Escort reactions to reviews

[Guest RandyRon]

This may have been covered before but I couldn't find the thread. I recently sent in a review of a really great experience with an escort. As I reread the review I wondered what the escort's reaction would be about certain things I said. I talked about how sexy he looked, his very sensous lips, how his body tasted, my perception of his attitude and personality, etc.

 

My question for escorts is: do you sometimes wonder how the reviewer came up with his views/opinions? When you read one of your reviews do you sometimes think "That's me?" I can imagine someone reviewing me and what they see being entirely different than my view of myself.

[skins1]

well on the ebriefs this morning there was an open letter to a client. does anyone know what review he was talking about? i think it was a well written letter.

[Rick Munroe]

>When you read one

>of your reviews do you sometimes think "That's me?" I can

>imagine someone reviewing me and what they see being entirely

>different than my view of myself.

 

I am completely blown away every time someone reviews me. You see, I am a buxom blonde with double-D breasts and a pretty little shaved pussy. But all of my reviewers, for some odd reason, seem to describe me as this hairy, masculine hunk-with-a-hard-on. Freaks me out every time. :+

[Johninpdx]

>You

>see, I am a buxom blonde with double-D breasts and a pretty

>little shaved pussy. But all of my reviewers, for some odd

>reason, seem to describe me as this hairy, masculine

>hunk-with-a-hard-on. Freaks me out every time. :+

 

That was you?!!!

:o

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Me, Myself And I

 

>As I reread the review I wondered

>what the escort's reaction would

>be about certain things I said.

 

I sometimes will receive a great letter from a client after the fact telling me how much they enjoyed the experience, or they will find me on line and we will discuss this in an IM exchange. Sometimes, although it is not that common, these clients write a review. The ones who gave me no kind of feedback, who never even responded to my After-The-Session thank you note to them for hiring me, when they write a review, it comes as quite a surprise. I think reviews reflect a lot about the client. Some might have been very generous in thier compliments to me but were more circumspect in a written review.

 

>I talked about . . . my perception of his attitude and

>personality, etc.

 

Personally, I always found it interesting: one client would take me as very dominant and another as very gentle. I respond to what I believe my clients want; obviously, these things are all in my personality or I would come across as either a bad actor or simply a "player."

 

>I can imagine someone reviewing me

>and what they see being entirely

>different than my view of myself.

 

A client is reviewing a snapshot. As I have said before, I generally encourage - when I know a client wishes to review me - that he hold off a review to a future hire situation so he has more to base a review on that one hour or even one evening. I personally believe such reviews are more reliable. Were I hiring, I would look for reviewers who not only hired previously (so I could compare reviews - for example, Client A gives everyone he reviews high marks, so this is akin to the Olympic judge who get his high scores thrown out - but Client B is not so consistent in either his praise or criticism), but I would also give equal, if not more weight, to how many sessions the client had with this escort.

 

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[basket]

RE: Me, Myself And I

 

Should I be concerned? No escort has ever sent me an after note thanking me for the experience! I have really expected that, either.

Usually we just part ways with a thanks.

[skins1]

RE: Me, Myself And I

 

yeah, i never got a letter either. I've always emailed the escort after the fact saying it was a great to see them, etc... and have yet to receive a response from any of them. not even a thanks. I've seen a well known escort from dallas a number of times and have emailed him a few times asking when he will be back in town, thanks for the great experience etc... never one response. I don't know why. it's not like i said hey wanna start a relationship? should i be so sensitive about this or should i not even care?

[marc anthony]

Birds of a feather....

 

I think it depends on what type of escort you gravitate toward...

 

For me, it is important the escort is friendly and engaging, and I often use them as travelling companions. In that case, not only is it routine that we are in touch before and after, but I think they actually like the contact as well.

 

If you are hiring an escort for a quick jump in the bed, and pick based only on appearance, then I am sure it would be difficult to expect a budding friendship.

[Guest backbaygayguy]

RE: Me, Myself And I

 

>yeah, i never got a letter either. I've always emailed the

>escort after the fact saying it was a great to see them,

>etc... and have yet to receive a response from any of them.

>not even a thanks.

 

If I have enjoyed myself, I always send the guy a note within a day or two thanking him, or when I return from my travels. And in each case the escort has replied with a nice note to my e-mail. (This isn't surprising, since I use e-mail to set up the session -- frequently all interactions before the session are by e-mail.)

 

Only three guys e-mailed me thank-you notes after a session (and I did not send any of these guys a thank-you note). In each case the guy said how much he had enjoyed the session and he hoped to see me again. In one case, the session was a disaster and I ended it early, with a much reduced fee and an explanation of why the experience wasn't up to par. The other two sessions were OK, and I knew before the session ended that I would not hire the guy again, nor did I intend to send a thank-you note. Seems odd that those were the three who e-mailed me to thank me!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Miss Manners With Chest Hair

 

I know a number of escorts who write e-mails, albeit some very short ones, to regular clients. Others use boilerplate e-mails to respond, keep in touch, announce travel plans, etc. I know some escorts who think they have done what they were paid for and a simple thank you or good bye at the end of the meeting suffices. I think it depends a great deal on the type of relationships and the background of the escort.

 

I was brought up to send out thank you notes and to respond to e-mails. When clients have written to me, I always write back. I have a client I have not seen in nearly a year now who occassionally sends me photographs and I sometimes respond with photographs back (and I do not mean sexual or erotic photographs - we are talking about things which are amusing or interesting, like architecture or travel photos). I try to establish relationships with my clients which are long term and cordial. I also try to make it very clear that my correspondence is not in the nature of getting a sale brochure from a department store announcing a semi-annual sale. I never continue to correspond with clients unless the interest from the client has been established.

 

As has been written on here many times by many posters - clients and escorts alike - different people have different ways of handling similar situations and also different expectations. If you were satisfied with the escorts performance, whether or not he wrote to you is neither here nor there. However, whether or not you were satisfied, I personally am always unhappy when I have to get anyone (a friend, a business, a vendor) to respond to a written inquiry or note. In that respect, I am not sure I would continue to see an escort who simply continually ignored written notes from me. At minimum, I would inquire: by the way, did you receive my e-mail? before I would even consider booking another session.