Medellin vs Barcelona for solo Xmas?

[shadowcatzxxx]

I find myself facing a lonely, cold and dark New England holiday season, and am itching to go somewhere warmer, sunnier, interesting on its own right - and of course, sufficiently gay to provide entertainment - for about a week between Christmas and NY

I've been vacillating back and forth between Barcelona (love the food and architecture, in addition to Spanish men; offers the opportunity for easy Xfer to warmer, sunnier, southern Spain) and Medellin -- which I've never visited, but which I've heard a lot about (mostly about the men).

This would (unfortunately) be a solo trip.

Any ideas? Suggestions? Experience?

[menaughty]

On 12/1/2022 at 1:05 PM, SirBillybob said:

I recently went to Medellín for close to two weeks and will be returning to Colombia for most of the winter, but not Medellín, though I enjoyed Medellín for its non-sexual (non “sex tourist” features); once being enough in terms of my general travel bucket list. An excursion to Guatapé area is a must, but will be mobbed at that time and DIY basis may present obstacles as far as getting there by regional bus due to its popularity among city dwellers during the season.

I actually don’t mind being solo for extended periods as there is usually so much to do in a new place and I combine self-catering with dining out. No bar scene for me; in my 70s and early to bed-and-rise. 

I have been to Barcelona many times. The difference, from my point of view, is the degree to which you prefer the convenience and structure of a more curated and trade-specific setting, such as Sauna Thermas in ‘Geixample’ BCN, or the greater effort and challenge of hooking up through other means, as would be the reality in Medellín. … depending on your specifications.

Additionally, the physical appearance selection aspects, but since you have not specified any preference, I see no point at this time providing my comparative take. What I can say is that written or image depictions provided on our various punter sites would not impel me to choose Medellín over Barcelona for trade, though equivalency based on subjective preference (if one can unearth it) would typically be less expensive in Colombia. Similarly, the few hotel brothel outfits will oblige with a photo inventory via WhatsApp but nothing of appeal to me or what I would shell out for. I had to drill down and try not to waste valuable sightseeing time to yield a bit of success. However, I had made sure to immediately follow up my recent trip with travel to a destination where accessing the type of trade I prefer was a sure thing. Really hot Colombians often discover they can earn so much more bank abroad. And nationally, Bogotá affords the curated setting of Sauna St-Moritz & Gigolo Erotic House nightclub/ stripper venue with private dance etc, in the same Chapinero-district building. 

 

Is there like a Sauna Thermas in Colombia?

I am lazy too...lol. I would much rather prefer guaranteed action like in bcn thermas.

[menaughty]

1 hour ago, SirBillybob said:

 

Not the same structure/arrangements or number of escorts as Thermas, but I usually find what I want even though I tend to be picky about build and looks. 

Could you please elaborate on what you mean by that? 

I guess what I mean to ask is that if it is a GP sauna then how is the structure not same?

And if it is Not a GP escort sauna then how is it similar to Thermas in Barcelona?

Thanks 😊

[Marc in Calif]

 

On 12/1/2022 at 9:02 AM, shadowcatzxxx said:

I find myself facing a lonely, cold and dark New England holiday season, and am itching to go somewhere warmer, sunnier, interesting on its own right - and of course, sufficiently gay to provide entertainment - for about a week between Christmas and NY

I've been vacillating back and forth between Barcelona (love the food and architecture, in addition to Spanish men; offers the opportunity for easy Xfer to warmer, sunnier, southern Spain) and Medellin -- which I've never visited, but which I've heard a lot about (mostly about the men).

This would (unfortunately) be a solo trip.

Any ideas? Suggestions? Experience?

I wonder what shadowcatzxxx (the OP) decided to do. 😎

[shadowcatzxxx]

39 minutes ago, Marc in Calif said:

 

I wonder what shadowcatzxxx (the OP) decided to do. 😎

Thanks for asking.  Given a short time frame and outrageous short-notice holiday airfares, I decided to head for Miami instead. I have friends there, and the city has enough latino talent to keep me interested/occupied. Saving Medellin for another time, when I can get better travel deals.