arriving early for an appointment with an Escort

[Mac 100]

Last Saturday I was in London to see a Matinee of a Musical and wished to see an Escort when the show finished. I phoned Othello who informed me when I left the Theatre to get the Subway along to Barons Court and phone him from the telephone outside the Subway when he would give me the details of where he lived in Barons Court.

 

I understood the show Matinee finished at 5.30pm so I informed Othello I would phone him at 6pm. the show finished at 5pm and I was along outside Barons Court at 5.30pm. I phoned the person above who was very annoyed I had phoned early as he was in Earls Court drinking Coffee.

 

I was informed to get myself a cup of coffee or just walk round the streets for 30 minutes until 6pm when I was to phone back and Othello would give me details of where he lived and how to get to his apartment.

 

What I cannot understand is how rude and nasty he was on the phone. I do not frequent using Escorts that often in London and the tone of his voice just put me of.

 

I hung around for 30 minutes phoned him back he gave me his address in a very grudging tome of voice so I decided to for go the appointment due to the way I was spoken to through phoning early.

 

What I would like to know would you guys rather not have a Client phone early rather then late? when you would be wondering if the Client was going to phone at all? and in the meantime you could be turning away business

 

Mac

 

ps.here was how he sounded on the phone: " how dare you call me at 5:30 PM when you told me you going to call me at 6:00 pm."

[+ Lucky]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

Why not just wait until the appointed time? Escorts have a right to get ready too, and they are not at your beck and call.....

[marc anthony]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

Your escort had every right to be "caught off guard" and surprised by your early call, but really shouldn't have been so rude either. Most courteous people, or even discourteous people who have any business sense, would simply have said, "You are early. Sorry, but you have caught me offguard. Can you call me back at the appointed time, and then I will be ready to give you my full attention?"

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Yes and No

 

Yes, it would have been better to kill some time. I have arrived early at appointments and I have sat in my car and read for a bit before knocking. However, there is never an excuse for rudeness, even to be surprised. The person calling could have been another prospect, and even once you identified yourself, that should have prompted better phone manner than appears to have been exhibited.

 

Frankly, I would have gone elsewhere.

 

 

everyone wants sex but no one wants to pay for it.

[Boston Guy]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

Oh, my!

 

It's one thing to show up on someone's doorstep 30 minutes early; it's seems quite another to call up and say "I'm running unexpectedly early; I'm nearby and if it's convenient for you, we can get together now or we can still meet at the original time. It's up to you and either choice is okay with me."

 

That IS what you said when you called him early, right??

 

Arriving 30 minutes early for an appointment would generally seem to be too much. I think I might have strolled about for a bit before calling. Nevertheless, his rudeness was completely uncalled for, even more so since his directions to you were not time-specific. He told you to come out after the matinee and to call upon arrival, which you did do.

 

I think I might well have told him then and there that I must have caught him on a bad day and that perhaps we just should skip the appointment. If he's rude on the phone at 5:30, why expect him to be pleasant in person at 6:00?

 

BG

[Cooper]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

Mac,

First off, I hope you enjoyed the musical, if not, it really was a foggy day in London! I'm laughing at this escorts name "Othello", you sure that wasn't the show's name?

 

Now Mac, tell me how you would feel in the following situation. You've called for a taxi to take you to the theatre. The driver shows up 30 minutes early and you're not ready. He's outside honking away and you are rushing around trying to get ready to go out. Wouldn't that upset you? Honk-Honk "hey you little "____", you're early give me time to get ready and stop honking that "____ing" horn!"

Sound familiar? Well, that's how "Othello" probably felt.

 

The rudeness on your first call, although not polite, is understandable, however, when you called back 30 minutes later, his attitude should have changed. Since you felt it didn't, you did the right thing. Perhaps, in the future, "Othello" will treat the client in a kinder and gentler way, otherwise, he's going to see his stock decline. (How's the economy doing these day in London?)

 

Good luck in the future, if you ever need advice on NYC escorts, give me post...

Cooper

[Guest Thunderbuns]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

>Now Mac, tell me how you would feel in the following

>situation. You've called for a taxi to take you to the

>theatre. The driver shows up 30 minutes early and you're not

>ready. He's outside honking away and you are rushing around

>trying to get ready to go out>

 

We seem to have lost site of a couple of things here. The client did not show up at the escorts door - he phoned him. If an early taxi driver phoned first, what would be the big deal?

 

BUT....... The escort was not "rushing around, getting ready". Read what the original post says. The escort was in Earls Court, drinking coffee for fucks sake! Pardon me for interupting his cup of Starbucks!

 

Thunderbuns

[Bilbo]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

But, Thunderbuns, that could mean that he was one step further away from ready than the rushing around stage. Perhaps he had had A Day and was relaxing so as to be nicer to his client, perhaps relaxed a little too long without realizing it and was just about to rush home and rush around. Suddenly, he startled by a man halfway to his door from downtown and has recently read a thread about how some people don't like a messy apartment when they visit an escort. }> Still and all, he sounds like he did come off more rough than startled and harried.

[Cooper]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

Thunderbuns,

Christ! did you misss the point. My thoughts went right over your head...Next time you attempt to reply to one of my posts, try not to think! Let others do that for you...

[Boston Guy]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

>The rudeness on your first call, although not polite, is

>understandable, however, when you called back 30 minutes

>later, his attitude should have changed.

 

Sorry to disagree, but I think his rudeness was neither understandable nor acceptable.

 

If we step back a bit, we have here a guy who's relaxing, having a cup of coffee in anticipation of getting together with a client in 30 minutes. Since he's not even at home, one would expect that both he and his flat are most likely pretty ready to be seen in 30 minutes, but that isn't even germane.

 

In a previous conversation, he told the client to take the tube from the matinee and to call him when he arrived. Both assumed that would be around 6:00 pm. The client followed his directions and simply arrived at the station early.

 

Telling the client -- nicely -- that he was engaged and wouldn't be able to meet with him until the expected time would have been perfectly okay. Asking the client to call back in 30 minutes would have been okay. Being rude was not okay.

 

The world is not nearly as polite today as it once was, alas. We all encounter rudeness regularly. But it's quite a different thing to have someone be rude on a telephone call, where the rudeness is quite clearly targeted at us.

 

Perhaps the escort felt the client was being rude by calling (not arriving) early. Perhaps he felt that calling was tantamount to arriving. It doesn't matter. His response should have been polite. Rudeness is not acceptable.

 

Worse, I suppose, is that the person he was being rude to was (a) someone he was going to try to be quite nice to in 30 minutes, not to mention intimate; and (b) a paying client.

 

I have encountered escorts from time to time who seem to take the reverse attitude of those described in another thread. These are escorts who start to believe the things that clients say to them and begin to think they are better than or somehow above the rest of us mere mortals. I don't know if Othello is one of those who have to come feel this way. But who those do seem to slip into rudeness quite quickly.

 

Rudeness is not acceptable. There are many ways to respond to people without being rude. The client in this case was quite right to cancel the appointment.

[Guest Thunderbuns]

RE: arriving early for an appointment

 

>Thunderbuns,

>Christ! did you misss the point. My thoughts went right over

>your head...Next time you attempt to reply to one of my

>posts, try not to think! Let others do that for you...

 

Cooper - who let you out of your cage this morning?

 

Did it ever occur to you that if I missed your point, it just might be because it was so obscure that, Sherlock Holmes would have difficulty in finding it?

 

So don't tell me not to think! Brush up on your writing skills.

 

Thunderbuns

[Guest daricous]

arriving early for an appointment

 

if something like this hapen, client need to be polite and profesional, anyway means possible. you probably caught him off guard,thats explain why he was rude to you.But he shouldn't have, also shows of his profesional charackter.;-)