CheckCar Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 My libido wanes from time to time, for a variety of reasons. Out of curiosity, I’m wondering how others manage loss of libido. Do you try to counteract the loss and regain your libido, or do you occupy your time with other pursuits? Sometimes I wonder if it’s a blessing in disguise. Kevin Slater and + jeezopete 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 7 minutes ago, CheckCar said: Sometimes I wonder if it’s a blessing in disguise. You're gonna save a lot of $$$. + Unicorn, BtmBearDad, + Pensant and 3 others 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Just Sayin Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 good topic, as many of us are of that certain age! I have wondered at what time desire fades; in fact, I had this conversation with the young man I am currently seeing; I find that on the weekends, libido is high; when I go to the office, it seems to wane! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheckCar Posted July 21, 2022 Author Share Posted July 21, 2022 46 minutes ago, glutes said: You're gonna save a lot of $$$. No appointments since mid-June, so absolutely a money saver Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BtmBearDad Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 Loss or slowing down of libido can result from many factors - it’s not strictly an age thing. Stress, other health conditions, medications, lifestyle choices, diet, emotional/mental health issues, et al. Just like there’s really no one cause, there’s also no one cure. For some, cialis/viagra/etc. do the trick, others use OTC supplements successfully, some require diet and/or lifestyle changes, and for others a medical plan with their doctor is needed. There are a number of doctors on this forum who can provide far more informative replies, on causes, treatments, etc.. You may want to run a search on here for libido, or ED, and have a read thru for some further information. BBD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 WHY would you lament the loss of libido ? To me ..my libido seems a curse. I am horny 24/7 which distracts me way too much from work and in my ( limited) free time. I'd probably enjoy life a bit more, if I wasn't trying to line up play dates all the time. + glutes, Rand, + Pensant and 4 others 2 1 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sync Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 My libido has definitely waned. I attribute it to several factors: my age the provider environment, from my perspective, has become much more intense with upselling and misrepresentations along with last-minute cancellations or no-shows, and skyrocketing price points the pandemic and other transmissibles my resistance to tattoos and piercings, which seem to be everywhere travel time to/from appointments In my case the old "if you don't use it, you lose it" seems to apply. I'm quite content with my memories and fantasies for the present. The funds I'm saving also helps. 🙂 sydneyboy, Lookin, + glutes and 5 others 2 1 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 42 minutes ago, sync said: In my case the old "if you don't use it, you lose it" seems to apply. I spent two years during the pandemic keeping my dick at home with my wife. We married as best friends so our sex life has never been *Energizer Bunny* just pleasant and comfortable. Didn't touch any male playmates throughout....so frequency was down. ( We've been married for 15 years )...so .... But. Now I am less concerned about health issues / everyone is vaccinated + boosted and the boyz are getting themselves vaxxed for the monkey pox, I am back in the saddle and more sexually active. I don't see any difference in my libido. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sync Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 10 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: I spent two years during the pandemic keeping my dick at home with my wife. We married as best friends so our sex life has never been *Energizer Bunny* just pleasant and comfortable. Didn't touch any male playmates throughout....so frequency was down. ( We've been married for 15 years )...so .... But. Now I am less concerned about health issues / everyone is vaccinated + boosted and the boyz are getting themselves vaxxed for the monkey pox, I am back in the saddle and more sexually active. I don't see any difference in my libido. Good on you, but take care of yourself. Even many of the vaccinated and boosted are becoming/have become infected and, consequently, also carriers. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 1 hour ago, sync said: My libido has definitely waned. I attribute it to several factors: my age the provider environment, from my perspective, has become much more intense with upselling and misrepresentations along with last-minute cancellations or no-shows, and skyrocketing price points the pandemic and other transmissibles my resistance to tattoos and piercings, which seem to be everywhere travel time to/from appointments In my case the old "if you don't use it, you lose it" seems to apply. I'm quite content with my memories and fantasies for the present. The funds I'm saving also helps. 🙂 I couldn't agree with your points more. And well stated! + sync, + cougar and Lookin 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 50 minutes ago, sync said: Good on you, but take care of yourself. Even many of the vaccinated and boosted are becoming/have become infected and, consequently, also carriers. Yes. I am well aware of how it all works. But thanks. I live in NYC and checked for Covid frequently. + sync and CheckCar 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheckCar Posted July 22, 2022 Author Share Posted July 22, 2022 Thanks to those who have posted on this thread. I appreciate the thoughts shared thus far. I am also eager to hear others’ replies to this question from the original post: ”Do you try to counteract the loss and regain your libido, or do you occupy your time with other pursuits?” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheckCar Posted July 23, 2022 Author Share Posted July 23, 2022 On 7/21/2022 at 3:54 PM, pubic_assistance said: WHY would you lament the loss of libido ? To me ..my libido seems a curse. I am horny 24/7 which distracts me way too much from work and in my ( limited) free time. I'd probably enjoy life a bit more, if I wasn't trying to line up play dates all the time. @pubic_assistance As monkey pox becomes a greater menace, I increasingly find myself appreciating the question you posed. I’m lamenting the loss of libido less and less. + glutes and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rod Hagen Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 (edited) I would suggest you do not simply occupy yourself with other pursuits, but instead endeavor to counteract the loss. I've met many men who've lost years of sex after allowing a loss of libido to overwhelm them. That's sad. "Fake it till you make it" could put you back on track, in other words focus on the memory of excitement while doing something that used to excite you, and you may be surprised to find out, you're excited! Sex rocks, don't give up on it. Edited July 24, 2022 by Rod Hagen + nycman, + Just Sayin, + Pensant and 7 others 3 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GroilAce Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 Thank you all, you helped me a lot in this matter... Rod Hagen 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted July 27, 2022 Share Posted July 27, 2022 On 7/23/2022 at 3:51 PM, CheckCar said: @pubic_assistance As monkey pox becomes a greater menace, I increasingly find myself appreciating the question you posed. I’m lamenting the loss of libido less and less. Timing is everything. CheckCar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted July 27, 2022 Share Posted July 27, 2022 Weightlifting for an hour at the gym still makes me incredibly horny. Highly recommended if you want a recharge. Bonus horny points if you use a young hot trainer + nycman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaronArtz Posted August 2, 2022 Share Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) On 7/21/2022 at 11:21 PM, CheckCar said: Thanks to those who have posted on this thread. I appreciate the thoughts shared thus far. I am also eager to hear others’ replies to this question from the original post: ”Do you try to counteract the loss and regain your libido, or do you occupy your time with other pursuits?” I am taking medication to alleviate high blood pressure which, I think, has influenced my libido and caused erectile problems. On top of that, monkey pox is a concern right now because I have not yet been able to get the vaccine. I am not hiring until I do. In terms of other pursuits - I have been watching more porn. Also, I have gotten friendly with a few mega-hot live cam performers out of Colombia. But it is not the same thing, Edited August 2, 2022 by BaronArtz CheckCar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted August 2, 2022 Share Posted August 2, 2022 My libido continues to thrive, so much so I occasionally wonder if I have a sex compulsion issue! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Unicorn Posted August 3, 2022 Share Posted August 3, 2022 On 7/27/2022 at 3:55 PM, dbar123 said: Weightlifting for an hour at the gym still makes me incredibly horny.... Well, I assumed it was due to all of the buffed up dudes and pheromones stimulating my gonads.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted August 3, 2022 Share Posted August 3, 2022 I hire a slutty muscle jock bottom and fuck him silly. Works every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheckCar Posted August 4, 2022 Author Share Posted August 4, 2022 On 8/2/2022 at 10:08 AM, BaronArtz said: I am taking medication to alleviate high blood pressure which, I think, has influenced my libido and caused erectile problems. On top of that, monkey pox is a concern right now because I have not yet been able to get the vaccine. I am not hiring until I do. In terms of other pursuits - I have been watching more porn. Also, I have gotten friendly with a few mega-hot live cam performers out of Colombia. But it is not the same thing, @BaronArtz: I’ve never tried the live cam performers. I might check them out; a new experience like that might titillate my libido, especially as I—like you—hold off on hiring while until I can get the monkeypox vaccine. Any particular live cam sites you’d recommend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaronArtz Posted August 4, 2022 Share Posted August 4, 2022 I use www.rmlivecams.com for which a link is provided on the main page of rentmen.com. This webpage is a feeder into flirt4free.com I do like the Colombian guys a lot - great bodies and a playful attitude. Unfortunately, the models don't make all that much money off it - the owners of the webpage and the local studios some work for get the lion's share. But that is a different discussion. CheckCar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sydneyboy Posted August 11, 2022 Share Posted August 11, 2022 On 8/4/2022 at 6:31 PM, BaronArtz said: I use www.rmlivecams.com for which a link is provided on the main page of rentmen.com. This webpage is a feeder into flirt4free.com I do like the Colombian guys a lot - great bodies and a playful attitude. Unfortunately, the models don't make all that much money off it - the owners of the webpage and the local studios some work for get the lion's share. But that is a different discussion. Regrettably far too many disfigured by hideous tattoos. I find them a total passion killer. BaronArtz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sydneyboy Posted August 11, 2022 Share Posted August 11, 2022 Could I ask what I hope is not too dumb a question. Does Viagra work better if you lose weight? If your say 115kgs and you get down to say 90 is the drug more potent because there is less of you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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