I offended a provider on a hookup site

[JTtorretto]

On 7/13/2022 at 8:34 PM, DrownedBoy said:

When you asked about him being an escort

But he did NOT ask him if he was an escort; he asked if he was a "sex worker".   👎🏻
 

I would also take offense to being called a sex worker.  
 

Now if asked "aren't you a hooker?" = I'd have laughed and thought u were a dick but at least funny. 

 

 

 

 

 

The difference is subtle but is there.

[starman05]

I can see this from both sides. if the guy's not saying he's looking for a paid encounter, then he's there for fun.

Or is he? I've had my experiences on GRINDR where I think we're getting along fine and then the guy says 'wait you know I'm looking for 'gen' right?' 

I'm so tired of those guys -- especially, are they initiate contact and let things progress before springing that they expect to be paid. 

Sometimes, I just say 'sure, shoot me a rate sheet and a pic of your taint' and then hit block. 

It's hard out there. 

Not to mention depressing as all fuck. 

[+ Italiano]

4 hours ago, starman05 said:

I can see this from both sides. if the guy's not saying he's looking for a paid encounter, then he's there for fun.

Or is he? I've had my experiences on GRINDR where I think we're getting along fine and then the guy says 'wait you know I'm looking for 'gen' right?' 

I'm so tired of those guys -- especially, are they initiate contact and let things progress before springing that they expect to be paid. 

Sometimes, I just say 'sure, shoot me a rate sheet and a pic of your taint' and then hit block. 

 

SO true.

When they tell me after minutes of chatting (pretending they like me..) that they are looking for "gen", I  usually reply "Me too!" and the conversation is over. 😎

[starman05]

10 hours ago, Italiano said:

SO true.

When they tell me after minutes of chatting (pretending they like me..) that they are looking for "gen", I  usually reply "Me too!" and the conversation is over. 😎

'me too' 

I might steal that. I'm a solid maybe almost 7 on the best day of my life but my dick is a 9. (Well, it's also an 8 but it's a 9 too, if that makes sense.) I feel like I just want to say 'I'm hung and it's a beautiful thick mushroom head that makes it look even better and I'm holding out for 'gen' too.'