(False??) Modesty

[axebahia]

Escorts, why is it that you can fuck a total stranger, but you want the curtains closed so the neighbors can't see (even if they aren't your own neighbors)?

[Guest DevonSFescort]

Isn't that a when-did-you-stop-beating-your-wife question?

 

Personally, I prefer having no curtains in my apartment, which gets wonderful light. But I do keep a tapestry on hand to tack up in the window for clients that prefer it.

[jasoncarter_dfw]

That's probably because I am a male human first, and an escort second. That being said, I would prefer the time I spend with my client to be special between us (and the readers of m4m in reviews, of course)and not privy to the voyeuristic impulses of unrelated third-parties.

 

- Jason Carter - Dallas, TX

- jason@sexyjasoncarter.com

- http://www.sexyjasoncarter.com

 

>Escorts, why is it that you can fuck a total stranger, but

>you want the curtains closed so the neighbors can't see (even

>if they aren't your own neighbors)?

[+ Lucky]

RE: More Telescopes Sold Here Than Anywhere!

 

Ad rian, I don't know the guys you are seeing, but a lot of guys don't mind the curtains open all the way! In New York City, it is not uncommon...lots of exhibionists! (Not me, though!)

[Rick Munroe]

I'm an open curtains kind of guy. OK, I'm just an open kind of guy, period.

[axebahia]

>I'm an open curtains kind of guy. OK, I'm just an open kind

>of guy, period.

 

Who opened you up? I thought you were just a top?

:o

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Total Strangers

 

A prospective client recently wrote me a note where he stated that I put him through an exhaustive pre-interview. I do not like to think of my clients as total strangers. While I can understand and totally appreciate the desire to engage in an hour of sweaty man to man action, I always try to engage my clients in as much prior communication as possible so we can have good rapport.

 

Granted, for some clients, this is neither desireable nor possible, and I either respect these boundaries or let them proceed to a different escort.

 

That said, while I have window treatments in my own bedroom, they are rarely, if ever, fully closed. Most of the other windows in my home, including the spare bedroom I use as my office, either have no window treatments or the windows are also always open. When I am traveling in other cities, I often leave the drape windows that many first class hotel use open, and only close the sheer curtains at the request of clients. I have also had sex, as recently as last week in San Franciso, in some very public places and personally see myself doing that again.

[Bilbo]

RE: Total Strangers

 

Once I was leaving the curtains open on my apartment in Denver all winter and it just kept getting colder and colder and I finally realized that I had left the window partially open behind the curtain and forgotten about it and it got frozen open? True story.

 

But think about it - If we are doing an illegal activity, why should we want to open ourselves to the view of third parties possibly interested for the wrong reasons? Even if it isn't anyone any more legally inclined than a neighbor whom you alerted that he could watch some fast action for free, don't most escorts charge extra if there is going to be a third person in the room, even if he is a voyeur who won't get involved in the action?

[btmstudnyc]

>Escorts, why is it that you can fuck a total stranger, but

>you want the curtains closed so the neighbors can't see (even

>if they aren't your own neighbors)?

 

Because I love anonymous sex privately.

 

and because I dont want neighbors to know my business...or a total stranger...that's why I throw them to the curb the minute the CUM.

 

and....the neighbors don't pay me.......

 

HELLO

 

JIM

[Guest fukamarine]

RE: Total Strangers

 

>I have also had sex, as recently as last week in San Franciso,

>in some very public places and personally see myself doing

>that again.

 

Sex in public places is my # 1 turn on! Please tell us the type of public place you were referring to - I might just have to make a trip to California this fall....

 

fukamarine.

 

PS - Speaking of California - does it bug anyone else the way Arnold pronounces the word? Drives me nuts.

[axebahia]

>that's why I throw them to the curb the

>minute the CUM.

 

Does that make you a clock-watcher or just a cock-watcher?;-)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Public Sex

 

Right below the Golden Gate Bridge, there is a beach that is considered the gay and nudist beach in San Francisco. It is a very attractive area, accessible, although it requires hiking. When I was in San Francisco, The City had one of its rare hot spells; the temperature hit in the upper 90s on many of these days, and when my client suggested public sex again (we had previously done it at the Luxor in Las Vegas, in one of their cheesy faux-Egyptian areas off the food court), I suggested the beach.

 

He got a sunburn, I got several blow jobs, we took a number of digital photographs of me (by myself) and we certainly got a few looks. San Francisco is a good city to try something like this, the police tend to be a little more tolerant of victimless crimes. However, public nudity and indeceny are both "offenses" for which the federal park police (this beach is part of the Golden Gate National Recreational Area) will issue a ticket, so it is important to be alert and aware. This is another reason why we limited our activities to mutual oral only.

 

I would think if you enjoy hiking and camping, there are any number of area where you can experience public sex. Joshua Tree National Monument in the Palm Springs area, the Russian River Resort area north of the Bay Area, the dunes in Provincetown, etc. Large public areas such as the casinos in Las Vegas, Union Station in Manhattan, the Field Museum in Chicago, among other places, are also places where I either have engaged in or contemplated some adventure.

 

I am sure others have any number of suggestions....

[axebahia]

RE: Public Sex in England

 

Sex with strangers dogging English parks

Fri 26 September, 2003 11:33 BST

 

By Jason Hopps

 

LONDON (Reuters) - Voyeurs and exhibitionists drawn to outdoor fun have discovered erotic pleasures in normally placid English parks that have nothing to do with walking the dog.

 

"Dogging", a term that loosely describes a variety of sex acts performed outdoors or in parked cars in front of strangers (and sometimes with them), has become such a craze that health authorities have warned against its dangers.

 

The term "dogging" apparently comes from those who claim only to be "taking the dog for a walk" -- but are actually on the prowl for something more.

 

Web sites have sprung up across Britain extolling the pleasures of sex under the stars and online message boards list the best parks and carparks to watch people express themselves.

 

An academic who set out to study anti-social behaviour in parks and stumbled on a thriving dogging underworld said dangers were also lurking in the bushes.

 

"The problem is people are leaving behind condoms, lubricants and sometimes clothing at family sites and causing cleaning headaches for groundspeople," Richard Byrne, a countryside management lecturer at Harper Adams College, told Reuters on Friday.

 

"Prostitutes have been moving into some of these areas and I know of cases where some people have been attacked while dogging," he said.

 

Byrne said he surveyed park managers, rangers and wardens across England and found dogging sites existed in every English county -- hundreds are dotted across the country -- from the south coast to the Scottish border.

 

"I soon realised that dogging was being driven by the Internet and was very widespread and that some doggers take it quite seriously, wearing camouflage and even keeping diaries of their experiences," he said.

 

FLASHING LIGHTS

 

Among the dozens of dogging Web sites, several offer tips on finding the best locations, how to meet people "to dog" with and how to signal you want to watch -- or be watched.

 

"There's loads of signals that doggers use, the most common are flashing lights. Leaving the inside car light on means they want to be watched. If they wind down the window, this means they want to be fondled," one site advises.

 

Health authorities in southeast England posted warnings on dogging web sites after discovering several cases of sexually transmitted diseases linked to the outdoor pursuit.

 

"We noticed a more than usual number of notifications of Hepatitis B and when we were investigating we found that some of them were involved in the practice of having sex with strangers in open places," said Dr Mathi Chandrakumar, head of the Kent Health Protection Unit.

 

"We are not passing moral judgement, we are only giving advice about the dangers," he said.

 

While acknowledging doggers are a determined breed, Byrne said he had proposed several ways to prevent the behaviour -- including more police patrols -- but he has already ruled out one remedy.

 

"We thought better lighting in parks might prevent it but it actually allows them to see what they're doing better," he said.

[AaronScottDC]

RE: Public Sex in England

 

>While acknowledging doggers are a determined breed, Byrne said

>he had proposed several ways to prevent the behaviour --

>including more police patrols -- but he has already ruled out

>one remedy.

>

>"We thought better lighting in parks might prevent it but it

>actually allows them to see what they're doing better," he

>said.

 

 

You go, Brits! I think this article is great! }( :-) :9

 

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[+ Cock Eyed Optimist]

If I remember correctly, your hotel room curtains were open when we "did it" a few weeks ago in front of the myriad of spiders crawling on the outside of your hotel window. I've never seen so many spiders in one place! At least we gave them a good show! }(

[btmstudnyc]

>>that's why I throw them to the curb the

>>minute they CUM.

>

>Does that make you a clock-watcher or just a cock-watcher?;-)

>

 

Yes..I am the clock watcher and the neighbor is the cock watcher...I watch the clock to see how long it takes for the neighbor to see and watch my cock

 

If it dont fit, force it

btmstudnyc@aol.com

[jackhammer91406]

Lucky neighbor...I'd be watching some other body part.....}(

[Guest LittleBlondBoy]

I wonder the same thing, I fortunately, do not have that issue, LOL

I like public play with my Other

(am an exhibitionist)

http://www.rentaboy18.freehomepage.com

http://www.Daddyandboy.net