RELATIONSHIP - CLIENT AND MASSEUR

[bendable2019]

Has anyone been approached by an escort who wants to marry him? Then what happened?

[+ FrankR]

Has anyone been approached by an escort who wants to marry him? Then what happened?

So this just happened to me a few days ago. Provider is on a student visa that expires end of year. I declined the proposal. Was pretty awkward there for a few minutes, wont go into details, but we talked about it and the moment passed. I heard back from the provider this morning - no hard feelings, it is all good. He found somebody else willing to accommodate. And do I want to meet up this week? ?

[+ WestGuy]

So this just happened to me a few days ago. Provider is on a student visa that expires end of year. I declined the proposal. Was pretty awkward there for a few minutes, wont go into details, but we talked about it and the moment passed. I heard back from the provider this morning - no hard feelings, it is all good. He found somebody else willing to accommodate. And do I want to meet up this week? ?

 

You were wise to do so I think. This situation is rife with immigration fraud and in the current enforcement environment you would be running a substantial risk of prosecution.

[+ FrankR]

You were wise to do so I think. This situation is rife with immigration fraud and in the current enforcement environment you would be running a substantial risk of prosecution.

True. That was but one of many considerations... ?

[jjkrkwood]

Has anyone been approached by an escort who wants to marry him? Then what happened?

 

One of them buys a pretty white dress, signs a Pre-nup and gets married.

[KeepItReal]

... I heard back from the provider this morning - no hard feelings, it is all good. He found somebody else willing to accommodate. And do I want to meet up this week? ?

Of course he asked you to meet up this week! He's got a wedding to pay for!! :D

[sexymonk]

This type of relationship if it happens is pure business, pure out of materialistic desire for money! Providers may ask for pre nup, arrangement and deals. Are these relationship fundamentally based on trust, compassion, love? No. Once agenda is served providers or client may look for exit door and the relationship is likely to fail. Also, money or material object is a peculiar thing which hijacks brain due to production of dopamine chemical- same effect it produces for list, greed, power! And guess what? The "want more" thing kicks in and unless you get more than previous instances then no excitement or interest. I would say don't go that way! Keep these relations professional with human touch and simply enjoy the time. If you got one good attractive provider on rm then as you meet more guys then statistically you will hit more nice providers! Enjoy them! Just make sure that in this your wallet is full to have buying power and enjoy the life! ?.

[hypothetically]

Has anyone been approached by an escort who wants to marry him? Then what happened?

 

Prior to obtaining a visa, I was propositioned by a handful of clients to get married for PAX documentation (that’s like a civil union here in Paris) so that I could stay. I would never. That’s a recipe for disaster.

[KeepItReal]

This type of relationship if it happens is pure business, pure out of materialistic desire for money! Providers may ask for pre nup, arrangement and deals. Are these relationship fundamentally based on trust, compassion, love? No. Once agenda is served providers or client may look for exit door and the relationship is likely to fail. Also, money or material object is a peculiar thing which hijacks brain due to production of dopamine chemical- same effect it produces for list, greed, power! And guess what? The "want more" thing kicks in and unless you get more than previous instances then no excitement or interest. I would say don't go that way! Keep these relations professional with human touch and simply enjoy the time. If you got one good attractive provider on rm then as you meet more guys then statistically you will hit more nice providers! Enjoy them! Just make sure that in this your wallet is full to have buying power and enjoy the life! ?.

It would certainly be a fundamental change in the current relationship.

 

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