Super-endowed escorts: how do you do handle your size?

[LovesYng]

RE: A PRIMER FOR THE SUPER-SIZED AND THEIR BOTTOM ADMIR...

 

>5) G-d gave you fingers and a tongue. Use them! Especially

>those fingers. I'm with Bilbo on this: when you can slip at

>least three fingers inside your partner without resistance,

>you know your partner's ready for the main attraction! If

>your partner's clean and well-prepared, there's nothing yucky

>about using your fingers, and there's nothing about it that a

>little soap-and-water afterwards won't take care of! You can

>also shower together, taking advantage of that to soap up his

>crack and start slipping those sudsy fingers inside him.

>However you do it, DON'T JAM your fingers inside him! Stroke

>his anus gently with your finger (try little circular motions

>with soapsuds or lubricant) until it relaxes and starts

>opening of its own accord! (You can also try doing this with

>the head of your cock!) You can help this along by

>accompanying the assplay with a tongue slurping at his ear, or

>the back of his neck, or other sensitive spot! Not to mention

>some more hot talk! Before long, Mr. Tightass will be looking

>like a candidate for the Mr. Holland Tunnel award!

 

Trilingual you are so right 99.9%. As what DC said I don't the like the soap up my ass because of the drying out if it's not kept moist;). After reading your post my ass got so ready to get pounded:9, now I got to find someone ASAP}(. Also don't you think it should be the "Mr. Lincoln Tunnel Award", Lincoln is much bigger than Holland. The Lincoln is Wider & Longer:7

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[Guest lookin4lust]

RE: A PRIMER FOR THE SUPER-SIZED AND THEIR BOTTOM ADMIRERS

 

As a size queen that likes getting fucked aggressively, I have a question for any well-endowed escorts? Do you get off when you see that initial grimace as your client adjusts to your size?

 

I don't like it slow and easy. I want the big top to just push it in all the way. I am not exactly feeling pain. It's more of a temporary discomfort. The thought of having to accomodate myself to a masculine top with a big cock sends a jolt of sexual electricity to my brain, which causes my colon to relax. Then I can't get enough, as hard, fast, and deep as he wants to fuck me.

[Bilbo]

RE: Yo, Vahawk!

 

Right. No fingers in you. Got it. Too bad we can't try fitting two tongues in there at the same time. That'd probably be about the same size.

 

BTW, I suppose y'all realize that 80% of the nerves which help cause anal pleasure are on the outside of the outer sphincter anyway? }(

[Bilbo]

RE: A PRIMER FOR THE SUPER-SIZED AND THEIR BOTTOM ADMIR...

 

Wonderful post, Trilingual! If you could, would you please add another one to it? This one is written from the point of view of a super hung top softening up and preparing an ass. Other than just trusting the top to do these things (or similar) and relaxing, what can a bottom do to facilitate being fucked by such a large one? (I know that one good answer will be to obverve what you top is doing and lead him through these stages by asking for what you want. However, would that keep the mind too busy with the details and distanced from the fantasy to relax effectively?)

[Bilbo]

RE: Yo, Vahawk!

 

>I don't think I'm looking for Big Cock for enlightenment

>(I'll stick to lamrim, lamdre, mahamudra, or dzogchen for

>that),

 

I am not as familiar as I would like to be with any of the above. I would really appreciate it if you would open up a new thread to explain them to all of us as simply as you can. I suggest a new thread merely because I feel that it is an important subject(s) and deserves at least one new thread of its own as well as not getting lost in the middele of another subject.

 

>but just one of its poorer cousins -- fantasy

>fulfillment, which is, I think you'll allow, one of the

>legitimate relations clients can establish with escorts.

 

And quite another important thing! However, there is sometimes set up an odd resonance between a poster's signature and his current subject.

 

 

>Please! Bilbo, do not perceive my words as being any sort of

>criticism of you or your comments, but merely a slight

>redirection of them. You're the very breath of perceptive

>understanding and always have something worthwhile and

>positive to contribute to any discussion.

>

 

Turn head, twist toe in carpet, blush. Thanks.

 

I agree with you that sometimes it seems difficult to get the Twink lovers to have a lot of sympathy for other facets of the gay male diamond. I'm suddenly trying to explain the Bear-Cub relationship in another thread. Not to someone critical, at least not yet that I've read so far, but ... However, am I correct in thinking that

"hyperorchidism" is the putting of large cocks in your butt. I take it that way form context but am afraid I might have been left behind somewhat by the word.

 

< In that light, comments regarding traffic

>pylons, haemorrhoids or telephone poles are entirely

>unsurprising as applied to my fantasy.

>

 

I do wish that some of those things had not been said, or if said had surprised the two of us more. The things we say around here to our allies sometimes! I would apologize, but you and I both realize that I didn't say that.

 

>I don't think that merely having an object of fantasy

>necessarily reduces the person fulfilling it to a mere object.

 

Any fantasy has an unfortunate tendency to reduce other people to only one or two sides of their whole diamond. And since I know that that is true, I have an unfortunate tendency to think I spot it sometimes when it isn't there. I'm not going to say that I didn't say that, because I did. But the emphasis is a bit different than the spin I tried to give it. My apologies, anyway.

 

>Although my

>fantasy certainly has its peculiarities, it's no more outré

>than those looking for "that special twink", and deserves just

>as much respect.

>

Amen!

 

> an extraordinary evening of participatory sexual

>theatre.

>

 

Since I'm in "reply with quotes" status, I simply couldn't allow this phrase to go past without saying, Bravo! Well put!

 

>Maybe I won't go to church this morning, having been preachy

>enough as it is. ;-)

 

May I say that if you are a member of an MCC congregation where regular church members hand out communion with a small prayer then I hope that you are one of the distributors. I think you would make a very interesting one!

 

Again, please seriously consider my request for a new thread (or more) about your spiritual search. I think that there would be a larger audience for it than you might expect. I know it might get buried in the Religion and Politics section, but if you use a thread title which will be descriptive enough of the contents to let one know what the package contains (I keep opening up Damn! Damn! Damn! having forgotten what it's about.) then I, for one, would welcome it with open arms.

[theDCeBOY]

RE: A PRIMER FOR THE SUPER-SIZED AND THEIR BOTTOM ADMIRERS

 

>Do you get off

>when you see that initial grimace as your client adjusts to

>your size?

no, i hate it. i stop all forward motion & make sure he's okay. i'm not trying to hurt anyone any more than i am in it to take advantage of someone. pleasure (and payment of course) is the goal.

>I don't like it slow and easy.

then take it from behind, bite the pillow, and grimace all you like.

[trilingual]

RE: A PRIMER FOR THE SUPER-SIZED AND THEIR BOTTOM ADMIR...

 

Thanks for the kind words, Bilbo. There's no time for me to write another version of this, from the bottom's standpoint. If some bottom can't figure out from this posting what to ask for, they're missing a few fuses! But I wrote it from the point of view of a top because I happen to think that it's the top who tends to be in control of the situation (with the usual consent of the bottom) and also because along with the privilege of being a super-hung stud come some responsibilities for knowing how to use that equipment! Just having a big dick doesn't make anyone a great sex partner! In fact, far too many well-hung guys think that all it takes is shoving it in to show their partner a good time, even if the partner is screaming "stop, take it out!" and meaning it!

 

Yes, of course I recognize that there are those among us who LIKE the rougher variants of sex, and there's nothing the matter with that. In that case, one of those slam-bang horse-hung types will undoubtedly fill the bill. But my guess is that the majority of guys don't like sex that's painful or can possibly cause injury. That's not their thrill. Regrettably, the number of really skillful top guys out there seems to be small, so any enlightenment I can shed will be to good purpose! Because when a top is REALLY good, he can take you places you never knew existed! That ought to be a skill worth aspiring to!!!

 

It would still be good to hear from some of the really skillful, well-hung tops out there, what THEY think and what they do to make sure they take their partners to the moon once they get in the saddle!

 

Oh, and the soapy ass thing: No, you don't want to dry out those delicate tissues, but that can probably be overcome by applying a bit of lube immediately afterward to any area with which soap came into contact! Another household hint from Heloise!