new a couple of years ago. I can't remember if I told my first masseur it was my first time, but I did tell the second one I went to that I was new to all of this. - The first massage was purely therapeutic, so I don't think it mattered as much. The second was sensual. I think it's all up to your comfort. If it helps you to talk through with the masseur, then absolutely. They can help put you at ease. If you like to keep things private, then don't. One thing to remember is that none of this is one-size-fits-all. + robear, newdad and Marc in Calif 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterhumphries Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, newdad said: In this day and age (USA specifically), would you recommend those who are hiring a sensual/erotic masseur for the first-time to tell their sensual/erotic masseurs that it'd be their first time? Why or why not? (Couldn't fit the entire sentence in the title.) EDIT: words Yes, I see no harm in telling a sensual/erotic masseur that it's your first time. To me, it puts the masseur on alert to know how to approach your session. Massage is all about communication, verbal and non-verbal. If it's a "masseur" I'd ask if mutual touch is allowed, if there will be a "happy ending," etc. From a business standpoint, if a masseur satisfies a client, said client may become a return client and provide goodwill through referrals from clients -- just what happens on these forums. Word of mouth is the best advertising. Edited February 10, 2023 by misterhumphries newdad and + glennnnn 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackNYC Posted February 11, 2023 Share Posted February 11, 2023 At this point, I recommend you either shit or get off the pot. Stop with the spammy questions that are all essentially the same. EastbayMike, Marc in Calif, lanyc and 6 others 4 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanyc Posted February 11, 2023 Share Posted February 11, 2023 10 minutes ago, JackNYC said: At this point, I recommend you either shit or get off the pot. Stop with the spammy questions that are all essentially the same. It's like he's gathering stories for a book or something... Dr.Daddy, JackNYC, Ali Gator and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mkm556 Posted February 11, 2023 Share Posted February 11, 2023 I’d be more inclined to respond to @newdad ‘s multiple postings if he would simply come clean about why he continues to post such questions. Where’s the transparency? Definitely seems as if he’s compiling responses for a blog, article, paper or book of some kind. JackNYC, Dr.Daddy, Ali Gator and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allyouknow Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 22 hours ago, mkm556 said: I’d be more inclined to respond to @newdad ‘s multiple postings if he would simply come clean about why he continues to post such questions. Where’s the transparency? Definitely seems as if he’s compiling responses for a blog, article, paper or book of some kind. exactly it is very creepy and uncomfortable. next post will be "what is your password any suggestions?" mkm556, + Vegas777, JackNYC and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanyc Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 Ugh. I DM'ed him my mother's maiden name... Marc in Calif, JackNYC, Bluefin and 3 others 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted February 12, 2023 Share Posted February 12, 2023 What I find really suspicious is that he rarely comments again after he starts his many threads. He doesn't even seem to thank responders or even acknowledge their posts. 😲 Dr.Daddy, allyouknow, Bluefin and 4 others 3 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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