Do you enjoy being endowed?

[arnemgreeves]

I’m not an escort but am above average myself. It’s a thrill when people compliment even though I’m not typically a big headed person. 
obviously you’d see many guys in your line of work and probably outside of work but how does being hung affect you? Do you give a shit or does it boost you?

[+ FrankR]

Yes. Once upon a time when I was a provider it mattered a great deal to some of my lovers.

Edited January 24, 2023 by FrankR

[misterhumphries]

I've met two men with truly HUMONGOUS dicks who admitted, a little sadly, that they had to become bottoms because they could find few men who could take their dicks or even try. Sometimes too much of a good thing is really too much.

[+ FrankR]

1 hour ago, misterhumphries said:

I've met two men with truly HUMONGOUS dicks who admitted, a little sadly, that they had to become bottoms because they could find few men who could take their dicks or even try. Sometimes too much of a good thing is really too much.

Side note: Would you kindly introduce me? I can assist them with their rehabilitation!! 😆😆

[big-n-tall]

Yes and no.

Maybe because of my physical size I don't think I'm well endowed, comparatively. I'm not saying I'm massive but I've gotten responses of excitement and trepidation. I actually have had people tell me after sex that they couldn't take me and didn't want to have sex again. I am not even an aggressive pounder... unless asked.

I have had providers be honest enough to tell me why they didn't want to see me again or were reluctant to. Thank goodness it's only been a small number that refuse to see me again, but it's always because of my penis size.

In fact the provider I see the most told me that after we first met, he gave serious consideration to dropping me. He said after sex with me, his ass was wrecked and he couldn't have anal penetration for the rest of the day. So after our sessions, he had to turn down clients if they wanted anal. I was losing him money. It also didn't help I was younger than most of his regular clients. He likes older guys. Thankful he said my personality and the fun we had won him over. He also said he began to enjoy my size. We decided to switch tactics. Meaning I would see him late at night and not cause any hindrance for other clients.

Like I said it isn't all negative. I love when I drop my pants and someone eyes sparkle and they tell me, "Oh we're going to have a lot of fun." 

So if I meet someone who is excited; loves what I have to offer; and wants to see me again... Yay!!! However, when I'm told "I" can't take you and I am ghosted, it can actually be a bit disheartening.

Edited January 29, 2023 by big-n-tall

[Storm4U]

I love having a big dick. I love that others love that I have a big dick.

Edited January 30, 2023 by Storm4U

[jeezifonly]

A good friend long ago who had a beercan told me that what turned him on most was the thrill of the first reveal. He said he did a lot of under-fabric teasing, and always made sure there was at least some light to see it with, and when he’d allow it to finally flop out over his Calvin’s, he felt like a star. And once there’s familiarity with its…terrain, the partner’s failed attempts to accommodate it (especially BJ’s he said) for him could never match the first thrilling reaction. He preferred bathhouse and anonymous couplings for that reason. Always a star. Was actually bi and was never a bottom, he married a well-off woman and had a kid. Possibly, childbirth was easier on her.

He was very into men - who knows, maybe he’s a favorite client for somebody here… 🤩

[misterhumphries]

On 1/29/2023 at 7:35 AM, big-n-tall said:

Yes and no.

Maybe because of my physical size I don't think I'm well endowed, comparatively. I'm not saying I'm massive but I've gotten responses of excitement and trepidation. I actually have had people tell me after sex that they couldn't take me and didn't want to have sex again. I am not even an aggressive pounder... unless asked.

I have had providers be honest enough to tell me why they didn't want to see me again or were reluctant to. Thank goodness it's only been a small number that refuse to see me again, but it's always because of my penis size.

In fact the provider I see the most told me that after we first met, he gave serious consideration to dropping me. He said after sex with me, his ass was wrecked and he couldn't have anal penetration for the rest of the day....

My imagination is running wild!  Yow! Wrecked, huh?

[big-n-tall]

14 minutes ago, misterhumphries said:

My imagination is running wild!  Yow! Wrecked, huh?

Those were their words not mine. Of course, it wasn't my intention to wreck anything.

The first provider who ever told me I wrecked their ass... I hired through the defunct site planetjockboys.

I had a great time. I thought he did too. I guess he didn't. Or to be more exact, he didn't have as good a time as I did. After he left that site and struck out on his own, i contacted him a number of times. He kind of danced around meeting up. I even offered to cover all his travel expenses if he came to visit. He never told me no, but he never committed. So I kind of gave up trying to see him.

Years later, he came back to my area and finally committed to seeing me again. Before we began we talked a bit and caught up. This is where he admitted to me I "wrecked" his ass and it took him a while to recover. I think he switched from being a versatile/bottom to a top in his ad. I have no idea if that was because of me. (He's currently listed as versatile.) Anyway, he said he avoided meeting with me again because i caused him a lot of pain. I promised I'd go as slow as he wanted; use a lot lube; and let him direct the session how he wanted. He still had a hard time, in the beginning anyway. Eventually, he found his groove and we found a position that worked for him. He seemed to like it then. i haven't seen him again since.

So to this day, I'm very very conscious of things, especially if a guy seems or does things to make it seem as if they are uncomfortable. I'll check in with them to be sure. I'll adjust accordingly.

With that said, the last guy I hired (for a weekend last month) I started off slow during sexy time and he wanted me to go as hard as I could. I made certain he was sure. He said i was hitting spots he wasn't used to getting hit. Pretty much we climaxed together every romp we had. I called him my unicorn. It's very rare for me to climax at the same time as my partner. Well on the last day, he told me I made him bleed a little. I apologized. He said no worries because he asked me to go harder and it was feeling amazing. I jokingly told him then it's his fault. He laughed. Unlike the planetjockboy guy, he's eager to see me again. We're looking at a weekend in April. 

[BodeBrentwood]

I consider myself to have a photogenic, if not slightly large endowment. But ultimately Im not supersized in the grand scheme of things. 

Havent had any complaints though!

[Strafe13]

7 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

Those were their words not mine. Of course, it wasn't my intention to wreck anything.

The first provider who ever told me I wrecked their ass... I hired through the defunct site planetjockboys.

I had a great time. I thought he did too. I guess he didn't. Or to be more exact, he didn't have as good a time as I did. After he left that site and struck out on his own, i contacted him a number of times. He kind of danced around meeting up. I even offered to cover all his travel expenses if he came to visit. He never told me no, but he never committed. So I kind of gave up trying to see him.

Years later, he came back to my area and finally committed to seeing me again. Before we began we talked a bit and caught up. This is where he admitted to me I "wrecked" his ass and it took him a while to recover. I think he switched from being a versatile/bottom to a top in his ad. I have no idea if that was because of me. (He's currently listed as versatile.) Anyway, he said he avoided meeting with me again because i caused him a lot of pain. I promised I'd go as slow as he wanted; use a lot lube; and let him direct the session how he wanted. He still had a hard time, in the beginning anyway. Eventually, he found his groove and we found a position that worked for him. He seemed to like it then. i haven't seen him again since.

So to this day, I'm very very conscious of things, especially if a guy seems or does things to make it seem as if they are uncomfortable. I'll check in with them to be sure. I'll adjust accordingly.

With that said, the last guy I hired (for a weekend last month) I started off slow during sexy time and he wanted me to go as hard as I could. I made certain he was sure. He said i was hitting spots he wasn't used to getting hit. Pretty much we climaxed together every romp we had. I called him my unicorn. It's very rare for me to climax at the same time as my partner. Well on the last day, he told me I made him bleed a little. I apologized. He said no worries because he asked me to go harder and it was feeling amazing. I jokingly told him then it's his fault. He laughed. Unlike the planetjockboy guy, he's eager to see me again. We're looking at a weekend in April. 

Uhm…, please sir, may I be your client? 😍

But seriously, I’ve asked the well-endowed  providers I’ve been with about when they first knew they were “gifted” and how it impacts on their choice of partners.  I’ve gotten mixed responses. Most of them didn’t realize they were different until late high school or college, but don’t view themselves as anything special— that’s just who they are and have always been.  Only one guy, who is truly massive (as in thick as my forearm) and claims to be bi and a total top, said he only sometimes had difficulty finding partners to accommodate him. It was all about whether they were fully relaxed.  But he was pretty skilled with opening up holes, and also exceedingly modest, so…

Edited February 4, 2023 by Strafe13

[ThickCockScotsman]

I am endowed with a large, thick cock.  I have sidetracked very good looking men who were following other great looking guys by showing it under the fabric of my shorts, bicycle shorts, Levi's or a towel.  Otherwise my body is not that impressive.  A lot of wood in my pants has opened doors.  It has gone to my head a few times.  More often I am amazed at who is captivated by my dick.

[misterhumphries]

I suppose the main downside to a whopper dick is being known and sought out only for that reason. The owner of one of those monster cocks I encountered could not keep a man -- and believe me, he tried. But I suspect once the novelty of big dick wore off, there was no there, there.

[Jamie21]

Mine has got me lots of work, so I’m not complaining! I’m glad it’s a big one lol.
People get overly anxious about taking big cocks. Often it’s not necessarily the size that causes it to be uncomfortable but the expertise of the top. If he’s never bottomed then it’s less likely he knows how to use it. I’ve bottomed for some guys that are bigger than me and it was no problem, yet some smaller ones have been painful. 
 

[Storm4U]

On 1/28/2023 at 9:10 AM, misterhumphries said:

I've met two men with truly HUMONGOUS dicks who admitted, a little sadly, that they had to become bottoms because they could find few men who could take their dicks or even try. Sometimes too much of a good thing is really too much.

That would be disappointing to me too. It’s sad when a bottom can’t take it. One of the best things about having an endowed cock is seeing the guy be a little nervous about taking it, and then gasping for air when the head of it enters him.. and then seeing him struggle to take it just a little bit, then seeing his eyes get big when the width and length of the shaft slides in all the way to the base. I like that.

Edited February 7, 2023 by Storm4U

[misterhumphries]

1 hour ago, Storm4U said:

That would be disappointing to me too. It’s sad when a bottom can’t take it. One of the best things about having an endowed cock is seeing the guy be a little nervous about taking it, and then gasping for air when the head of it enters him.. and then seeing him struggle to take it just a little bit, then seeing his eyes get big when the width and length of the shaft slides in all the way to the base. I like that.

I feel the same way. I love it when a sex partner's eyes are bigger than his asshole. I've had at least two men stutter and beg me to take it out. Then there are the ones who grimace, shudder, but stay still and take my dick and get their holes beaten to mush. 😈

[Nvr2thick4me]

On 2/4/2023 at 3:08 AM, Strafe13 said:

Uhm…, please sir, may I be your client? 😍

But seriously, I’ve asked the well-endowed  providers I’ve been with about when they first knew they were “gifted” and how it impacts on their choice of partners.  I’ve gotten mixed responses. Most of them didn’t realize they were different until late high school or college, but don’t view themselves as anything special— that’s just who they are and have always been.  Only one guy, who is truly massive (as in thick as my forearm) and claims to be bi and a total top, said he only sometimes had difficulty finding partners to accommodate him. It was all about whether they were fully relaxed.  But he was pretty skilled with opening up holes, and also exceedingly modest, so…

Is the guy as “thick as your forearm” an escort?

[Strafe13]

15 hours ago, Nvr2thick4me said:

Is the guy as “thick as your forearm” an escort?

Yes.  Sorry if that wasn't clear.  I was speaking only of the "well-endowed providers" mentioned in the first sentence of the longer paragraph.  He had an ad based in NYC, but I don't see it up anymore, at least not in rentmen's NYC listings.

[Nvr2thick4me]

8 hours ago, Strafe13 said:

Yes.  Sorry if that wasn't clear.  I was speaking only of the "well-endowed providers" mentioned in the first sentence of the longer paragraph.  He had an ad based in NYC, but I don't see it up anymore, at least not in rentmen's NYC listings.

Thanks. Could you please share his name? 

[Strafe13]

15 hours ago, Nvr2thick4me said:

Thanks. Could you please share his name? 

His rentmen profile is Malik_XXL, but his ad's expired at the moment.

[Nvr2thick4me]

9 hours ago, Strafe13 said:

His rentmen profile is Malik_XXL, but his ad's expired at the moment.

Thanks!

[Rudynate]

On 1/29/2023 at 5:35 AM, big-n-tall said:

Yes and no.

Maybe because of my physical size I don't think I'm well endowed, comparatively. I'm not saying I'm massive but I've gotten responses of excitement and trepidation. I actually have had people tell me after sex that they couldn't take me and didn't want to have sex again. I am not even an aggressive pounder... unless asked.

I have had providers be honest enough to tell me why they didn't want to see me again or were reluctant to. Thank goodness it's only been a small number that refuse to see me again, but it's always because of my penis size.

In fact the provider I see the most told me that after we first met, he gave serious consideration to dropping me. He said after sex with me, his ass was wrecked and he couldn't have anal penetration for the rest of the day. So after our sessions, he had to turn down clients if they wanted anal. I was losing him money. It also didn't help I was younger than most of his regular clients. He likes older guys. Thankful he said my personality and the fun we had won him over. He also said he began to enjoy my size. We decided to switch tactics. Meaning I would see him late at night and not cause any hindrance for other clients.

Like I said it isn't all negative. I love when I drop my pants and someone eyes sparkle and they tell me, "Oh we're going to have a lot of fun." 

So if I meet someone who is excited; loves what I have to offer; and wants to see me again... Yay!!! However, when I'm told "I" can't take you and I am ghosted, it can actually be a bit disheartening.

I love big dicks.  I can't imagine there being such a thing as one that's too big. 

[Storm4U]

9 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I love big dicks.  I can't imagine there being such a thing as one that's too big. 

All clients should be like you!

[Rudynate]

39 minutes ago, Storm4U said:

All clients should be like you!

I have a trained hole.

[misterhumphries]

3 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I have a trained hole.

That's hot.😈