muslnicknj Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 I’m not sure if this is the right forum for this topic, but I’d love if someone could explain what tributes and drains are. I see a lot of this on Twitter with alpha types. I guess I don’t understand the concept of sending money to someone without getting something in return. Usually I get a custom vid when I send someone money, but it seems like there are a lot of guys who send money for nothing. + FrankR 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 I'm pretty sure those are terms associated with "findom" types. Tribute would be the cash offered, drain is the act of getting cash out of the target's account. muslnicknj 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 It's a legit kink, and there are guys who really are into it from both sides. There are also a lot of guys who think that being an "alpha" just means being a demanding asshole, YMMV. muslnicknj and + keroscenefire 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muslnicknj Posted December 21, 2022 Author Share Posted December 21, 2022 2 hours ago, DynamicUno said: I'm pretty sure those are terms associated with "findom" types. Tribute would be the cash offered, drain is the act of getting cash out of the target's account. Thanks. I thought drain meant that the alpha does something to get the target to cum. I’m too old to understand any of this, lol. guru68 and Marc in Calif 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 3 minutes ago, guru68 said: It's a legit kink, and there are guys who really are into it from both sides. There are also a lot of guys who think that being an "alpha" just means being a demanding asshole, YMMV. Yeah I've had some providers try to do some findom stuff on me and it's a big turnoff. I just don't get it. I'm also a bit skeptical that there's a lot of clients who are into FinDom. I don't know, maybe there are but I feel like this often comes more from the provider than the client. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 2 minutes ago, keroscenefire said: Yeah I've had some providers try to do some findom stuff on me and it's a big turnoff. I just don't get it. I'm also a bit skeptical that there's a lot of clients who are into FinDom. I don't know, maybe there are but I feel like this often comes more from the provider than the client. It's not my thing, either, but I do know a few people who get a legit submissive turn-on from it. I'd say like all intense kinks, the important thing is to have a relationship with someone you trust. Of course, being into it doesn't make you a slave to it. + keroscenefire 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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