Top escorts who come with every client - how do they manage it?

[arnemgreeves]

Say they have on average four clients per day, and come with all of these clients. And they also have either a partner or fwb they come with in the evenings. How do they manage it? do they (or you I should say as it's the providers' section) get tired? I know people are different, but does it ever get too much?

[Jamie21]

I’ve only done occasional escort jobs, and when I do do escort work it’s just one client a day. I prefer to do sensual massage work although depending on what the client wants that can involve me ejaculating so there are sometimes days when I see 3 or 4 clients and cum with them all. It just depends how long the gap is between clients. Most of the time though it’s just the client who cums because they’re the focus of the session.

When I film porn then we used to shoot 3 movies a day and all would involve cum shots, now we just do two a day because the quality dips with the third one. 

Personally I find it can become too much, so I’m glad I don’t do this kind of work every day. I think it does affect your sex life and as I get older I find I need more recovery time. Doing this kind of work can be very challenging, not just in a physical sense (as in performing regularly) but also the impact it can take on your life in general so you find that people do the work for a few years and then drift out of it. Most of the guys (and girls) I know who do escorting / erotic massage or porn have other outlets that enable them to do the work and they sometimes leave the work for periods to recharge. 

[Guest]

6 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

Say they have on average four clients per day, and come with all of these clients. And they also have either a partner or fwb they come with in the evenings. 

That.... doesn't happen. 

If I top two clients in a day, or more often, the same client twice in a day, I've had a big day. 

If I finish three times in a day, I've had a big day. 

That's just me. I'm sure some people naturally take to more frequent sex, and the body adjusts to what you ask of it regularly, to some extent. 

But 5 loads in a day? That's a lot, I don't know anyone who does that. 

[Maximus69]

4 loads a day is a lot! Some clients do not care if the escort cums or not, some clients are just content if they cum.. so I dont think even the popular escorts are cumming four times a day as a top most of the time. But I assume It can be done if there's like a 1-2 hour gap or more between sessions. Im just content if I get my 2 a day because of how many damn fakes/flakes it seems like they are lately🤪

Edited October 7, 2022 by Maximus69

[TorontoDrew]

It's why I like local guys who have another job.  They typically only see one client or maybe two a day as that is all they have time for.  On the rare occasion I see someone who does this full time I aim for a morning appointment  to increase the odds of being the first that day.

In a shameless plug of Trev here in Toronto (discussed at length in another thread as Canadian Bodybuilder), he came three times in a two hour appointment.   Less volume the second and third times but still delicious 😉. 

Edited October 7, 2022 by TorontoDrew

[+ DrownedBoy]

Question to the providers though - would you prefer a client who isn't concerned with you coming (which might be interpreted as selfish), or a client who doesn't care, and only worries about getting off themselves (which makes an easier session)?

I do the second, because I wouldn't ask (and definitely wouldn't expect) any escort to have an orgasm with me.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

7 hours ago, TorontoDrew said:

It's why I like local guys who have another job.  They typically only see one client or maybe two a day as that is all they have time for.  On the rare occasion I see someone who does this full time I aim for a morning appointment  to increase the odds of being the first that day.

In a shameless plug of Trev here in Toronto (discussed at length in another thread as Canadian Bodybuilder), he came three times in a two hour appointment.   Less volume the second and third times but still delicious 😉. 

I was “aiming” to do that today during a 2 hour session: I wanted to get off back to back  as I hadn’t all week, but he was happy with one big 💦 that landed in a few intended/unintended places 😆  

That said, I like your story except: let’s dispel the idea that the guy with a local job is going to be more able to get off than the full time/traveling provider. 
 

I have been solely doing this, and have no problems getting off during bookings. The “4 clients a day” is a myth and assumption. This is also why some of us charge what we do: not to be greedy, but because we can better tailor our time per client, versus a revolving door of bookings back to back.

Now granted: I’m not likely to cum for a client 2-3 times in a session. But that’s not necessarily a full-time/part-time thing. Some guys can just bust back to back in a short period of time. Others have longer refractory periods. I also don’t feel I need to shower clients with multiple cum-shots to give them an awesome experience.

 

[Frotbear]

I'd like to "piggy-back" on this question.

Is it ok to ask the provider to finish with you?  

Alex

[TorontoDrew]

7 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I was “aiming” to do that today during a 2 hour session: I wanted to get off back to back  as I hadn’t all week, but he was happy with one big 💦 that landed in a few intended/unintended places 😆  

That said, I like your story except: let’s dispel the idea that the guy with a local job is going to be more able to get off than the full time/traveling provider. 
 

I have been solely doing this, and have no problems getting off during bookings. The “4 clients a day” is a myth and assumption. This is also why some of us charge what we do: not to be greedy, but because we can better tailor our time per client, versus a revolving door of bookings back to back.

Now granted: I’m not likely to cum for a client 2-3 times in a session. But that’s not necessarily a full-time/part-time thing. Some guys can just bust back to back in a short period of time. Others have longer refractory periods. I also don’t feel I need to shower clients with multiple cum-shots to give them an awesome experience.

 

As long as you limit  bookings to a couple a day.  Not all providers are like that.  I've talked to some guys for whom it's assembly line.  I refuse to be just one more on the line.  It's a lousy experience.

[arnemgreeves]

On 10/7/2022 at 4:58 PM, Dante said:

That.... doesn't happen. 

If I top two clients in a day, or more often, the same client twice in a day, I've had a big day. 

If I finish three times in a day, I've had a big day. 

That's just me. I'm sure some people naturally take to more frequent sex, and the body adjusts to what you ask of it regularly, to some extent. 

But 5 loads in a day? That's a lot, I don't know anyone who does that. 

I've seen some escorts advertise they come with every client. So if they see up to three clients per day, how do they manage it?

It does seema lot, so i';m curious how escorts handle it. it would be more obviously if they had a partner or did hook-ups after hours or when they're off work. 

 

[+ ThroatCummer]

34 minutes ago, arnemgreeves said:

how do they manage it?

i';m curious how escorts handle it. 

I'm into big muscle guys and bodybuilders. They're typically on a lot of juice (lots of pure testosterone + more). Even when not on a cycle, they are typically on TRT and have really high levels of testosterone in their system throughout the year.

How do they do it? You know what that does to you? You're horny ALL. THE. TIME. In my younger years, I did a couple cycles and let's just say I could have fucked a bookcase if I bumped into it the right way. My guess is that -- at least in my experience -- the guys I hire are just perpetually horny. 😈

Not complaining at all. It's a wonderful thing. 🤤

Edited October 8, 2022 by ThroatCummer

[Guest]

11 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

I've seen some escorts advertise they come with every client. So if they see up to three clients per day, how do they manage it?

It does seema lot, so i';m curious how escorts handle it. it would be more obviously if they had a partner or did hook-ups after hours or when they're off work. 

 

I think for lots of guys 3 in a day is doable, but not on a regular basis. Sorry, everyone, if this is TMI.

Has an escort told you they see 3+ clients in an average day, and finish for all of them? 

That's a genuine question, because I haven't heard an escort say that. So I'm curious what makes you think it's happening. 

[arnemgreeves]

1 hour ago, Dante said:

I think for lots of guys 3 in a day is doable, but not on a regular basis. Sorry, everyone, if this is TMI.

Has an escort told you they see 3+ clients in an average day, and finish for all of them? 

That's a genuine question, because I haven't heard an escort say that. So I'm curious what makes you think it's happening. 

I've seen and heard of many who do - whether they say via their escort ads or on interviews online.

[+ purplekow]

On 10/8/2022 at 1:35 AM, Frotbear said:

I'd like to "piggy-back" on this question.

Is it ok to ask the provider to finish with you?  

Alex

I find that when I finish the escort is finished, one way or the other.  That is fine with me though.  

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 10/8/2022 at 7:34 AM, TorontoDrew said:

As long as you limit  bookings to a couple a day.  Not all providers are like that.  I've talked to some guys for whom it's assembly line.  I refuse to be just one more on the line.  It's a lousy experience.

That’s understandable. And remember, not all of us are “per day”. 

Example: I had 6 in 4 days couple weeks ago, which is brilliant. But then I went a week and half with no clients. Had one Friday, but nobody all week/into the weekend. So there’s really no precise rhyme or rhythm.

Also a morning booking isn’t likely to guarantee getting off any more than an evening booking. You may be the first in “line” that day, but the person may very well say: I don’t want to get off yet, I have other clients today.”  
 

I think it’s best to see what individually works with each provider you see, versus trying to predict and clock who’s doing what. 

Edited October 9, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[+ ThroatCummer]

17 minutes ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

But then I went a week and half with no clients. Had one Friday, but nobody all week/into the weekend. So there’s really no precise rhyme or rhythm.

Mind if I ask a real question? For those times where you don't have any bookings for X days, do you either have sex recreationally with regular hookups (or a partner if you have one) or jerk off? ... or do you just save it all knowing you'll eventually have clients and that's good enough? I'm genuinely curious on a real answer. I can see not getting off for a day or two or maybe three, but a week and a half. Impossible, at least for me. Although you never know when you'll get some last-minute bookings and maybe even back-to-back. I guess the larger question is how do you manage your own personal sex life and jerking off with a sometimes-erratic schedule? 

[jtwalker]

When I was younger, I could cum 8 times a day if I wanted... sometimes I did.  Enjoy it while you're young!

[Jarrod_Uncut]

2 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

Mind if I ask a real question? For those times where you don't have any bookings for X days, do you either have sex recreationally with regular hookups (or a partner if you have one) or jerk off? ... or do you just save it all knowing you'll eventually have clients and that's good enough? I'm genuinely curious on a real answer. I can see not getting off for a day or two or maybe three, but a week and a half. Impossible, at least for me. Although you never know when you'll get some last-minute bookings and maybe even back-to-back. I guess the larger question is how do you manage your own personal sex life and jerking off with a sometimes-erratic schedule? 

Whew, that’s a very relevant and detailed question. Perhaps I can pass it on to my “colleagues” to review 😆 don’t know if I can answer that properly over a glass of Sunday champagne 🍾 

I will say this: I try to allow myself at least 1 or 2 freebie “hookups” per week/month. 
 

I also, after 10+ years in the biz: Can almost “sense” when I will and won’t have a client and when I can f**k off. Saturdays and Sundays usually are those days. Or it may be just a general lull. I also will forego biz if I made plans with the date/hookup buddy.

I’m not the type to cancel a meet with somebody because a client called. This is one reason why I emphasize advance notice, even if it’s just 2 hours. I am willing to move someone around if need be. At the same time, I don’t NEED to hookup to get off. 
 

I think there needs to be removed the idea that escorts are constantly horny, and need to have “outlets” always. We don’t. Hookups are nice, but also a lot of guys will get your dick, and move on to the next. I turned down a fairly hot couple over the summer: they wanted to have a 3som with me. I told them, I am open to it but wasn’t immediately taking their offer. I was visiting friends in town, and needed to get some clients going. 

 

They never texted me back since. I don’t have time for people who just want to use me for sex. I’ll fuck them, if I feel like fucking them and if they’ve shown they at least have some character or interest in me, versus just sex. 

Edited October 9, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Rudynate]

Once, I wanted to see how many times I could get myself of in a day - I made 5.  That was at least 15 years ago.

[+ DrownedBoy]

2 minutes ago, Rudynate said:

Once, I wanted to see how many times I could get myself of in a day - I made 5.  That was at least 15 years ago.

I made 6 once. But that was like right after I hit puberty, and I didn't have a choice on how I'd get off.

[+ ThroatCummer]

2 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Whew, that’s a very relevant and detailed question. Perhaps I can pass it on to my “colleagues” to review 😆 don’t know if I can answer that properly over a glass of Sunday champagne 🍾 

......

I think there needs to be removed the idea that escorts are constantly horny, and need to have “outlets” always. We don’t.

Thank you. I was genuinely curious and you gave a cool authentic answer. I dig it. After a lot of experience, you can just feel it out and I expect that's the same for almost every profession in the book. As much as sex work is unique, it's really no different from any other business where there's a product and a supplier.  Only true difference is there is a real person on the other side you're trying to connect with -- and we should all keep that in mind. Personally, I don't want to hire a human dildo. Having some semblance of a connection is mad cool, and I am sure it's just as hard as a provider trying to do the very same thing.  

I'm going to argue with you a bit on the perpetually horny escorts --they're out there for sure. Just my experience. But I get this entire world is something I really don't know much about. I like to think having a general cookie cutter definition does nobody a good service. There's something for everyone on here and in the profession. Again, it's a wonderful thing. 

PS. I enjoy your posts. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

6 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

Thank you. I was genuinely curious and you gave a cool authentic answer. I dig it. After a lot of experience, you can just feel it out and I expect that's the same for almost every profession in the book. As much as sex work is unique, it's really no different from any other business where there's a product and a supplier.  Only true difference is there is a real person on the other side you're trying to connect with -- and we should all keep that in mind. Personally, I don't want to hire a human dildo. Having some semblance of a connection is mad cool, and I am sure it's just as hard as a provider trying to do the very same thing.  

I'm going to argue with you a bit on the perpetually horny escorts --they're out there for sure. Just my experience. But I get this entire world is something I really don't know much about. I like to think having a general cookie cutter definition does nobody a good service. There's something for everyone on here and in the profession. Again, it's a wonderful thing. 

PS. I enjoy your posts. 

Thanks…

By the way you do make a good point about guys who are often in the gym. I’m sort of a supplement junkie myself (disclaimer, not “juice”) and some of those gives me energy in the gym, and makes me horny afterwards. So I can be “ready” just about anytime, and it keeps the loads cumming 😆   So I don’t discredit you on that point.

 

I also ask for 2 hours notice in my profiles, not because I can’t be horny “now”, but more due to not always living like I need to drop whatever I may be doing to entertain that. 

 

[Jamie21]

I think men in general are opportunistic. We get horny easily, fast and often. I’ve seen clients walk in the door in a totally unhorny state, like they’ve just come from work and within 5 minutes of the session they’re aroused, within 10 minutes they’re on the edge of orgasm and after 15 they’ve shot their load and want to go to sleep! Then after a rest they’re becoming aroused again. It’s a kind of primal urge to spread their seed. Wonderful. Totally different to the female cycle to reach orgasm. Those sessions are much more work. 

[italianboyph]

We're men and horny. I cum every single time and most men want to get you off, so it's my job to cum. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

22 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I think men in general are opportunistic. We get horny easily, fast and often. I’ve seen clients walk in the door in a totally unhorny state, like they’ve just come from work and within 5 minutes of the session they’re aroused, within 10 minutes they’re on the edge of orgasm and after 15 they’ve shot their load and want to go to sleep! Then after a rest they’re becoming aroused again. It’s a kind of primal urge to spread their seed. Wonderful. Totally different to the female cycle to reach orgasm. Those sessions are much more work. 

What gets me even moreso, are the married to women guys who are so eager to get into the action. That’s not to poke fun or judge, but it just boggles my mind everytime. Society has always taught us there’s either gay or straight, but not much about what’s in the middle.