Top escorts who come with every client - how do they manage it?

[Jamie21]

2 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

What gets me even moreso, are the married to women guys who are so eager to get into the action. That’s not to poke fun or judge, but it just boggles my mind everytime. Society has always taught us there’s either gay or straight, but not much about what’s in the middle. 
 

 

The middle is big, and very hidden. I’ve been at sex parties where I’m working to get things going….these are the kind of parties where less experienced people go, they’re not swingers although a few probably are, but it’s mainly couples looking to expand their sex lives, most identify as straight. I’m there with a couple of other sex workers to encourage the couples (and a few singles) to get the action going.

I notice that once things get going the women generally seem to be more open to same sex activity but initially the guys are very inhibited to do anything that’s ‘gay’. However as the evening goes on their inhibitions reduce and then they start to explore. Their female partner might be in a full on muff munch with another woman but the guys will only touch my cock and certainly won’t suck or kiss but there’s definitely interest in same sex activity. Some will let you wank them, and are open to being massaged, others will just watch and ask questions. I think it just takes guys longer to overcome the social conditioning they’ve been exposed to unfortunately. 

 I remember one party I was working at when I was with a friend of mine (a guy) who was also there to get things going. I guess there were about 40 couples at the party, and most were still dressed and mingling over drinks and canapés in the large main lounge of the apartment of the host. I was doing a massage demo on my friend to get things going. People were still arriving so it was early on in the evening. Some couples we’re watching us but most were just chatting and circulating the room. Our massage table was set up at the side of the room adjacent to the door so it was not the main focus. 

We’d been massaging for about half an hour and I was really turned on. I was naked of course because this would encourage other guests to disrobe and play. The party was massage themed because massage helps the inexperienced guests to get into sex parties. Those who are less adventurous can just enjoy naked massage whereas those who want group sex can also do that. A kind of safe place to explore.

Anyway me and my friend were getting increasingly turned on and not really engaged with anything happening in the room. I could hear talk and was vaguely aware of people watching. I’d seen the guest list and I knew that only a couple of the guys had identified as bi, none said gay. About half the females identified as bi. My friend is gay, I’m bi, so we were not likely to get any man on man action at the party, and I think, realising this, my friend asked me to fuck him as I was doing the massage demo. This wasn’t really what was supposed to happen at this point. The idea was we’d do a bit of massage and encourage others to undress and get on the table for us or their partner to massage them.

However I was so turned on at this point (my friend is hot) I didn’t need asking. As he lay face down on the table I mounted the table, did some work on his back and then lay on him and fucked him slowly. It wouldn’t have been obvious what was happening unless you were stood next to the table. I guess those people close by will have noticed. Meanwhile the party carried on around us, people still arriving and getting used to being at that kind of party. 

After a bit of slowly fucking him my friend started to buck under me and raise his bum arching his back to get better penetration. So I went at him harder and faster. We then changed positions so he was on his back with legs over my shoulders. By now it was a full on sex show amid a room full of mostly still clothed people. I had briefly stopped fucking him to get some lube that was placed in dishes around the room and I then realised that maybe we’d taken things too far, but it was beyond the point we could stop. I lubed my friend and we carried on fucking. As my friend was bent over the side of the table with me rimming him the host came over to me and said that some guests just arriving were so shocked at the show they’d had to leave, so could we perhaps tone it down a little? He was totally fine with it but perhaps it was a little early in the evening. 

Fortunately I hadn’t cum yet so we stopped, refreshed the table and invited a couple to use it, which they did. I then helped the guy massage his wife who was loving it while her partner looked totally like a rabbit in the headlights, he wouldn’t even take off his trousers. I then left him to it because I think my presence was making him nervous. 

Later on in the evening a few of the guys discreetly asked me about what they’d seen, would I massage them, maybe finger them etc. They all said they weren’t gay but…etc. None were comfortable enough to play with me at the party but they asked for my details to book a private massage. It’s interesting that there are so many outwardly heterosexual guys who are open to same sex activity but have no outlet for it, and who struggle to be able to ask for what they want. 

Edited October 11, 2022 by Jamie21

[Rod Hagen]

What's this 3 or 4 clients a day stuff?  Even in my 20s I didn't see more than 2, usually even then just 1, a day.  I guess rents really really have increased.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

57 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

What's this 3 or 4 clients a day stuff?  Even in my 20s I didn't see more than 2, usually even then just 1, a day.  I guess rents really really have increased.

This. 100%.

Never in my escorting life have I seen multiple clients in one day. 

That sounds like hell. 

[+ ThroatCummer]

9 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

This. 100%.

Never in my escorting life have I seen multiple clients in one day. 

That sounds like hell. 

Not even a one hour appointment? Maybe not all the time, but I suppose I would have expected someone could do a 10a or Noon and then a 7p or 10p, if they were only for an hour or two max? That totally seems doable I suppose.

You seem pretty established and I am guessing you don't just do one hours all over the place these days, but even in the beginning? Just really curious. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

28 minutes ago, ThroatCummer said:

Not even a one hour appointment? Maybe not all the time, but I suppose I would have expected someone could do a 10a or Noon and then a 7p or 10p, if they were only for an hour or two max? That totally seems doable I suppose.

You seem pretty established and I am guessing you don't just do one hours all over the place these days, but even in the beginning? Just really curious. 

Not even in the beginning... Back when television was only in black & white. 

I made a conscious decision to market myself in the way I was comfortable and didn't deviate from it.

It worked to my advantage.

Agreed that it was doable, but at what cost? Burnout wasn't something I wanted to risk... And still don't. 

Edited October 12, 2022 by BenjaminNicholas

[+ ThroatCummer]

I guess that makes sense. It's probably better for your mental health anyway and much better for the client's experience.

Some hire for the mechanical aspect of sex which is cool. Good for them and what floats your boat. Word. But personally, I hire for a lot more of the connection and I think the idea of the guy having got off with someone else earlier (hours ago or even just in the same day) seems a little 'dirty' to me in my own head.

That's probably not the correct term to use, but I like to imagine I am at least semi-special in the transaction. So yea, it makes sense. 

PS. I don't picture you having watched B&W TV, but I got fifty bucks that says you had a beeper. 😁

[TruHart1]

I’m not a provider but this thread brought back fond memories of a couple of my favorite guys, ever: Andrew Justice and RGM. Whenever I could get to Chicago, I’d always hire my two favorite escorts in Chicago, Andrew and Raul G. Manzo. I do believe that no matter what, each and every time I hired either of these men (separately, never together, though that would have been HOT!!!) they ALWAYS shot their loads, EVERY session! I remember being so turned on by Justice that I asked him for my first ever facial, an amazing memory!

 I do believe both of these providers kept their daily appointments to only one, or at most, two clients per day. RGM and I would always have a couple of hours of play, and then go out to explore the city, eat dinner, etc. With Justice, he always went over the two hours I hired him for, and he always came in very large loads - check out his porn flicks to see just how much cum Andrew always produced when he orgasmed!

 I don’t feel the necessity of having every escort I hire cum for me, and I feel Justice and RGM were the exceptions, but if an escort decides to cum, I always enjoy it! I  have asked a few guys over the years I’ve been hiring if they’d cum for me, if I felt really turned on by what we were doing and each one I asked seemed happy to shoot his load for me.

Thanks for the memories!

TruHart1 😎

[Jarrod_Uncut]

14 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

What's this 3 or 4 clients a day stuff?  Even in my 20s I didn't see more than 2, usually even then just 1, a day.  I guess rents really really have increased.

Well keep in mind, most are generalized assumptions. People very often ask if I have more appointments that day, even when it’s already 10 at night.
 

And from the outside looking in, people think that’s just how we roll, having sex day and night frolicking in a quest for never ending orgasmic pleasure. 
 

Yeah, some days are like that: and I wish every day was. But there’s a reality: some markets are over saturated or not very lucrative (Kansas City and the whole of Missouri which is nothing but bullshit timewasters perpetually week after week)
 

The only times I find myself getting worked to exhaustion, is when I’m really going city to city and keeping a steady stream of new clients. But 1 or 2 weeks in my local market and getting 1 client is usually more than enough recovery to get back out there. Even then, I still pace myself. 

Edited October 12, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Jamie21]

It’s the Instagram effect. Things aren’t always what they seem. 
 

[TorontoDrew]

For traveling providers, don't they need multiple appointments make it profitable?  I guess you would have to prioritize overnights and multi hour bookings.  

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

15 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

PS. I don't picture you having watched B&W TV, but I got fifty bucks that says you had a beeper. 😁

Honestly, not even a beeper.  I couldn't even pretend I was a glamorous drug dealer.

I am of the generation that went directly into mobile phones.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 10/11/2022 at 3:28 AM, Jamie21 said:

The middle is big, and very hidden. I’ve been at sex parties where I’m working to get things going….these are the kind of parties where less experienced people go, they’re not swingers although a few probably are, but it’s mainly couples looking to expand their sex lives, most identify as straight. I’m there with a couple of other sex workers to encourage the couples (and a few singles) to get the action going.
 

Later on in the evening a few of the guys discreetly asked me about what they’d seen, would I massage them, maybe finger them etc. They all said they weren’t gay but…etc. None were comfortable enough to play with me at the party but they asked for my details to book a private massage. It’s interesting that there are so many outwardly heterosexual guys who are open to same sex activity but have no outlet for it, and who struggle to be able to ask for what they want. 

That’s wild! It’s been awhile since I’ve done something like that myself, as far as sex party goes. 
 

I still remember reading somewhere in literature online that “gay” was unheard of up until the 1950s -ish? That back in the 1700-1800s it wasn’t uncommon for guys to hookup when the wives weren’t around. And that the ” discovery “ of gay is what created a stigma and suddenly it was an offensive thing.

I can believe that. I know the president on the $50 apparently took in a slave and had a living quarters for him, and from what it sounds: was somewhat of a “sugar daddied” him. Apparently that was perfectly okay at the time! And even now, I see it all the time 😊 

Edited October 12, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[pubic_assistance]

On 10/7/2022 at 7:01 PM, DrownedBoy said:

would you prefer a client who isn't concerned with you coming

This is probably why I RARELY hire escorts.

I have never enjoyed sexual intercourse unless I am aware my partner is as excited as I am.

Maybe that's a bisexual thing...as women are harder to please than men, so we probably think more about such things.

But yeah...I'd want my escort to finish too. ( Preferably in my face 😉 ).

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

6 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I can believe that. I know the president on the $50 apparently took in a slave and had a living quarters for him, and from what it sounds: was somewhat of a “sugar daddied” him. Apparently that was perfectly okay at the time! And even now, I see it all the time 😊 

Jarrod, no.

Grant was "gifted" a slave by his wife's family when they were married. He was also dirt-poor at the time, so he and his wife had to make "living room" for him in their own house. Grant literally worked the fields next to him. 

When Grant gave up farming, despite the fact he was dead broke, he gave the slave his freedom, and refused to "sell" him to get money. This was all before the Civil War.

 

(from an Illinoisian who's proud of some of his state's former residents)

[Kevin Slater]

Moderator’s note:  Let’s get back to the subject of this thread, escorts cumming with clients.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

6 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

Jarrod, no.

Grant was "gifted" a slave by his wife's family when they were married. He was also dirt-poor at the time, so he and his wife had to make "living room" for him in their own house. Grant literally worked the fields next to him. 

When Grant gave up farming, despite the fact he was dead broke, he gave the slave his freedom, and refused to "sell" him to get money. This was all before the Civil War.

 

(from an Illinoisian who's proud of some of his state's former residents)

Thanks for the clarification, I must had misinterpreted it. Then again, who “really” knows what could have went down 🤷🏾‍♂️ 
 

…that said, I think cumming together should be a decision between 2 (or 3-4-10) consenting adults, without  necessarily being based on assumptions.

Edited October 13, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[ncc1701d]

I really don't care how many times an escorts could/would come, but I do like it when they do with me.  So i make sure to raise that at initial set up and only proceed when the escort says it's good with them. My biggest pet peeve is those who say "yes", only to then be a "no" when the time comes.