Client Cancellation

[Man Gaga]

On 9/8/2022 at 12:03 PM, NYCgymfitNEW said:

Hey guys... I have never had this happen before.  After a lot of back and forth, I scheduled a session with a provider.  I wound up testing positive for COVID and cancelled 30 hours before the scheduled time - I apologized and offered to pay half the fee.  The provider was really angry and felt I should pay the whole fee.  I generally try to be a fair guy - but - this didn't sit well with me.  I still said I would pay half - he basically said "F**ck you"... 

Thoughts?  

On this forum, dedicated to reviews of gay escorts much less, does the word "fuck" really offend participants so much that you have to censor it with **s?    

[NYCgymfitNEW]

23 hours ago, Luv2play said:

The op has not said how long the planned session was to be. In my case I have had the occasion to cancel within a day or two of the scheduled appointment. The last time it  happened was two months ago when I was in Toronto. It was for an overnight but not the date of my preference since I was going to have to stay an extra night.

When I cancelled I let him know upfront I would send him a cancellation fee of $200. He was happy when he got it after I got home a day later. I would not have considered sending him half of an overnight fee but for a shorter session of 1 or 2 hours yes a half would be reasonable, especially if it didnt leave him much time to make alternative arrangements.

Hey buddy... it was an hour session.  The provider wasn't making any special travel arrangements - it was pretty straightforward.  I actually have never been the one to cancel in the past - and his reaction made me wonder if I mishandled it.  And I was glad to see from most of the community here that it was a "him issue" - not a "me issue" lol. 

[NYCgymfitNEW]

On 9/8/2022 at 7:14 PM, azdr0710 said:

 

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hmmm......the power of this forum in action!.......perfectly handled, NYCgymfitNEW, and I hope......everybody.......here on the forum has learned from this! 

You are so right... the power of the forum in action!  Thanks buddy.

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, NYCgymfitNEW said:

Hey buddy... it was an hour session.  The provider wasn't making any special travel arrangements - it was pretty straightforward.  I actually have never been the one to cancel in the past - and his reaction made me wonder if I mishandled it.  And I was glad to see from most of the community here that it was a "him issue" - not a "me issue" lol. 

Why are you responding to my post of yesterday now when you already did so yesterday after I pointed out you had not stated in your original post how long the scheduled session was for? 

[NYCgymfitNEW]

1 hour ago, Luv2play said:

Why are you responding to my post of yesterday now when you already did so yesterday after I pointed out you had not stated in your original post how long the scheduled session was for? 

Hmmm... as you can see there were quite a few responses to the post - and DM's as well - which is new territory for me.  I saw that you had taken the time to write - which I appreciated - and thought I was being rude by not answering your original question.  That is "why I am responding to your post now"... with the information you asked.  Does that answer your question?

[D21howie]

Good morning.  You did the right thing about canceling when you found out that you had Covid.  You were generous by offering half of the fee for his trouble.     For him to come back and say f you is unacceptable.  That shows to me he doesn’t want your service in the future.  A lot of times I know personality is not a trait in some escorts.