Inter-racial Clientele

[Guest Merlin]

RE: self-loathing?

 

I disagree with your theory of sexual attraction. I believe that at some point, probably in early puberty, when we first become aware of sex and attraction, one or several people seem very attractive to us, and that thereafter their "types" are likely to be our prefered types. Since we are most likely to be attracted to people near us at that early age, they are more likely to be from our own ethinic "type"--but not necessarily. This explains why how and why people in distant lands find each other attractive, while they do not seem so to us. Many cultures practise various forms of body modification, tatooing, or painting which they consider quite attractive sexually but we consider unattractive. Again it is because, as they are awakening sexually, this type is what they see.

[Guest aarongreyLa]

RE: self-loathing?

 

It is what they see and it is a symbol of social beauty particular to that region that will give the family prestige, fame or longevity. Just like all the things that we select for in this country: cute, white, tall, muscular, straight or straight acting, financially set, those other cultures select for their own vision of the above characteristics. It has been statistically proven that tall, white, cute, straight acting males are more likely to get better jobs and promotions especially in corporate America. That is an American cultural nuance. Anthropologically we all live in this society and gather constant information-social cues-about what type of mate would increase our position in life. This is one of those things that are in your genetic structure. You do not think about is methodically while it is happening, Just as you do not rationalize pulling your hand out of fire or running from immanent danger. You just do it. Self-preservation is one of those innate forces.

 

Human beings often forget that they are animals too, myself included. It is easy to become encapsulated with your day-to-day individuality to not realize all of the innate forces that are acting on you. I would argue that part of sexual attraction is innate, unexplainable. You fall in love with the type that you are attracted to, pure and simple. Another part of sexual attraction is also innate but innately calculating. This part of sexuality tells you what mate is best to select for in this given environment. It is America so you would naturally select for the traits that would aid your offspring and your social mobility. Female birds do it by choosing the, largest, fastest, loudest male bird with the best configuration of feather color etc. There are tons of examples I can think of but, at the risk of feeling like I am at a zoo, I will stop. I think you get my point. That is cool that you disagreed though. I cannot tell you how much I learn from

 

 

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[Guest aarongreyLa]

RE: self-loathing?

 

I guess the last part of that sentence got cut off. I wanted to say that i learn a lot form being wrong and i think that it is cool that you disagree. Thank you.

 

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[Guest seraph250]

A lot of posts here talk about what people find attractive and what they don't, but that has nothing to do with the topic of this thread. Escorts have sex with people they don't find attractive all the time. If they would only agree to have sex with people they found attractive that would defeat the whole purpose of hiring an escort and clients might as well just go to a bar and pick up someone rather than pay for it.

 

When an escort says he won't see black people period he is saying a lot more than that he doesn't find black people attractive. He is saying he finds their racial characteristics so revolting that even though he will see people who are fat, old and unattractive in other ways he can't stand to see black people. That is real racial prejudice.

[Bilbo]

Don't discount the fact that a lot of the same dodos who won't see any Black guys are also missing out on other adventures, too, because they also say they won't see people because of the other things you listed.

[Guest DCeBOY]

RE: self-loathing?

 

i'd do just about anything for you, aaron, but the one thing i cannot do is allow you to use the 'laws of nature argument' in talking about what GAY MEN find attractive.

sorry, punkin, but gay men aren't following some primal drive to procreate when they have sex. they are, in fact, subverting any such law. gay such does NOT lead to procreation. it can't. men don't bear children.

so, when gay men screw, they aren't just following natural urges to spread their seed. when they make the attractive/not attractive decision (even on a subconscious level), they aren't obeying some biologically hard-wired estimation of that person's ability to bear & raise children. it is, at least with us fags, more complicated than that. i guess we're special, after all.

[Guest DCeBOY]

no, he isn't. he doesn't mention being revolted at all. he says he chooses not to see certain clients. you can read into it what you will.

[ad rian]

>no, he isn't. he doesn't mention being

>revolted at all. he says he chooses not to see certain

>clients. you can read into it what you will.

 

If it legitimate for an escort to not want to service black clients, might it mot also be legitimate for a client to not want to be serviced by an Israeli (n.b., I did not say jewish) escort hiding behind a "Mediterranean" brand name, or is hate-mongering a one way street?

[Guest DCeBOY]

my lot in life

 

great! another anti-semitic stalker! it almost makes me nostalgic for the communist musings of jizzdepapi.

 

anyway, since i'm not going to permit myself to be baited by this idiot, i'll be imposing something of an internal gag order on myself for a while.

 

ad, if a client prefers not to be seen by an israeli, fine; he can & should say so. however, that client is an idiot if he thinks that an israeli born in israel is not mediterranean. it is simply a matter of geography. israel borders the sea. make ill-informed & ridiculous statements about heritage as much as you want, but it won't make them true. you've obviously got serious problems with the state of israel and her jewish citizens (you don't seem to mind her non-jewish citizenry). that's fine as well. you and your hamas comrades will continue to be quite unhappy though, for she isn't going anywhere.

[Guest regulation]

RE: my lot in life

 

>anyway, since i'm not going to permit myself to be baited by

>this idiot, i'll be imposing something of an internal gag

>order on myself for a while.

>

>ad, if a client prefers not to be seen by an israeli, fine;

>he can & should say so. however, that client is an idiot if

>he thinks that an israeli born in israel is not

>mediterranean. it is simply a matter of geography. israel

>borders the sea. make ill-informed & ridiculous statements

>about heritage as much as you want, but it won't make them

>true. you've obviously got serious problems with the state

>of israel and her jewish citizens (you don't seem to mind

>her non-jewish citizenry). that's fine as well. you and your

>hamas comrades will continue to be quite unhappy though, for

>she isn't going anywhere.

 

 

Pleased to see you didn't permit yourself to be baited.

 

Seriously, calling anyone an anti-Semite or terrorist whose remarks could by even the wildest misconstruction be considered critical of Israel or Israelis makes you look ridiculous. I believe I am one of several people who have pointed this out.

 

I fail to see why a client who does not care to hire Jewish or Israeli escorts is to be labeled a bigot or worse, while an escort who tells black clients not to bother contacting him is merely being commendably honest about what turns him on. I believe that was ad rian's point, and it is a perfectly valid one. If you are going to make excuses for escorts who reject clients solely on the basis of their ethnicity, and you certainly have done so in this thread, you have no business criticizing clients who do the same.

[Guest DCeBOY]

some people don't pay attention

 

>Pleased to see you didn't permit yourself to be baited.

 

i wasn't baited into a an escalating series of personal attacks. i'm not going to do that with you, either. the fact remains that i answered the question he posed.

 

>Seriously, calling anyone an anti-Semite or terrorist whose

>remarks could by even the wildest misconstruction be

>considered critical of Israel or Israelis makes you look

>ridiculous. I believe I am one of several people who have

>pointed this out.

 

maybe if you actually read my post, instead of just anticipating it, you'd see that i did not do what you claim i did. ad rian has issues with jewish israelis. i don't think he'd deny that. do i think he's an anti-semite? you bet. did i call any client an anti-semite because he doesn't want to see israelis? no, i did not. what i said was that anyone who makes a blanket statement that no israeli is 'mediterranean' is an idiot. i really don't care if you think i'm ridiculous or not. the simple fact is that you didn't pay attention to what i posted when you responded to it.

 

>I fail to see why a client who does not care to hire Jewish

>or Israeli escorts is to be labeled a bigot or worse,

 

again, you didn't read my post. the client isn't a bigot. i support john & other escorts saying so if they don't care to see black clients. likewise, i support clients following their own preferences. i didn't call any such client a bigot. the only thing i said was if a client ignores geography & says that no israeli is mediterranean, he's an idiot. i stand behind what i said.

 

>you have no business criticizing clients who do the same.

 

i didn't.

[Brodney]

Like Mr. Munroe i don't have a problem with escorts that say they are not attracted to another race and would prefer not to have them as clients. Everyone has a right to choose who they want to have sex with. The problem I have is when certain escorts know that they would never see a black or ethnic client but fail to let the client know about it. I am a very attractive blackguy that trains and stays in good shape. I get hit on all the time by guys but i am not out yet so i prefer to have discreet encounters via certain escorts. I am attracted to the opposite of my race(white guys). There have been a couple of encounters with white escorts who once they figured out that i was black, kept leading me on about booking an appointment hoping that i would finally give up after numerous cancellations on their part. I dont understand what the problem is with being straight up with a client and just stating that you are not interested in clients outside your race. I could definitely respect that more than being led on a wild goose chase. I have wasted hours of my time trying to hook up with appointments that were made with 2 certain escorts who really had no intentions in the beginning on seeing black clients. I would get to the incall and either they would not be there or say that something came up and they need to reschedule. Everything was fine when i talked to them on the phone but when they saw that i was black it seemed their facial expression turned dumbfounded and i got excuses on why they had to cancel.One escort for instance was Mikel of Atlanta.

 

I dont think its racist for an escort to say that he is not sexually attracted to another race. I only find it offensive when they know this and wont let the potential client know. I am a professional business man and just like an escort's time means money to them so does mine. But i do have to say aside from 3 escorts who have done that crap to me here in atlanta, 99% of the rest usually respond with a very pleased face when they see me saying that they dont get a lot of attractive clients like me and asks have i ever considered escorting myself cause i could rack up!!So i accept the good with the bad. I just wish people could be real and upfront about their preferences!!

If you continually let white dudes waste your time, it's your own fault.

[+ not2rowdy]

Interesting. Reopening of a thread last commented on over 15 years ago.

 

Wonder if anyone remembers any of the previous thread contributors?

 

But I remember prior to joining the forum I did quite a bit of old thread research too.

 

So all is well.