How much info from a first time client...

[foxy]

do you like to have? I always use e-mail when contacting an escort for the first time. Aside from what I'm looking for in a session (no script, I like spontaneity) I always give my age (I fudge a little), a pretty honest description of what I look like and have good hygiene, my personality (easy to get along with...I hope), that I'm healthy (thank God) and not looking for anything unsafe. I always state that I want the escort to have a good time (hopefully).

Have I left out anything you think might be important?

[theDCeBOY]

when you'd like to get together.

[Steven_Draker]

>Have I left out anything you think might be important?

 

Hey Foxy, assuming that you mentioned what you're looking for in a session, I think about likes/dislikes.

 

Steven

[pierrot]

I also usually give escorts a brief description of myself, but I've never had one ask me for it if I don't. My questions for escorts are:

1. Do you ask clients for age and physical descriptions?

2. Do you turn down clients on the basis of their age or body type?

3. Do you prefer communicating this info by e-mail before speaking on the phone?

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Descriptions

 

>I also usually give escorts a brief description of myself,

>but I've never had one ask me for it if I don't. My questions

>for escorts are:

>1. Do you ask clients for age and physical descriptions?

>2. Do you turn down clients on the basis of their age or body

>type?

 

There are a number of posts which have previously discussed escorts requiring photographs and/or descriptions of clients. Two good ones are here:

 

http://babydb.male4malescorts.com/dc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=5&topic_id=5247&mesg_id=&page=&mode=full

 

http://babydb.male4malescorts.com/dc/dcboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=5&topic_id=4004&mesg_id=4004&listing_type=search

 

I personally do not ask for either photographs or descriptions; as some clients have commented, however, they would prefer to know that the escort has a problem with them as a client than engage in either the passage of time wasted or funds expended on a less than satisfactory experience. I do think, as I have stated in the past, that pertinent information should be presented: i.e., significant height or weight differences (a 6'4" client who wants to be topped by a 5'5" escort, for example), or a significant potential physical impediment, such as a broken leg or arm.

 

>3. Do you prefer communicating this info by e-mail before

>speaking on the phone?

 

I would think e-mail would be easier on both parties but I am comfortable with either form of communication.

 

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[btmstudnyc]

All I need is time, place and phone.

 

I actually have gotten nasty replies when I asked for a description....and another time I had a guy appalled that I DIDN'T ask for a pic of him or his description (he thought it was gross that I would sleep with anyone.)

 

Actually, I don't even need the phone if it is an incall or will be closeby.

 

I do like to get a description for a couple of reasons....so that I know it is the person that called me and not some random person at the bar or restaurant (If meeting at my place or your hotel, then the description doesn't matter.) I like to what you will be wearing too...so that I don't dress up or down inappropriately.

 

 

JIM

 

 

If it dont fit, force it

btmstudnyc@aol.com

[Bilbo]

Jim - gorgeous new ass shot on your posts! I do like to have the phone number for incall clients. Most of the time, I don't ask for it since I have call waiting. But I like to have it in case there's a sudden problem on this end, or if the client is late so that I can call and check on where he is. I sometimes have a tendency to confuse people and rather than assume I'm being stood up, I like to check and make sure that we both had made the appointment for the same time.

[foxy]

I forgot to mention that in my e-mail I usually offer to call the escort (or he can call me if he prefers) before we set anything up. Hearing someone's voice can be a good indication as to personality and can be a good clue if two people will "click" or not. It's also a good way to see if someone has a sense of humour. Sex is pretty funny.