+ DrownedBoy Posted January 5, 2023 Share Posted January 5, 2023 13 hours ago, BonVivant said: Generally: Don’t share it. Reason: most people don’t understand it and won’t support it. There is a negative view of it in the USA (it’s a very middle class values / Puritan society). Plus there is some jealousy to it cause you get access to way hotter guys than if you didn’t (and most can’t afford it). Better to just enjoy, flaunt in public, but never reveal the deal. Pretty much. You should only discuss hiring with friends who also hire (as I and several others here do). All the reasons here come into play. America's rather hypocritical attitudes towards sex work fuel people's jealousy. And with whole "woke" corporate attitudes nowadays, if your hiring becomes public, you'll probably be fired for PR reasons.... even as one of my former CEOs (married with kids) hires Latino boys whenever he can. pubic_assistance, + Charlie and GossipSummary 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bargara Leatherboy Posted January 5, 2023 Share Posted January 5, 2023 Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time). I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry. someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation dbar123, + bashful, PaulM and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joegr2000 Posted January 5, 2023 Share Posted January 5, 2023 I find it embarrassing. Wish I didn't. Dr.Daddy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted January 5, 2023 Share Posted January 5, 2023 I never talk about it with friends. They either can't afford it and there are enough jealousy issues already or they wouldn't understand. I only discuss it here or with a provider. + nycman and + Charlie 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Axiom2001 Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 On 1/3/2023 at 8:04 AM, muslnicknj said: This seems to be a taboo subject with my friends - I can honestly say the conversation has never come up. I sometimes wonder how many of my friends have hired - or if they wonder about me. Anyway, just curious what others’ experiences have been. How did the subject come up in conversation? Do you compare notes on hires? I've been engaging the services of escorts far too long as I care to remember. But in conjunction with your initial thread heading, only one living friend knows that I have paid for some hot companionship; he did prior to his prostate surgery. To date he and I have not discussed. Another of my very good friends knew that I hired but never hired himself except for the time that he spent with me at Carnaval in Rio de Janeiro in 2003. Regarding your thread's heading-- I would say no at this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted January 6, 2023 Share Posted January 6, 2023 Only on Nextdoor.com, which of course is completely private. 🥸 + Vegas777, + poolboy48220, + Charlie and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supersweetlover Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 On 1/4/2023 at 8:08 AM, Coolwave35 said: All the time! I really enjoy sharing tales of my sexual exploits with paid providers with at least a dozen of my real life friends. I regularly host house parties, ski trips, great adventure outings etc with a mix of personal friends and escorts. It keeps the mood lively and provides access for my regular friends to my favorite escorts. One of my favorite memories was a ski trip with 11 guys. 6 were escorts and 5 were my best gay friends. Two escorts literally dragged a mattress out of the bedroom onto the kitchen floor. They started going at it. A regular friend brought this to my attention and said “do you think I can join them?” I said my suspicion is that if they wanted privacy, they’d have left the mattress in the bedroom. I’d ask, but I’m sure all are welcome. I was right, 3 quickly became 7. That weekend included rounds of strip poker, shirtless skiing, blow jobs in the loft where my orally talented friend just stayed up there and guys would periodically ascend the stairs and come down smiling. My friends have never expressed a stigma and hiring is such a substantial part of my life, and escorts are always around that it would be impossible not to discuss and call it what it is. Since my divorce, escorts are usually my plus one at dinner parties. My neighbors are a gay couple in their 50’s. They asked me point blank how I land such hot guys in their 20’s. I said it’s very easy. My checks always clear. Needless to say, they’ve never had a party I wasn’t invited to and my guests and I are usually the last to leave after the hot tub cover comes off. My motto is sharing is caring. Awesome mindset and fantastic circle of people for your sexcapdes! So what does it take to be friends with you and be invited to join your fun groupings, Mr. Cool wave? 😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 58 minutes ago, supersweetlover said: Awesome mindset and fantastic circle of people for your sexcapdes! So what does it take to be friends with you and be invited to join your fun groupings, Mr. Cool wave? 😉 Live in New York. Be cool. It doesn’t take much lol + WstVlgChris, GTMike, + Vegas777 and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr.Daddy Posted January 14, 2023 Share Posted January 14, 2023 On 1/4/2023 at 5:08 AM, Coolwave35 said: All the time! I really enjoy sharing tales of my sexual exploits with paid providers with at least a dozen of my real life friends. I regularly host house parties, ski trips, great adventure outings etc with a mix of personal friends and escorts. It keeps the mood lively and provides access for my regular friends to my favorite escorts. One of my favorite memories was a ski trip with 11 guys. 6 were escorts and 5 were my best gay friends. Two escorts literally dragged a mattress out of the bedroom onto the kitchen floor. They started going at it. A regular friend brought this to my attention and said “do you think I can join them?” I said my suspicion is that if they wanted privacy, they’d have left the mattress in the bedroom. I’d ask, but I’m sure all are welcome. I was right, 3 quickly became 7. That weekend included rounds of strip poker, shirtless skiing, blow jobs in the loft where my orally talented friend just stayed up there and guys would periodically ascend the stairs and come down smiling. My friends have never expressed a stigma and hiring is such a substantial part of my life, and escorts are always around that it would be impossible not to discuss and call it what it is. Since my divorce, escorts are usually my plus one at dinner parties. My neighbors are a gay couple in their 50’s. They asked me point blank how I land such hot guys in their 20’s. I said it’s very easy. My checks always clear. Needless to say, they’ve never had a party I wasn’t invited to and my guests and I are usually the last to leave after the hot tub cover comes off. My motto is sharing is caring. How fun! I would love to be your friend. Keep sharing! Your posts and stories are my favorite content on this site, and I often find myself reading them aloud to my best friends and my partner who are all very supportive of my exploits and hires too. We only have this one life, might as well do it with our chins up ❤️ TorontoDrew, + Coolwave35 and + Charlie 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanyc Posted January 14, 2023 Share Posted January 14, 2023 I live in New York. Just saying.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acaressandakiss Posted January 15, 2023 Share Posted January 15, 2023 There are two close friends I have discussed the hobby with. They are both very supportive and one of them I think has hired a provider himself (he's straight though) It's now a running joke whenever I tell them I'm traveling to a big city that one of them will ask "So what's his name?" + Vegas777, TorontoDrew and + Charlie 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted January 15, 2023 Share Posted January 15, 2023 I've been starting to keep a detailed journal of my sessions(at least a page single-spaced per meeting). If I wasn't worried about being arrested or letting my identity become widely known, I'd start a blog 😄 + Charlie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted January 15, 2023 Share Posted January 15, 2023 Yes. A straight man whom I met in the Army in November 1968 in Vietnam pubic_assistance and + Vegas777 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight77 Posted January 15, 2023 Share Posted January 15, 2023 On 1/3/2023 at 4:26 PM, KeepItReal said: No. There are some things I consider private. My hobby of hiring, my net worth/annual earnings and the Justin Bieber blow up doll I have in the back of the closet in the hallway are a few examples of things I do not share with anyone. 🤫 hey @KeepItReal, I want a Justin Bieber blow up doll! lol. MikeBiDude, BonVivant and + bashful 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted January 16, 2023 Share Posted January 16, 2023 On 1/14/2023 at 8:07 PM, DrownedBoy said: I've been starting to keep a detailed journal of my sessions(at least a page single-spaced per meeting). If I wasn't worried about being arrested or letting my identity become widely known, I'd start a blog 😄 Every hire I ever made is described in the daily journal that I have kept for almost fifty years (yes, it fills a whole file cabinet). BabyBoomer, pubic_assistance, + DrownedBoy and 3 others 2 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidir Posted January 16, 2023 Share Posted January 16, 2023 I never discuss hiring guys with others outside of this site. It is one the reasons that I became a member of "The Company of Men." 🤗 MikeBiDude, + Charlie, + nycman and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bashful Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 Don't discuss it with anyone outside of here. Only record I have kept is the back of a spiral notebook with just location, month/year, and $$$ spent. No names/comments mentioned. Hasn't been a lot so I remember. + Charlie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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